Friends Naked/jack Off-advice Please

[2922741]

Hey Guys,

I need advice. Please respond/comment with your thoughts, or experiences.

Recently I have come to terms that I am either extremely curious, or bi (or both). I really would like to see naked, and jerk with several of my close guy friends. We've all been around each other for years, but all have recently moved away from each other due to new jobs. We'd mess around (rip towel off, grab at each other when passing, flash each other, etc) but it never went beyond that.
Now looking back, I wish it had. We all are still inconstant contact, and visit each other whenever we can.

I don't know if I should approach them about maybe chilling naked/seeing them naked, or even jacking off together. I don't want to break the friendships we have, but I would still pay a month's salary to chill with our clothes off and see where it goes.

Have any of you found yourselves in this situation?

 

[danimal32]

It might be easier to get together with someone you don't know as opposed to risking a long term friendship. What do you think? I am not scolding you or knocking what you are interested in doing, but I think you have to have a plan.

Ripping towels off, grabbing at each other when passing and flashing each other, isn't quite the same as what you are wanting to happen. How do you see this playing out?

I believe that many of us have wanted this to happen with someone in our lives in the past, or maybe even currently. Why don't you tell us a little more about what you are thinking? Let's see what other people have to say who may have been in this position.

 

[RalDudeHangin]

I totally agree with damimal32. Find someone outside your circle to experiment with. Don’t risk friendships. In the future, if you enjoy what you’ve done, tell your friends you’re bi and let them get comfortable with that. If anything is going to happen, let them open that door.

 

[2922741]

I won't risk the friendships for sure! The last thing I want is for everything to go downhill. I think I will have to just keep these emotions under control, and leave it as it has been.

 

[2922741]

I don't think I am trying to even pursue some type of long term sexual relationship, I think my curiosity is just getting the best of me. I'd just like to see more.

 

[2922741]

Actually we would always joke about being naked/jacking off, and of each other being in different places on the grand spectrum of sexuality. A few times of one of friends would rub mine, and other friends nipples through our shirts just in passing. But it always seemed to be banter, and now I am wondering if it was.

 

[elklindoxxx]

Hey Guys,

I need advice. Please respond/comment with your thoughts, or experiences.

Recently I have come to terms that I am either extremely curious, or bi (or both). I really would like to see naked, and jerk with several of my close guy friends. We've all been around each other for years, but all have recently moved away from each other due to new jobs. We'd mess around (rip towel off, grab at each other when passing, flash each other, etc) but it never went beyond that.
Now looking back, I wish it had. We all are still inconstant contact, and visit each other whenever we can.

I don't know if I should approach them about maybe chilling naked/seeing them naked, or even jacking off together. I don't want to break the friendships we have, but I would still pay a month's salary to chill with our clothes off and see where it goes.

Have any of you found yourselves in this situation?

I wouldn't go there with them. I suggest doing a google search to find your local jerk off club. They are always looking for new "members" if you know what I mean.

 

[2922741]

I asked a good friend to see his dick when we were drunk ...he never talked to me again

That’s something to keep in mind.

 

[ricd250584]

I would say leave clues, like if you are drunk or high, try putting porn on, or talking bout sex, maybe pass a comment about needing to jerk off.
Depends how open you are with your friends and what you talk about. Sounds like you guys are pretty chill together

 

[2922741]

I would say leave clues, like if you are drunk or high, try putting porn on, or talking bout sex, maybe pass a comment about needing to jerk off.
Depends how open you are with your friends and what you talk about. Sounds like you guys are pretty chill together

Thanks man! Putting porn on might be a little bit too straight forward, but I could see if I get drunk enough for the other ones to happen. I'll read the air, regardless, and if I don't feel those would work out I'd just leave things as they are.

 

[ricd250584]

Thanks man! Putting porn on might be a little bit too straight forward, but I could see if I get drunk enough for the other ones to happen. I'll read the air, regardless, and if I don't feel those would work out I'd just leave things as they are.

It’s a chance you take, but if you guys are good friends he should just say no and you guys should still be cool

best bet is to find a random guy that way it doesn’t complicate things but I get how it would be more fun with a buddy tour already close with

I have a random guy I jerk with, it’s lots of fun you just watch porn and jerk have a beer and talk. If you two are comfortable maybe help each other a little. In the end it’s just two guys getting off

 

[Danefin]

Tough spot to be in. You may be better looking for someone you don’t have a close connection with. I’ve been in your spot with a friend/coworker - We’d kid around a bit - say “let’s hit the storeroom” where we kept the snacks for meetings. Would have liked to fooled around with him and often wondered if he was hinting for something more but he never acted on it. So either I was reading more into it than there was or he was hoping I’d make the first move.

If you already horse around with them, keep up the horseplay. If you’ve flashed each other, etc. don’t change it. But maybe kick it up a notch with yourself as the target - flash your dick more at the urinal, mention how horny you are, grab your crotch (maybe even have a hardon) - worse they could say is you’re a horn dog.

 

[2922741]

Tough spot to be in. You may be better looking for someone you don’t have a close connection with. I’ve been in your spot with a friend/coworker - We’d kid around a bit - say “let’s hit the storeroom” where we kept the snacks for meetings. Would have liked to fooled around with him and often wondered if he was hinting for something more but he never acted on it. So either I was reading more into it than there was or he was hoping I’d make the first move.

If you already horse around with them, keep up the horseplay. If you’ve flashed each other, etc. don’t change it. But maybe kick it up a notch with yourself as the target - flash your dick more at the urinal, mention how horny you are, grab your crotch (maybe even have a hardon) - worse they could say is you’re a horn dog.

This is true! Thank you

 

[lislndr]

I had a friend whom I was very curious about, he was hot, heavily tattooed and pierced. Sex was not an infrequent topic of discussion and I thought if maybe he'd watch porn or beat off with me. There was one time we were hanging out at my house and doing what plenty of people do, looking at stupid/funny pictures. One that came up was the famous 'frustration' gif of a big-breasted young woman with a very skimpy shirt slowly being cut with a scissor, and the .gif ends right before it would fly off. We talked about that and I located the "fixed" one where her tits do pop out at the end. He seemed to enjoy that, but not enough that I offered to find the video online and put it on. You've really got to "read the room" to avoid making things awkward, I'm past the point that I would try to make this kind of thing happen again

 

[ricd250584]

I think as I have gotten older I’m more open now. I’m 35 but 15 years ago I would have probably been against the idea

you realize that we are all guys, we get horny, we all beat off, what’s the difference if it’s together