Oh boo hoo, you’re whining because you’re being told that your “blunt honesty” is insufferable, and some people don’t want to fuck you on Grindr because of that. Get over it and stay out of this forum if you can’t handle it.
Grindr Red Flags
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I don’t use Grindr. I’m not on it. And I never said that anyway.
To be clear, the red flag isn't that you don't want to fuck fats, femmes or Asians.
It's that you feel the need to state it, in that manner.
Versus say "Masc, fit guy. Into similar"
Which conveys the same thought without all the baggage.|
It's that you feel the need to state it, in that manner.
Versus say "Masc, fit guy. Into similar"
Which conveys the same thought without all the baggage.|
I-- Goodbye.
People should be able to express their likes and dislikes when it comes to fucking on a hookup app however they want. Any baggage is in the head of the person carrying it, and not the problem of anyone else.
If only it were that simple, and not an extension of something bigger.
so many models and so many people that are hung lol
The ones that want to parTy.
I’m good on that
I’m good on that
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"Bottom looking for tops". Anyone primarily looking for anal sex is not compatible with me because I'm only into oral. And yes, I'm well aware that that limits my options a great deal...
I am so glad that they added the option "side" or "not into anal" to dating apps. It is crazy that it took so long for them to realise! A huge percentage of people are sides, and yet there was no word for it until a couple years ago.
I am on the opposite side of the spectrum, as in, I really really have a very big preference for anal sex. Adding the "side" option to dating apps makes the conversation much easier, friendlier and without resentment from both sides, in my opinion. It is a really welcome addition.
And trust me, you have more options than you think, I often end up not matching with guys because they do not like anal.
I'm older, so you'll have to explain to me how stating a racial preference is racist. If I'm a black male who doesn't want to hook up with anyone but other black males, does that mean that I have to have sex with men of other races - or I'm racist? If a white guy wants only other white guys, why shouldn't he say so? Then all the other guys out there who aren't his type aren't wasting their time. What if I'm an Asian guy and I only like other Asians - or just Asians from my same country? What if I only like red heads or blonds or brunettes? Am I racist then as well?
This "racist" designation has gone to bizarre and ridiculous extremes.
Girl, not again.
I always screen guys past the Grindr app... hey let's chat on Snap or WhatsApp, preferably voice, maybe even share cams and show off a bit for each other while we talk. I haven't found a creeper who will go to that length!
Bottom line is, be careful out there!! We just had this dude going around in San Diego... Man accused of using 'Grindr' app to sexually assault victims pleads not guilty.
Bottom line is, be careful out there!! We just had this dude going around in San Diego... Man accused of using 'Grindr' app to sexually assault victims pleads not guilty.
I keep getting a guy message me "I know it's upfront but fancy a quick earner", I have no idea what that means. I've asked him before but still don't know. I'm assuming something do with money, no clue tho lmao. Also, the guys who act like NPCs... do people not see chat history? Why do they keep spamming hi or the same pictures of their arseholes.
Sounds like they want to advertise some bullshit pyramid scheme, NFT, bitcoin, cryptocurrency and those types of stuff… so annoying
I'm drawing the line...
...the next guy from grindr that shows up and clearly doesn't match the pics he posted is not getting past the threshold.
I try to share honest pics. Everyone has their preferences and I know that my body shape, age, hair color, etc is not for everybody. So, just like the whole "race" issue, if you are upfront from the get go then you cut through a lot of the BS and aren't wasting each others time.
...the next guy from grindr that shows up and clearly doesn't match the pics he posted is not getting past the threshold.
I try to share honest pics. Everyone has their preferences and I know that my body shape, age, hair color, etc is not for everybody. So, just like the whole "race" issue, if you are upfront from the get go then you cut through a lot of the BS and aren't wasting each others time.
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