Yeah, it's kind of unsettling how folks don't seem to get the difference between openly exploring and indulging in sexual fantasy and being a creepy, dehumanizing letch.I
If the tables were turned and he was a girl and guys were talking like this...it would be very creepy. How is it any different just because he’s a “pretty straight guy.”
"if you don't like something, why waste so much time complaining about it?" heed your own advice please.Yeah, it's kind of unsettling how folks don't seem to get the difference between openly exploring and indulging in sexual fantasy and being a creepy, dehumanizing letch.
Like, sometimes to the point that it's considered normal and acceptable to say something like "Oh, fuck that dumb, boring bitch" about a person whose only crime is that they got photographed with their shirt off. But if you say "Uh, you're talking about a living, breathing, human being who didn't actually do anything wrong to you or anyone else. Could you maybe not?" that somehow is seen as uncivil and out-of-bounds.
You know, folks, you can indulge the cheap side of your sex life without being a spiteful, evil cretin.
Also, if you don't like something, why waste so much time complaining about it?
Okay, brutally dehumanizing a person because they're "boring" vs calling people out for doing so aren't exactly a 1:1 comparison, are they."if you don't like something, why waste so much time complaining about it?" heed your own advice please.
calling someone boring isn't brutal dehumanization. get a fucking grip.Okay, brutally dehumanizing a person because they're "boring" vs calling people out for doing so aren't exactly a 1:1 comparison, are they.
Yes let's not forget what's important here
no i unfollowed him cos he kept posting those lame generic inspirational posts. he's decided that he's a writer/motivational speaker now for some reason. i imagine he'll stop eventually - the engagement on those posts is very low compared to pics of him (obviously, that's what people follow him for).Am I the only one annoyed with his "positive thinking" on IG? My life would be so much easier/better if I had his face and body.
Today he posted "Be a victor, not a victim", looks like he is saying a lot of shit, thinking that everyone has the same life he has.
That is not what I meant. You can be pretty and say something good, but he is not...“Shut up and look pretty.”