Explain fisting

[altaa_sa]

Like it says. Fisting is something I know nothing about and I think there are a lot of guys like me.

I'm not even into that (that I know of). It's just one of the kinks that I'm afraid of and I don't get it. Maybe someone who is experienced can give some perspective or point us to some other sources.

What is the pleasure about? How is it different from regular sex? Is it simply the next stage of using large dildos? Do you get boners during that (bottom guys)? Do you cum from it? Is it more of a physical pleasure (like prostate massage) or more a mental experience? How long does it take to climax? Do you still get pleasure from regular fucking after that?

 

[Southeasterner]

I don´t like the idea at all.

I can't comment on what that feels like because I am clearly opposed to this practice.

I regret that the gay community receives little education about sexual practices that are harmful to the body.

 

[find83]

As a practicing fisting top, fisting can be an extremely pleasurable experience. Like most forms of kink, fisting has both a cerebral and sensorial components. There is the pleasure of being stretched and filled to capacity or "beyond capacity". From the conversations I have had with fisting bottoms there's the mindfuck ( in a positive way) of taking a human hand or arm inside of you. A mixture of pride and amazement from doing the impossible. Furthermore, the exchange of trust between the person fisting you and the one getting fisted can make the feel extremely intimate.
From the top perspective there's a pleasure in giving another person pleasure. Seeing them smile or moan from your hands stretching or massaging their insides. Furthermore, that exchange of trust allows you to really connect with your bottom. Depending on one's preference. Big holes are fun to fuck and play in.

Like most forms of kink, fisting has a high learning curve for fister (the person who shoves hand in ass) and for fistee (the person receiving the hand). It takes a lot of practice to get it right. Knowing proper hand placement, hygiene, and practices will ensure a safe and pleasurable experience. Contrary to popular belief, there are many ways to fist. It can be hard and rough, slow and gentle or anywhere in-between. Communication is extremely important in fisting. Obviously, because the one doing the fisting does not feel its effect and also it allows the one getting fisted to feel safe and relaxed. A relaxed hole is a more receptive hole.

I have made guys cum and piss from being fisted. So yes you can cum from being fisted.
Fisting does not lead to incontinence. The anus is a muscle. With fisting you are learning to control that muscle more. If you stop getting fisted for a while the anus will tighten back up. Yes, not to virginal status but no different than a person who as done anal sex before.
To become incontinent, have rosebud or prolapse it takes consistent training with large dildos to keep the rectum dilated and open. The occasion of semi regular assplay or fisting will not do that.

 

[altaa_sa]

Finally a quality response. Thank you for that.
How often would a bottom guy do that typically?

 

[find83]

Finally a quality response. Thank you for that.
How often would a bottom guy do that typically?

Sorry me again. It depends on the bottoms stamina and rough the fisting was. Can be anything from once a month to daily.
With my ex it was 4-5 times a week.

 

[LeatherFist]

As a practicing fisting top, fisting can be an extremely pleasurable experience. Like most forms of kink, fisting has both a cerebral and sensorial components. There is the pleasure of being stretched and filled to capacity or "beyond capacity". From the conversations I have had with fisting bottoms there's the mindfuck ( in a positive way) of taking a human hand or arm inside of you. A mixture of pride and amazement from doing the impossible. Furthermore, the exchange of trust between the person fisting you and the one getting fisted can make the feel extremely intimate.
From the top perspective there's a pleasure in giving another person pleasure. Seeing them smile or moan from your hands stretching or massaging their insides. Furthermore, that exchange of trust allows you to really connect with your bottom. Depending on one's preference. Big holes are fun to fuck and play in.

Like most forms of kink, fisting has a high learning curve for fister (the person who shoves hand in ass) and for fistee (the person receiving the hand). It takes a lot of practice to get it right. Knowing proper hand placement, hygiene, and practices will ensure a safe and pleasurable experience. Contrary to popular belief, there are many ways to fist. It can be hard and rough, slow and gentle or anywhere in-between. Communication is extremely important in fisting. Obviously, because the one doing the fisting does not feel its effect and also it allows the one getting fisted to feel safe and relaxed. A relaxed hole is a more receptive hole.

I have made guys cum and piss from being fisted. So yes you can cum from being fisted.
Fisting does not lead to incontinence. The anus is a muscle. With fisting you are learning to control that muscle more. If you stop getting fisted for a while the anus will tighten back up. Yes, not to virginal status but no different than a person who as done anal sex before.
To become incontinent, have rosebud or prolapse it takes consistent training with large dildos to keep the rectum dilated and open. The occasion of semi regular assplay or fisting will not do that.

Thank you for posting this there is so much ignorant and frankly stupid misinformation that those who do not know what they are talking about spread. The second post in here is one of these.

 

[chrissal480]

To the bottom it’s all about pain and being pushed to limits if not beyond them..

Like a guy that gets double penetrated ( done that a few times as a bottom) it’s something .. especially first time or so really stretches the asshole and the insides more.. the first time I was doubled .. I came hands free within 2 minutes

I’ve never been fisted .. never met anyone into it so I just never press the issue

 

[Greenfist31]

I just do it to relieve constipation. Put it in me elbow deep and wreck this dookie hole.

 

[chrissal480]

this guy likes being up to his elbows

 

[Topher the Gopher]

I have only had one experience with this, and I was the one doing the fisting. I knew this guy from around, and knew he was into it - always had a red handkerchief in his back right pocket. He asked if I wanted to try it, and I accepted.

Since he was very experienced, he was able to talk me through it, and he didn't take much working over to get in far. My first thought was "Wow," when my forearm went into him. It felt like his colon was drawing me in, and it was just such a new sensation, having my arm up to my elbow inside another man.

Soon enough, he told me to start thrusting. I don't remember exactly how long it went on, but even though his dick didn't get hard, it did squirt some semen.

 

[macho8]

i been asked to get fisted a few times.. and i know why now. He's a big boy and i see some hung guys like that looser feeling...

my worry is what happens next.. can i go back to normal size dicks after? as it is, since taking big dicks, i prefer big ones over smaller ones

 

[MuscledHorse]

VERY experienced fisting bottom here (I teach fisting classes for those wanting to learn it). Fisting, the art of putting one (or more) hands in the rectum, as well as all or parts or the forearm or (far far less frequently, the upper arm), is an amazing pleasure rush for us bottoms. The rectum is filled with pleasure sensors that a human penis, no matter how large, and most toys don't hit. The human hand, however, is filled with ridges and bumps--like the knuckles at the base of the fingers where they join the hand--that provide amazing stimulation, especially as they drag across the prostate. For extreme fist bottoms like me there's an enjoyment of both the sensation and the head rush of taking massive stuff and getting still looser to take even larger, like two hands at once, which I can do and really enjoy, especially if other guys are watching me do it.
For the tops (and myself when I top to give my hole a little break) you find an enjoyment of just feeing your hand slide into a hole that most males couldn't begin to handle and then watching and hearing the bottom moan and writhe in overwhelming sexual ecstasy. Most tops also really enjoy seeing a bottom finish up a session with a nice gaped hole from the use so the top knows he did his job in giving the bottom maximum Pleasure and use.

 

[MuscledHorse]

I should probably qualify my skill set from my previous post. Proud to be a Hole.