Submission definitely, but the thing that turns me on most is taking a man's most valuable and powerful element into my body. It's a mindset to me. When I get psyched up about it, it can be a tremendous thing. It's not just a wad of sticky nut, it is a man's avenue to give life. It's his seed. When I dig a guy or at the very most, love a guy, I want every drop of his seed, never to waste any. In a gay relationship it is sharing and bonding in the most intimate way. Ha.. can't get pregnant, but his seed can become a part of me. There's a special guy at work I'm just waiting to enter into this kind of brotherhood with. Some may laugh but it really is a bond that there are no words for sexually.