I hope everyone can find the perfect answer to this, keep us posted in your journey. Do you and your wife have alot of sex together ?
Expanding Hotwife Situation Responsibly
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My wife and I swing. Part of the fun we have with the lifestyle is hotwifing. I totally get off on my wife fucking other people, but we also play with others as a couple. I see your concern, but as long as you and your hotwife remember that the base requirements for a successful relationship in the lifestyle are communication, openness, honesty, and trust, you should be fine.
Discuss your concerns as well as your turn ons with each other. Let her know that you're open to her expanding her fun, but that you want to know if she ever has any concerns and let her know that you will be letting her know if you ever start feeling uncomfortable with the situation.
Also keep in mind that hotwifing isn't cuckolding. It doesn't have to involve you being a sub or any kind of humiliation. If you're interested, discuss you getting involved in the fun, too! Instead of it just being you watching or her playing alone with her bulls, consider making it a full-on threesome (or more!). One of my favorite situations is fucklicking, where she and I are in 69 with her on top and him fucking her. I get the best seat in the house to watch him thrust into her while I lick and suck her clit and his cock when he pulls out and feeds their combined juices to me.
There are so many possibilities that are available to you. Discuss it all as a couple, decide what you're comfortable with, and let it happen! If either of you starts to have concerns about anything, discuss that too. Don't block yourselves from exploring some awesome experiences because you're afraid it might go too far. Make the experiences happen and keep the lines of communication open to PREVENT things from growing beyond what either of you feels comfortable with.
Wow. Thank you very much man. Absolutely awesome response.
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No problem, Brock. My wife and I truly believe that the lifestyle has strengthened our relationship. The communications, openness, honesty, and trust that are the bedrock of any good relationship have to all be even more present when you swing as a couple.
Feel free to DM me if you have any questions.
Feel free to DM me if you have any questions.
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Very interested in your situation and how it works out for you. It's always good to know what to expect as one starts to go down this road
From my experience, it’s helpful for the extra guy and the husband to get to know each other and to feel the situation out before he and his wife meet. It’s fun too to discuss shared fantasies—like photo/vids, watching, or joining in. A big part of the extra guy is not just the hot sex and the extra dick, but the camaraderie and bonding, too. Feel free to pm me if you’d like to hear more about my experiences.
Thank you. I hope to keep everyone updated as it goes along.
Thank you. I’m very interested to hear more.
I can't be much help BUT if you ever let her try with a stranger from out of town I could help with that otherwise good luck make sure you are both comfortable with everything you try
It is certainly something I’d be open to.
It is all about pleasure. Hers and yours. Let her know you get pleasure from watching / sharing her.
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After 15 years of swinging I agree totally with NautiRogue. We like the together concept and were never comfortable with getting together with others separately as Brockin Brooklyn does. We were concerned that playing separately would tend to lead to romantic attachments that we felt would be detrimental to our relationship. Additionally, we rotated the folks that we swung with, not playing with the same folks often for the same reason, to minimize likelihood of romantic attachments.
That worked for us. But, whatever works for you is fine. Just enjoy it.
I don’t have anything new to add but may emphasize two points already made.
Trust is a huge factor, both between your wife and you; and between any men she sleeps with.
Avoiding emotional attachment is the other caution. This is very important because we can easily convince ourselves we are not emotionally attached to a third party. I can tell you that from experience.
As another post mentioned, there is a difference between a hotwife and cuckold relationship. You, as the third party in this case, need to be honest with yourself and what you want out of this relationship.
My wife and I considered a cuckold relationship years ago. We did a lot of research. I connected with a few couples and a few bulls. In the end, it was my wife who said no—and I support her fully.
If you pursue the cuckold path, beware of the bulls who want exclusivity. I don’t need to make this post any longer. Feel free to PM me if you want more details.
Even though we chose not to follow a cuckold lifestyle, I am not saying it is bad. I think I would have enjoyed a cuckold relationship with a trustworthy bull fucking my wife. Just make sure you are careful.
Trust is a huge factor, both between your wife and you; and between any men she sleeps with.
Avoiding emotional attachment is the other caution. This is very important because we can easily convince ourselves we are not emotionally attached to a third party. I can tell you that from experience.
As another post mentioned, there is a difference between a hotwife and cuckold relationship. You, as the third party in this case, need to be honest with yourself and what you want out of this relationship.
My wife and I considered a cuckold relationship years ago. We did a lot of research. I connected with a few couples and a few bulls. In the end, it was my wife who said no—and I support her fully.
If you pursue the cuckold path, beware of the bulls who want exclusivity. I don’t need to make this post any longer. Feel free to PM me if you want more details.
Even though we chose not to follow a cuckold lifestyle, I am not saying it is bad. I think I would have enjoyed a cuckold relationship with a trustworthy bull fucking my wife. Just make sure you are careful.
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