Im not out, Im married and have 2 kids. about 3 months ago I was swiping through Grindr when I got a notification from someone not far from me. He said I was pretty sure he knew who I was and that it was turning him on just thinking about us hooking up. while that was really freaky (scared of me getting outted) I replied that I thought it was hot. then he sent me a reply. "well im in the basement with my cock out if you want to suck me off" and sent a pic of his cock. at first I was admiring the dick pic thinking about how hot it was that he had a basement, then slowly I started to notice things in the background of the pic that were familiar. stock from the shop I work at, merchasing fixtures etc. It slowly dawned on me that this was taken where I work downstairs. I had forgotten that where I work there is a basement were a tradie my age was working. the realisation set in what was happening and with my heart beating in my chest I slowly got up and made my way down there. I was still in a state of disbelief but when I rounded the last corner, there he was, dick out and nervously smiling while he stroked it. He knew how awkward this was but we both knew there was no turning back. my hands were shaking from nerves but that all slipped away as I sunk to my knees and sucked him off to completion.
true story, we are both trying to resist those urges now because we are both married and so we want to encourage each other to be faithful to our wives but every now and then ill jump onto my second account and see that he is online thinking I don't know he's on. I'm sometimes tempted to ask him about it but Im sure he has his reasons so I leave it be. Im 32 and he's 31