Somewhat recently, dating apps for men added the sexual role "side" or "no anal" to the various top, bottom and versatile.Recently been topping because partner wants it. Frankly, I get off more from sucking and being sucked. Just get more sensation. Maybe condoms are the culprit? Always wear one when I'm doing anal, never when I'm doing oral. Or is anal just not that satisfying for some tops?
There is a MASSIVE number of men who do not enjoy anal, or do not prefer it, for any reason. Just be open minded: you might find out that anal does not work for you, and then there will be lots of other men who are happy to not do anal. Or maybe you'll find out that you actually like it, and you just have to experience it a bit more.
And yeah it could be because of the condom. Probably not so much for the physical sensation, but more for the fantasy and what is attached.