In an interesting turn of events, the other forum/blog has actually found his real name and it’s easily searchable on social media.
Based on his personal insta, he is actually gay and apparently is in a somewhat stable relationship with another man. He is self described as “family oriented”, he is very close and cares deeply for his family/close friends.
Based on this new information, it make sense why he might not be responding to dms on his porn pages. I think his OF/Porn career is mainly money focused to support himself, bf, or family. It would also appear that he is a body builder (not a professional one) and that his OF/porn is the only source of income that he has rn and he did not have any other prior job experiences (from what I can tell anyways).
