Grindr rudeness - Who's the arsehole?

[blacktee]

Who's the arsehole?

Good looking guy on Grindr, his profile said in part "Just moved here to escape from the fascist regime of America. Have a mercy on this old soul"

Me: "Hey there, how's it?"

Him: "If I wanted to meet old and fat trolls. I would have stayed in America"

Me: "charming, all I said was hello. seems like you have brought the worst of America with you"

Him: "Thanks"

He is an arsehole, clearly. But am I one too for responding in kind?

 

[Ragazziromantici]

His response wasn't called for ever.

Grindr is an exercise in rejection therapy a lot of the time. So, although it can sting when these types of asshole interactions happen it's a good chance to practice not taking it personally and letting it go.

Don't well on it x

 

[Infernal]

He is an arsehole, clearly. But am I one too for responding in kind?

I applaud your restraint. You shouldn't have shown him any mercy. The rudest people I've met anywhere in the world are my fellow countrymen. It's so embarrassing.