finding out you’re big

[Jacksbiguncutcock]

I had no basis for comparison. I’m over 65 so no internet when I was growing up. Porn was not readily accessible either. Needed to get response from flopping that thing out there for someone!!!

Here is my meat

 

[Wooly Mammoth]

First I heard was from my boyfriend in the mid 80s when I was in my 20s. He showed a picture of me wearing white pants. I was showing a bulge. He said that some of his friends remarked on the picture "he is well hung, isn't he?" I thought I was 6.5", which I reckoned average. Like other guys, I discounted girth. Nobody was talking about that. Plus, I have big balls, so I thought that would account for having a big bulge.

A few more reactions over the years, "wow" and such, I filed away in my memory. When I moved across the country, my first boyfriend here said I couldn't fuck him. He said it had been a while since he was fucked, and I was too big. "What? not as big as a porn star big, right?" was my response. "Yes, porn star big." I was okay not fucking him, since as I relate below, I wasn't fucking anyway. When other men said that mine was the biggest dick they had held in their hands, or whatever, I discounted their remarks, thinking "You need to get out more."

My current husband has a dick that is larger than average. When he first saw mine, he said something like "I thought I was big!"

What complicates the issue is my lifelong erection dysfunction. I rarely got hard around other men or women. Turns out I am a grower AND a show-er, and my dick starts out big and gets bigger. Once I got on PreP and my fear of HIV subsided, I could finally get hard enough to fuck a guy. Then the fun began in earnest!

My husband got me a penis pump for Christmas about 10 years ago. I can now reach the 21cm mark on the pump. A couple of times I filled the tube (8.5 inches, not sure of the width), and when I first take my dick out, it's 8 inches around, spongy from lymph build-up, and rather useless. It soon subsides to its regular girth. That said, I can almost claim 7 inches around when I've had a cock ring on for a while.

The other factor in all this is body dysmorphia. I've been chubby since I was a child. The fat pad hides some length (Al Parker stayed very lean which meant he showed his entire length in porn.) Also, the last time I was able to suck my dick was about 45 years ago. I got the head in my mouth exactly once. I can remember as my dickhead was approaching my mouth thinking "what the hell, that's huge." I could barely get my jaw open wide enough while I had my legs thrown over my head and my chin touching my chest.

All the ridiculous measurements in porn (John Holmes, 13.5" ha, Jonah Falcon 13" ha!) led me to believe I was slightly bigger than average. And does anybody remember "AOL inches"?

 

[lapdog2001]

I love hearing about guys who honestly thought they were normal size until someone told them it was way bigger than most. That's crazy hot to me.

I've already addressed this earlier in the thread, and like the most recent posts, there was no internet or easily access penis size survey data when I was in my 20s. If I believed "porn inches" I was small, but I knew I seemed to fit in the middle of the sizes I saw on screen. I'm 7 inches long, not the 8, 9, and 10 inches all the porn and Penthouse Forum guys claimed to be. My girth is 6 inches, which I had seen no published references to, so the statements of the women I was with saying I was very thick were my feedback.

I knew I was the larger side of "average" or maybe a little bit bigger. When I was with my first (sexual) girlfriend and she said I was "Huge!" among the biggest of the 30+ guys she had before me

(She was highly experienced for being in her early twenties. She had serious long-term monogamous relationships, but "had a lot of fun" in-between relationships).​

I replied "Really?" She said "yes" and said she wanted it inside her right now. I complied! At another point size came up again when we were getting sexual and she mentioned loving big and thick I was. So I asked how did I compared to her biggest, and she put her fingers about 2 inches past my raging 7 inch erection. But, she said, while that guy was longer he wasn't nearly as thick as me and she really, really loved my thickness.

I'm a grow-er not a show-er, so most of the women I've been with first experienced me hard and not flaccid. Every single woman I've ever been with has commented on my size, referencing the "perfect" combination of length and girth. Soo... when the 2nd women I was with says while stroking me, "Wow, you're big!" and then the 3rd woman I was with says "You're nice and thick", and the 4th woman says "Big boy!" and the 5th woman .... you get the idea!

 

[Dmrg]

I've already addressed this earlier in the thread, and like the most recent posts, there was no internet or easily access penis size survey data when I was in my 20s. If I believed "porn inches" I was small, but I knew I seemed to fit in the middle of the sizes I saw on screen. I'm 7 inches long, not the 8, 9, and 10 inches all the porn and Penthouse Forum guys claimed to be. My girth is 6 inches, which I had seen no published references to, so the statements of the women I was with saying I was very thick were my feedback.

I knew I was the larger side of "average" or maybe a little bit bigger. When I was with my first (sexual) girlfriend and she said I was "Huge!" among the biggest of the 30+ guys she had before me

(She was highly experienced for being in her early twenties. She had serious long-term monogamous relationships, but "had a lot of fun" in-between relationships).​

I replied "Really?" She said "yes" and said she wanted it inside her right now. I complied! At another point size came up again when we were getting sexual and she mentioned loving big and thick I was. So I asked how did I compared to her biggest, and she put her fingers about 2 inches past my raging 7 inch erection. But, she said, while that guy was longer he wasn't nearly as thick as me and she really, really loved my thickness.

I'm a grow-er not a show-er, so most of the women I've been with first experienced me hard and not flaccid. Every single woman I've ever been with has commented on my size, referencing the "perfect" combination of length and girth. Soo... when the 2nd women I was with says while stroking me, "Wow, you're big!" and then the 3rd woman I was with says "You're nice and thick", and the 4th woman says "Big boy!" and the 5th woman .... you get the idea!

Can we see it?

 

[Murphys]

I've already addressed this earlier in the thread, and like the most recent posts, there was no internet or easily access penis size survey data when I was in my 20s. If I believed "porn inches" I was small, but I knew I seemed to fit in the middle of the sizes I saw on screen. I'm 7 inches long, not the 8, 9, and 10 inches all the porn and Penthouse Forum guys claimed to be. My girth is 6 inches, which I had seen no published references to, so the statements of the women I was with saying I was very thick were my feedback.

I knew I was the larger side of "average" or maybe a little bit bigger. When I was with my first (sexual) girlfriend and she said I was "Huge!" among the biggest of the 30+ guys she had before me

(She was highly experienced for being in her early twenties. She had serious long-term monogamous relationships, but "had a lot of fun" in-between relationships).​

I replied "Really?" She said "yes" and said she wanted it inside her right now. I complied! At another point size came up again when we were getting sexual and she mentioned loving big and thick I was. So I asked how did I compared to her biggest, and she put her fingers about 2 inches past my raging 7 inch erection. But, she said, while that guy was longer he wasn't nearly as thick as me and she really, really loved my thickness.

I'm a grow-er not a show-er, so most of the women I've been with first experienced me hard and not flaccid. Every single woman I've ever been with has commented on my size, referencing the "perfect" combination of length and girth. Soo... when the 2nd women I was with says while stroking me, "Wow, you're big!" and then the 3rd woman I was with says "You're nice and thick", and the 4th woman says "Big boy!" and the 5th woman .... you get the idea!

Very similar to my journey.

 

[HungBtmVegas]

I found out from my first boyfriend's friend early on because he and I both never really regarded my cock

 

[seacow]

Looking for info on spicing things up and found this site. Then found out I was hung. I'm in my late 40's

How? My wife is my only partner and she has had limited, lucky experience before me. She told me I was above average - but neither of us knew I sat in the top 4-5% range. The psychological impact has been significant. My golf game has even improved as I've mentioned elsewhere.

I'm not sure if I really want to relive my life knowing how big I am. I'm in a great space and I fear knowing I had a large cock would risk the chances of being here. There are many occasions where things would have worked out very differently

Yeah kinda the same here, I was guest or no image profile for a while, then I posted a few pics after seeing what others were posting, thought I could compete lol. The people here are so nice! What a way to find out.

 

[deleted28150581]

For me it’s the opposite of finding out later. I’ve always kinda known I’m hung. Somehow others knew and would tell me, though I didn’t believe them. I thought they were making fun.

 

[Dansrun]

My poor head looked like an amateur bank robber... Such an idiot

Bruh - that made my side split open

 

[bigun8]

High school locker room outsizing teammates and coaches.

 

[gaygojo]

I didn’t know I was big till I looked at other guys

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put it in my mouth now

 

[NLUK]

The first time I hooked up with a guy, I hadn't handled another guy's hard cock before. His felt really small, so I thought he was just the odd one out and assumed mine was average. But when I tried to slide inside him, he said it was so big that he needed more time to loosen up.

As I started hooking up more, I noticed the hard ring of condoms was tight, even a bit painful sometimes.

Eventually, I decided to measure it out of curiosity. Turns out, it's quite thick, even if it's not the longest. Honestly, I'm very happy with my cock because the guys absolutely love it.

 

[Alf3007]

I found out very young that I was big and I always received comments. I was known on my school for it, years later when I had sex for the first time I had to go with caution and very slow to not hurt her. Now I’m used to the comments and ocassionally surprises when they found out I’m hung

 

[Milkdudd]

It was only TRULY apparent the first time I had someone to reference it to, being my now girlfriend. When she first put her hands on it, the room was pitch black, but feeling it she immediately remarked on the size, with just a "Woah." But it then fully sunk in when I got my first blow from her, seeing it compared to her hands, and her little mouth. She could probably put 4 hands on it, give or take an inch, and it was definitely arousing and eye opening seeing how it compared to her (and she's no small woman, mind you)

 

[TimWalksFunny]

High school locker room outsizing teammates and coaches.

I got snotty attitude from some male teachers who were jealous. I was worried their jealousy was going to affect what grades they gave me.

 

[XLIMX]

When I struggled to pack myself into Speedos, and I started hearing rumours about my size around my social circle in school.

Took me a little while to realise that if I'm being talked about like that, maybe it's unusual. Didn't have the internet growing up so was not sure what a normal size was. I still wasn't totally sure about it until I started fucking and a lot of people couldn't take it.

 

[X Marks the spot]

I can see why you’d have trouble squeezing into speedos. That’s huge

 

[Pen1s]

Trying on a normal condom...

 

[deleted28678131]

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Thats hot

 

[offerte]

But can I ask you something? I mean, I like horny big cocks and it really turns me on when someone has a big one. I like to suck it and I also like to have it inside me, but are there any women where you've heard that it's too big and how do you deal with things like that?