For The Love Of College Boys

School is back in session. Hoping for some new essays soon?
"Angels with penises"



Another time, I watched our home school play against a better division II school. We play in various conferences, but we kind of suck. Anyway, we still magically beat the other team through superior organization and discipline. The opposing team was taller, stronger and fleet, but we still beat them.



They may not have won the game, but in the shower they certainly showed off the goods!



I often use “ding dong” or “wee-wee” when I talk about college boys’ penises. But even though these guys were mostly eighteen, nineteen and twenty years old, they were more men than boys. They didn’t have ding-a-lings.



They had cocks.



Interestingly, I saw one dark-haired boy in the locker room, sitting on the bench, taking off his shirt. It was so beautiful seeing his smooth, muscular chest and well-defined abs. I knew I would see his penis in a minute, but just seeing his upper body was thrilling.



One boy, handsome and masculine with dirty blond hair came in, chose a shower head next to mine and dropped his towel. His penis, although completely flaccid, had some kind of internal arch or brace, as it jutted straight out from his body like an arrow! Usually guys’ penises hang or swing, but his just protruded out like an I-beam. I wanted to stroke it. He had a firm big scrotum that matched his penis in size and beauty. If his dick sticks out so boldly when he’s relaxed, I wonder what his semen-spitter looks like hard? I’m not sure I want to get in the way of that field gun! He leaned into the shower, and his penis almost touched the wall!



One kid, tall, light brown-hair, was also close to me. He was one of the goalies- broad shouldered and muscular. A kind of Taurean beauty, like a linebacker. He faced the shower, keeping his body at an angle to avoid his teammates from seeing his penis. It was visible though- a big bulbous head. A warrior’s penis. He had a great ass, sculpted buttocks. A gracious symmetry in all his limbs, a Greek athlete. The fact that he was modest and shy with his penis makes me think that he’s a man who is discriminating in his choice of lovers. He might be shy at first in bed, but once he gets his dander up, I think he’d be a hand grenade!



I told him after our shower that I appreciated their dauntless spirit- they played hard to the very end. He smiled and said, ‘That’s the way we roll!”



Another guy, six foot two, blond but tan, came in, with one of the most beautiful penises I have seen- there was a little bridge between its shaft and its head- which made the tip of the penis hang at a bit of an angle. I don’t see that feature very often, and I wanted to tickle that part of his manhood. He also had a big set of balls.



Some players came in with purple blotches around their hips, buttocks and thighs- internal bleeding due to falls and collisions. I was intrigued that the injuries all looked alike- so much so that for once I didn’t correlate bruises and scrapes with anal sex.



I’ve never seen such beautiful men, such beautiful butts, such delightful reproductive organs, so quick to smile, so kind. They were happy to accept me as one of their own in the locker room and shower. Such is their magnanimity and big-heartedness.



After the shower, I had a long talk with one of the players about Western philosophy, Kant and Hegel. But my eyes never left his body, his washboard abs, his genitals- his massive shlong and balls. His voice had a little squeakiness to it, he was friendly and very engaging. Talking to college boys, sharing my life-history and thoughts, is also a form of making love to them. I hope these essays have made it possible for other people to make love to these boys, to experience their youthful charm and their burgeoning sexuality.
 
Dear readers,

As most of the boys I see in the shower are (I'm assuming) heterosexual, I often fantasize about how they interact with their girlfriends in bed. Do I have that right or is it disrespectful to women? In other words, as a non heterosexual, am I allowed to fantasize about the lovemaking habits of heterosexual young men?

Also, (unrelated) I'm fascinated by college guys' testicles, and I feel that this is a part of the male anatomy which is overlooked on this site. This is surprising as the gonads are what make testosterone! That's why I'll often refer to them in all caps, (for example "this kid had BALLS") if I notice a particularly striking pair. Do people find this a quirk in my writing or do other people share this interest?

Finally, someone asked me if I've ever seen a full erection in the shower, and if I felt the boy was making a statement. To be honest, I've only seen a couple of those. But I've seen lots of partials! And yes, definitely guys communicate with each other through adjusting their masculine gradient. They communicate dominance and hierarchy on one hand and insecurity and vulnerability on the other through the varying plasticities of their penis. Boys might also express subtle and non-sexual social cues through demonstrations of arousal. I've touched on this theme here and there in my writing.

I appreciate all the kind likes, and I welcome your thoughts. Thanks for reading!
 
Dear readers,

As most of the boys I see in the shower are (I'm assuming) heterosexual, I often fantasize about how they interact with their girlfriends in bed. Do I have that right or is it disrespectful to women? In other words, as a non heterosexual, am I allowed to fantasize about the lovemaking habits of heterosexual young men?

Also, (unrelated) I'm fascinated by college guys' testicles, and I feel that this is a part of the male anatomy which is overlooked on this site. This is surprising as the gonads are what make testosterone! That's why I'll often refer to them in all caps, (for example "this kid had BALLS") if I notice a particularly striking pair. Do people find this a quirk in my writing or do other people share this interest?

Finally, someone asked me if I've ever seen a full erection in the shower, and if I felt the boy was making a statement. To be honest, I've only seen a couple of those. But I've seen lots of partials! And yes, definitely guys communicate with each other through adjusting their masculine gradient. They communicate dominance and hierarchy on one hand and insecurity and vulnerability on the other through the varying plasticities of their penis. Boys might also express subtle and non-sexual social cues through demonstrations of arousal. I've touched on this theme here and there in my writing.

I appreciate all the kind likes, and I welcome your thoughts. Thanks for reading!
Any feedback on these questions is welcome.
 
Dear readers,

As most of the boys I see in the shower are (I'm assuming) heterosexual, I often fantasize about how they interact with their girlfriends in bed. Do I have that right or is it disrespectful to women? In other words, as a non heterosexual, am I allowed to fantasize about the lovemaking habits of heterosexual young men?

Also, (unrelated) I'm fascinated by college guys' testicles, and I feel that this is a part of the male anatomy which is overlooked on this site. This is surprising as the gonads are what make testosterone! That's why I'll often refer to them in all caps, (for example "this kid had BALLS") if I notice a particularly striking pair. Do people find this a quirk in my writing or do other people share this interest?

Finally, someone asked me if I've ever seen a full erection in the shower, and if I felt the boy was making a statement. To be honest, I've only seen a couple of those. But I've seen lots of partials! And yes, definitely guys communicate with each other through adjusting their masculine gradient. They communicate dominance and hierarchy on one hand and insecurity and vulnerability on the other through the varying plasticities of their penis. Boys might also express subtle and non-sexual social cues through demonstrations of arousal. I've touched on this theme here and there in my writing.

I appreciate all the kind likes, and I welcome your thoughts. Thanks for reading!
The testicles are at the origin of testosterone production, according to science the bigger the balls are the more a man produced testosterone. A man with large testicles will have the brain much more flooded with testosterone than other men, the size of the balls is therefore a good indicator of men's sexual behavior and need to ejaculate. It is almost more intrusive to see the balls of a man than his dick because it learns something about him. So yes you can judge of the male behavior by seeing their balls.
 
One of the things that most fascinates me about college boys is the fact that their brains are still developing. Psychiatry tells us that, for men, the prefrontal cortex, the part of the brain that deals with executive decision making, doesn’t finish developing until the age of 25. That’s long after these boys will have left college. So these kids are on their own, often for the first time in their lives, they’re no longer under parental supervision, they’re thrown in with a bunch of strangers of both sexes, and their brains still haven’t reached maturity, stasis. They are uninhibited and yet crave affirmation and approval.

I read online that “The prefrontal cortex communicates more fully and effectively with other parts of the brain, including those that are particularly associated with emotion and impulses, so that all areas of the brain can be better involved in planning and problem-solving.”



The guys I write about don’t have a fully developed prefrontal cortex yet. When I theorize on how these guys behave in bed, it might sound like I’m being ludicrous or over the top. But if we consider that these guys, while legal adults and 18 +, are still transitioning into adulthood, my speculations may seem more reasonable. For example, I wrote earlier about Dane:



“The unconditional love he received from his mom might translate into a willingness to be a little charming or silly with his partner. He might press his erection to his partner’s lip or ear, for example, or pinch her arms and legs.”



Yes, simulating sex with someone’s ear or lip is goofy, but behind that goofiness is the college boy urge towards self-knowledge and self-discovery. They’re open to all kinds of new ideas and modes of living, college men are fluid and free. I think that freedom and versatility can definitely be seen in their sexual behavior.

Once a college boy asked me why I never became an actual professor, and I told him drily “I hate teaching and I hate kids.” He became charmingly indignant and said, “We’re not kids- we’re half children. I’m a man-child!” He is tall and has curly hair. I’ve seen him naked from behind and can say that his hairy ass definitely qualifies him for the moniker “Man-child”.

One time some college boys were watching a Kendrick Lamar video in the locker room on one of their phones. It’s called “Backstreet Freestyle” and has dark lyrics and shades of meaning. It also features a beautiful Black woman twerking into the camera. One of the boys, an incoming Freshman (I think they all were) suddenly lowered the back of his shorts and starting swinging his naked ass around in imitation of her movements. He was blond, muscular, also a little stocky. This was Freshman orientation week- and this is how he wanted to present himself to his new friends.

I found it interesting- the lady was twerking for these young college boys, and this boy started twerking…for whom? Was he trying to impress his friends? Was he making an unconscious invitation to the gay men in the locker room? Was he just caught up in the song and wanted to act out the video?

(Son, you don't have to ask twice. Papa Bear's gonna take good care of that chubby ass!)

This just connects to my point that we can’t predict how a college boy will behave in bed. He might be shy and try to play it safe, or he might go to the other extreme and engage in silly antics. I don’t engage with college guys physically- I only write and fantasize about them. A lot of the fun is not knowing what they’ll do in bed, and then trying to fill in the blanks by observing their behavior.

I’ve often felt that one of the best predictors of a college guy’s success in bed is not the size of his penis but how comfortable he is being naked. On several occasions I saw a handsome circumcised college guy walking to and from the showers with a possibly semi erect penis. I don’t know if he had an erection or if he just stuck out that way all the time, but he didn’t have any hesitation or qualms if people saw it. That means he’s comfortable in his own skin, he can hold his own against a more experienced lover, can ask for what he wants in bed and can also accommodate his partner’s needs. I mentioned in one of my recent posts a handsome soccer player who had hair between his buttocks but more importantly had a swagger when he walked to and from the showers naked.

Scientists speculate that the promiscuous nature of gay men might reflect how human beings lived before civilization. In other words, with agriculture came the family unit, with the woman in charge of the home, the man in charge of earning a livelihood. Domesticity usually implies things like monogamy, fidelity and other civic virtues. Gay men don’t have to temper their natural instincts for feminine approval, and can have hundreds of partners. I feel a similar state of nature in the all-male venue of the locker room- testosterone fueled young men trying to impress and troll each other, often with jokes and homoerotic horseplay (hence the boy above who showed his bare ass). But once again, their foibles and pranks in the locker room might well portend how they would behave in bed. And of course, even though most of the boys I witness are heterosexual, they almost always start to smile when naked. It might be a self-conscious smile, or it might be a smile that indicates their feeling of being free, at least temporarily, of the domesticating yoke of women.

I saw some wrestlers in the locker room the other day. I think they were a team visiting from Arkansas. I think they had won most of their matches. They were very sweet, joking and walking to and from the showers naked. I saw one kid lowering the straps of his singlet and peeling it down to his waist. Maybe a Latin boy judging by his complexion, handsome and dark-haired. He had one of the best torsos I’ve seen- wonderful chest definition, and all eight stomach muscles perfectly visible. I went to get some towels from the dispenser and when I came back, he was completely naked. I almost had to laugh at his absurdly long penis- not thick, it was just unnecessarily long.

It’s funny- I’ve seen him in his skin-hugging singlet, and I didn’t think his bulge was particularly impressive. If I hadn’t seen him naked, I wouldn’t have known what lay coiled between his legs.

I was surprised to see he was circumcised- unusual for a Latin boy- a small but perfectly smooth head.

“Wow, beautiful!” I wanted to say- but didn’t. It’s one of the little frustrations of the college locker room that I can never compliment a boy on his endowment- even if it’s meant innocently.

I wonder what this boy thinks about his penis? I mean, he’s only 133 pounds and maybe 5’7’’, if that. He was judged the best first year wrestler in his league, and he seems well-liked by his teammates. When I saw him lowering his singlet straps-before he was completely naked- I asked him if he knew where their next tournament was and he just said, “I don’t know” without making eye contact with me. A curt reply, but I didn’t mind- I mean he was busy getting naked! But when I saw him half a minute later, when he was totally nude, he was smiling a shyly proprietorial smile. So while he doesn’t try to call attention to it, I think he definitely takes some pride in having a big penis. He is wiry and short and strong. His penis is wiry and long and strong.

To speculate on his bedroom behavior- I noticed he didn’t wait for the other guys. He got naked before they did and also stayed by himself in a different row of lockers. So maybe he’s a bit of a loner, or doesn’t have a lot of friends yet on the team. But then I noticed he came back and joined them after his shower, holding a washcloth in front of his penis (that might have been a different kid though. College boys can be hard to tell apart when they’re naked). He’s wrestled most of his life and so knows the value of hard work and commitment. He’s a guy of few words but smiles when naked. So, all these things together tell me that he’s good at getting the job done. He’d want to satisfy his woman through maintaining a good stroke and rhythm but might not be interested in small talk afterwards. If she complained about him being non-verbal after intercourse he’d probably assure her that he’d try harder to please her next time. And I think he would- through pushing harder and lasting longer. He still might not be very verbal, but he’d definitely try to live up to his woman’s expectations- at least in bed. But what does she want- a great multi-topic conversationalist or a terse nineteen-year-old with a thoroughbred in his singlet?
 
I've never been one to go to the locker room bathroom, but I have a story with a friend. When I was at college, the university games were in the form of a camp, during the day there were games and at night there were parties, there was always a shower to take a shower after the games and before the party, normally the event took place in places close to the city , so college students could come and go or shower there.

I went back and forth, but in one of the editions I went to, I stayed to take a shower. during the day the games were happening normally, and it was already getting dark, I took the opportunity to shower and get ready for the party, before lining up, I left the camp with a friend who went to college with me, he was tall, thin, with black hair, almost hairless. We entered the bathroom and there were 2 guys taking a shower, one in underwear (blond, short and thin, little hair naturally) and the other completely naked, but covering his manhood (straight black hair, athletic and completely shaved). We waited for them to finish because there were only 2 hot showers and there was no one other than us to shower. We talked while they finished and then we went in, we undressed and stripped down to our underwear, we weren't used to public baths and had never seen each other naked, in the middle of the bath he took off his underwear to wash, he wasn't hard, he wasn't circumcised and he was well shaved, it was the first time I saw him naked, his dick was very curved downwards, he wasn't endowed, but it was a good size, his bag was gigantic, he looked like a sheep. At the time I didn't know if I would also take off my underwear and we would both be naked, I have a hairy ass and a hairy dick, and I wasn't shaved, maybe he could make fun of his colleagues later, I ended up not taking it off. We finished the shower, got dressed and left, it was a normal shower for everyone, the shock was because we weren't used to doing this and I saw his dick for the first time.
 
"I feel a similar state of nature in the all-male venue of the locker room- testosterone fueled young men trying to impress and troll each other, often with jokes and homoerotic horseplay"
this sentence describes a hidden reality for people who have never been in a men's changing room. It's a special world where men return to the reflexes of animal fraternities, and the fact of having a penis, balls and exposing them for all to see shows that you belong to this club. There's nothing sexual about it, as you said in a previous post, perverts should be excluded from this place. What I find very exciting with young men is the idea that they are controlled by their balls, I think this is the case with all men but very specifically young men because their testicles drown their brains in testosterone. Locker room behavior reflects this influx of hormones, with everyone walking around with their penis exposed, marking their territory.

What I've noticed in the changing rooms of my gym is that young men in team sports seek out group nudity and stay naked for very long periods. Young men on their own will stay naked for less time. But the idea of being naked in a group is, I think, almost triggering a reflex behavior on those young males.
 
"I feel a similar state of nature in the all-male venue of the locker room- testosterone fueled young men trying to impress and troll each other, often with jokes and homoerotic horseplay"
this sentence describes a hidden reality for people who have never been in a men's changing room. It's a special world where men return to the reflexes of animal fraternities, and the fact of having a penis, balls and exposing them for all to see shows that you belong to this club. There's nothing sexual about it, as you said in a previous post, perverts should be excluded from this place. What I find very exciting with young men is the idea that they are controlled by their balls, I think this is the case with all men but very specifically young men because their testicles drown their brains in testosterone. Locker room behavior reflects this influx of hormones, with everyone walking around with their penis exposed, marking their territory.

What I've noticed in the changing rooms of my gym is that young men in team sports seek out group nudity and stay naked for very long periods. Young men on their own will stay naked for less time. But the idea of being naked in a group is, I think, almost triggering a reflex behavior on those young males

Thanks man, it’s good to know people actually read and reflect on my essays. Interesting thoughts, I’ll try to address your point on testicle size and college boy behavior when I have more time. :emoji_peanuts::emoji_eggplant:
 
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One of the things that most fascinates me about college boys is the fact that their brains are still developing. Psychiatry tells us that, for men, the prefrontal cortex, the part of the brain that deals with executive decision making, doesn’t finish developing until the age of 25. That’s long after these boys will have left college. So these kids are on their own, often for the first time in their lives, they’re no longer under parental supervision, they’re thrown in with a bunch of strangers of both sexes, and their brains still haven’t reached maturity, stasis. They are uninhibited and yet crave affirmation and approval.

I read online that “The prefrontal cortex communicates more fully and effectively with other parts of the brain, including those that are particularly associated with emotion and impulses, so that all areas of the brain can be better involved in planning and problem-solving.”



The guys I write about don’t have a fully developed prefrontal cortex yet. When I theorize on how these guys behave in bed, it might sound like I’m being ludicrous or over the top. But if we consider that these guys, while legal adults and 18 +, are still transitioning into adulthood, my speculations may seem more reasonable. For example, I wrote earlier about Dane:



“The unconditional love he received from his mom might translate into a willingness to be a little charming or silly with his partner. He might press his erection to his partner’s lip or ear, for example, or pinch her arms and legs.”



Yes, simulating sex with someone’s ear or lip is goofy, but behind that goofiness is the college boy urge towards self-knowledge and self-discovery. They’re open to all kinds of new ideas and modes of living, college men are fluid and free. I think that freedom and versatility can definitely be seen in their sexual behavior.

Once a college boy asked me why I never became an actual professor, and I told him drily “I hate teaching and I hate kids.” He became charmingly indignant and said, “We’re not kids- we’re half children. I’m a man-child!” He is tall and has curly hair. I’ve seen him naked from behind and can say that his hairy ass definitely qualifies him for the moniker “Man-child”.

One time some college boys were watching a Kendrick Lamar video in the locker room on one of their phones. It’s called “Backstreet Freestyle” and has dark lyrics and shades of meaning. It also features a beautiful Black woman twerking into the camera. One of the boys, an incoming Freshman (I think they all were) suddenly lowered the back of his shorts and starting swinging his naked ass around in imitation of her movements. He was blond, muscular, also a little stocky. This was Freshman orientation week- and this is how he wanted to present himself to his new friends.

I found it interesting- the lady was twerking for these young college boys, and this boy started twerking…for whom? Was he trying to impress his friends? Was he making an unconscious invitation to the gay men in the locker room? Was he just caught up in the song and wanted to act out the video?

(Son, you don't have to ask twice. Papa Bear's gonna take good care of that chubby ass!)

This just connects to my point that we can’t predict how a college boy will behave in bed. He might be shy and try to play it safe, or he might go to the other extreme and engage in silly antics. I don’t engage with college guys physically- I only write and fantasize about them. A lot of the fun is not knowing what they’ll do in bed, and then trying to fill in the blanks by observing their behavior.

I’ve often felt that one of the best predictors of a college guy’s success in bed is not the size of his penis but how comfortable he is being naked. On several occasions I saw a handsome circumcised college guy walking to and from the showers with a possibly semi erect penis. I don’t know if he had an erection or if he just stuck out that way all the time, but he didn’t have any hesitation or qualms if people saw it. That means he’s comfortable in his own skin, he can hold his own against a more experienced lover, can ask for what he wants in bed and can also accommodate his partner’s needs. I mentioned in one of my recent posts a handsome soccer player who had hair between his buttocks but more importantly had a swagger when he walked to and from the showers naked.

Scientists speculate that the promiscuous nature of gay men might reflect how human beings lived before civilization. In other words, with agriculture came the family unit, with the woman in charge of the home, the man in charge of earning a livelihood. Domesticity usually implies things like monogamy, fidelity and other civic virtues. Gay men don’t have to temper their natural instincts for feminine approval, and can have hundreds of partners. I feel a similar state of nature in the all-male venue of the locker room- testosterone fueled young men trying to impress and troll each other, often with jokes and homoerotic horseplay (hence the boy above who showed his bare ass). But once again, their foibles and pranks in the locker room might well portend how they would behave in bed. And of course, even though most of the boys I witness are heterosexual, they almost always start to smile when naked. It might be a self-conscious smile, or it might be a smile that indicates their feeling of being free, at least temporarily, of the domesticating yoke of women.

I saw some wrestlers in the locker room the other day. I think they were a team visiting from Arkansas. I think they had won most of their matches. They were very sweet, joking and walking to and from the showers naked. I saw one kid lowering the straps of his singlet and peeling it down to his waist. Maybe a Latin boy judging by his complexion, handsome and dark-haired. He had one of the best torsos I’ve seen- wonderful chest definition, and all eight stomach muscles perfectly visible. I went to get some towels from the dispenser and when I came back, he was completely naked. I almost had to laugh at his absurdly long penis- not thick, it was just unnecessarily long.

It’s funny- I’ve seen him in his skin-hugging singlet, and I didn’t think his bulge was particularly impressive. If I hadn’t seen him naked, I wouldn’t have known what lay coiled between his legs.

I was surprised to see he was circumcised- unusual for a Latin boy- a small but perfectly smooth head.

“Wow, beautiful!” I wanted to say- but didn’t. It’s one of the little frustrations of the college locker room that I can never compliment a boy on his endowment- even if it’s meant innocently.

I wonder what this boy thinks about his penis? I mean, he’s only 133 pounds and maybe 5’7’’, if that. He was judged the best first year wrestler in his league, and he seems well-liked by his teammates. When I saw him lowering his singlet straps-before he was completely naked- I asked him if he knew where their next tournament was and he just said, “I don’t know” without making eye contact with me. A curt reply, but I didn’t mind- I mean he was busy getting naked! But when I saw him half a minute later, when he was totally nude, he was smiling a shyly proprietorial smile. So while he doesn’t try to call attention to it, I think he definitely takes some pride in having a big penis. He is wiry and short and strong. His penis is wiry and long and strong.

To speculate on his bedroom behavior- I noticed he didn’t wait for the other guys. He got naked before they did and also stayed by himself in a different row of lockers. So maybe he’s a bit of a loner, or doesn’t have a lot of friends yet on the team. But then I noticed he came back and joined them after his shower, holding a washcloth in front of his penis (that might have been a different kid though. College boys can be hard to tell apart when they’re naked). He’s wrestled most of his life and so knows the value of hard work and commitment. He’s a guy of few words but smiles when naked. So, all these things together tell me that he’s good at getting the job done. He’d want to satisfy his woman through maintaining a good stroke and rhythm but might not be interested in small talk afterwards. If she complained about him being non-verbal after intercourse he’d probably assure her that he’d try harder to please her next time. And I think he would- through pushing harder and lasting longer. He still might not be very verbal, but he’d definitely try to live up to his woman’s expectations- at least in bed. But what does
The guys I write about don’t have a fully developed prefrontal cortex yet. When I theorize on how these guys behave in bed, it might sound like I’m being ludicrous or over the top. But if we consider that these guys, while legal adults and 18 +, are still transitioning into adulthood, my speculations may seem more reasonable. For example, I wrote earlier about Dane:



“The unconditional love he received from his mom might translate into a willingness to be a little charming or silly with his partner. He might press his erection to his partner’s lip or ear, for example, or pinch her arms and legs.”



Yes, simulating sex with someone’s ear or lip is goofy, but behind that goofiness is the college boy urge towards self-knowledge and self-discovery. They’re open to all kinds of new ideas and modes of living, college men are fluid and free. I think that freedom and versatility can definitely be seen in their sexual behavior.

Once a college boy asked me why I never became an actual professor, and I told him drily “I hate teaching and I hate kids.” He became charmingly indignant and said, “We’re not kids- we’re half children. I’m a man-child!” He is tall and has curly hair. I’ve seen him naked from behind and can say that his hairy ass definitely qualifies him for the moniker “Man-child”.

One time some college boys were watching a Kendrick Lamar video in the locker room on one of their phones. It’s called “Backstreet Freestyle” and has dark lyrics and shades of meaning. It also features a beautiful Black woman twerking into the camera. One of the boys, an incoming Freshman (I think they all were) suddenly lowered the back of his shorts and starting swinging his naked ass around in imitation of her movements. He was blond, muscular, also a little stocky. This was Freshman orientation week- and this is how he wanted to present himself to his new friends.

I found it interesting- the lady was twerking for these young college boys, and this boy started twerking…for whom? Was he trying to impress his friends? Was he making an unconscious invitation to the gay men in the locker room? Was he just caught up in the song and wanted to act out the video?

(Son, you don't have to ask twice. Papa Bear's gonna take good care of that chubby ass!)

This just connects to my point that we can’t predict how a college boy will behave in bed. He might be shy and try to play it safe, or he might go to the other extreme and engage in silly antics. I don’t engage with college guys physically- I only write and fantasize about them. A lot of the fun is not knowing what they’ll do in bed, and then trying to fill in the blanks by observing their behavior.

I’ve often felt that one of the best predictors of a college guy’s success in bed is not the size of his penis but how comfortable he is being naked. On several occasions I saw a handsome circumcised college guy walking to and from the showers with a possibly semi erect penis. I don’t know if he had an erection or if he just stuck out that way all the time, but he didn’t have any hesitation or qualms if people saw it. That means he’s comfortable in his own skin, he can hold his own against a more experienced lover, can ask for what he wants in bed and can also accommodate his partner’s needs. I mentioned in one of my recent posts a handsome soccer player who had hair between his buttocks but more importantly had a swagger when he walked to and from the showers naked.

Scientists speculate that the promiscuous nature of gay men might reflect how human beings lived before civilization. In other words, with agriculture came the family unit, with the woman in charge of the home, the man in charge of earning a livelihood. Domesticity usually implies things like monogamy, fidelity and other civic virtues. Gay men don’t have to temper their natural instincts for feminine approval, and can have hundreds of partners. I feel a similar state of nature in the all-male venue of the locker room- testosterone fueled young men trying to impress and troll each other, often with jokes and homoerotic horseplay (hence the boy above who showed his bare ass). But once again, their foibles and pranks in the locker room might well portend how they would behave in bed. And of course, even though most of the boys I witness are heterosexual, they almost always start to smile when naked. It might be a self-conscious smile, or it might be a smile that indicates their feeling of being free, at least temporarily, of the domesticating yoke of women.

I saw some wrestlers in the locker room the other day. I think they were a team visiting from Arkansas. I think they had won most of their matches. They were very sweet, joking and walking to and from the showers naked. I saw one kid lowering the straps of his singlet and peeling it down to his waist. Maybe a Latin boy judging by his complexion, handsome and dark-haired. He had one of the best torsos I’ve seen- wonderful chest definition, and all eight stomach muscles perfectly visible. I went to get some towels from the dispenser and when I came back, he was completely naked. I almost had to laugh at his absurdly long penis- not thick, it was just unnecessarily long.

It’s funny- I’ve seen him in his skin-hugging singlet, and I didn’t think his bulge was particularly impressive. If I hadn’t seen him naked, I wouldn’t have known what lay coiled between his legs.

I was surprised to see he was circumcised- unusual for a Latin boy- a small but perfectly smooth head.

“Wow, beautiful!” I wanted to say- but didn’t. It’s one of the little frustrations of the college locker room that I can never compliment a boy on his endowment- even if it’s meant innocently.

I wonder what this boy thinks about his penis? I mean, he’s only 133 pounds and maybe 5’7’’, if that. He was judged the best first year wrestler in his league, and he seems well-liked by his teammates. When I saw him lowering his singlet straps-before he was completely naked- I asked him if he knew where their next tournament was and he just said, “I don’t know” without making eye contact with me. A curt reply, but I didn’t mind- I mean he was busy getting naked! But when I saw him half a minute later, when he was totally nude, he was smiling a shyly proprietorial smile. So while he doesn’t try to call attention to it, I think he definitely takes some pride in having a big penis. He is wiry and short and strong. His penis is wiry and long and strong.

To speculate on his bedroom behavior- I noticed he didn’t wait for the other guys. He got naked before they did and also stayed by himself in a different row of lockers. So maybe he’s a bit of a loner, or doesn’t have a lot of friends yet on the team. But then I noticed he came back and joined them after his shower, holding a washcloth in front of his penis (that might have been a different kid though. College boys can be hard to tell apart when they’re naked). He’s wrestled most of his life and so knows the value of hard work and commitment. He’s a guy of few words but smiles when naked. So, all these things together tell me that he’s good at getting the job done. He’d want to satisfy his woman through maintaining a good stroke and rhythm but might not be interested in small talk afterwards. If she complained about him being non-verbal after intercourse he’d probably assure her that he’d try harder to please her next time. And I think he would- through pushing harder and lasting longer. He still might not be very verbal, but he’d definitely try to live up to his woman’s expectations- at least in bed. But what does she want- a great multi-topic conversationalist or a terse nineteen-year-old with a thoroughbred in his singlet?
Alas, one of my best essays and almost nary a like or reply. Yet I still think it’s one of my best pieces, and I’ll take the “A” for effort, and the “LI” for the Labor and Imagination that I’ve invested in appreciating college boys and understanding their sex lives.
 
I was in the locker room of my college talking to a freshman, a well built boy with sandy, somewhat wavy hair, a handsome midfielder for the club soccer team. I had seen him doing pull ups earlier, which exposed his stomach. He did fifteen in a row and I told him I was impressed and asked him his name.

“Trice,” he said and smiled and gave me a sweaty handshake. A masculine if obscure name.

“It’s my easy day,” he humble bragged, and I knew at that moment he’s a good lover, maybe a little goofy and diffident in foreplay, but confident in copulation, propulsive and rhythmic.

He had just finished his workout and wriggled out of his wifebeater, reached into his locker and put on his big winter jacket. He wore his coat bare chested! He has a perfectly smooth, muscly chest and stomach, not even a wisp of fuzz around his navel. My tongue wanted to colonize his body.

I wondered if he also went commando under his sweatpants, the college kid equivalent of a Christmas present, with only a single ribbon to untie. I never knew Santa was eighteen.