Has your ‘type’ remained the same?

[deleted26601041]

Hi guys,

So, I was just wondering, has the type of guy that awoke your sexuality/male crushes remained the same up until this point in your life?

Has Mr Tall, Dark and Handsome always done it for you? Or have you segued into unfamiliar territory?

I seem to go through periods where I find other types of guys insanely hot and the lust can be off the scale, but I always return to my blonde guys.

Love to hear your thoughts!

 

[HungBtmVegas]

Stuff like body type can vary to me based on who I have my eye on, but I've been attracted to the same basic type (older white men with big cocks) my entire life

 

[deleted26601041]

Stuff like body type can vary to me based on who I have my eye on, but I've been attracted to the same basic type (older white men with big cocks) my entire life

Cool! I think with stuff like IG and social media, it’s like being in a sweet shop and you can feel attracted to guys who you previously wouldn’t have looked at irl.
Though, for me, muscular men have always done it for me the most (in particular blondes) and if I was just going on who catches my eye the most irl, I’d say it would mostly be that type.
Having a personality to match their looks would also be a bonus lol!

 

[Vertigo1814]

My first crushes were twinks, but as I came one myself I got attention from older/muscular guys and went with the flow. I used to only date body builders but it’s kinda overrated and comes with all sorts of other relationship and health issues.

Then I got older myself (mid thirties now) put on some muscle, allowed my body hair to grow and have got back to my first love…twinks ha ha.

I also got to a point where I just didn’t want to bottom anymore. It got more painful and messy as I got older and just stopped enjoying it. Sadly, relationships have ended because of that expectation of me to always bottom.

But now I’m single and fucking twinks and loving life!

 

[deleted26601041]

My first crushes were twinks, but as I came one myself I got attention from older/muscular guys and went with the flow. I used to only date body builders but it’s kinda overrated and comes with all sorts of other relationship and health issues.

Then I got older myself (mid thirties now) put on some muscle, allowed my body hair to grow and have got back to my first love…twinks ha ha.

I also got to a point where I just didn’t want to bottom anymore. It got more painful and messy as I got older and just stopped enjoying it. Sadly, relationships have ended because of that expectation of me to always bottom.

But now I’m single and fucking twinks and loving life!

That’s interesting how you say dating bodybuilders came with extra issues. If you don’t mind me asking, was it because the image to always look body perfect ended up getting in the way of real love?
Glad you’ve found your happy medium now!

 

[Vertigo1814]

That’s interesting how you say dating bodybuilders came with extra issues. If you don’t mind me asking, was it because the image to always look body perfect ended up getting in the way of real love?
Glad you’ve found your happy medium now!

Where to start:

- never staying out after 9pm because he has to get up at 6am for training before work
- cooking a romantic meal on Valentine’s Day and he puts a frozen chicken pizza in the oven before you’ve even served because it won’t be enough food
- having a hernia at 24 which meant he couldn’t have sex for a month.
- gastro issues from the protein and supplements which means he couldn’t Bottom even if he wanted too
- anger issue from the roids and even if they say they are “natural” bodybuilding naturally builds testosterone anyway which can result in outbursts of anger
- judging what I eat constantly and how much I exercise


Lol

 

[deleted26601041]

Where to start:

- never staying out after 9pm because he has to get up at 6am for training before work
- cooking a romantic meal on Valentine’s Day and he puts a frozen chicken pizza in the oven before you’ve even served because it won’t be enough food
- having a hernia at 24 which meant he couldn’t have sex for a month.
- gastro issues from the protein and supplements which means he couldn’t Bottom even if he wanted too
- anger issue from the roids and even if they say they are “natural” bodybuilding naturally builds testosterone anyway which can result in outbursts of anger
- judging what I eat constantly and how much I exercise


Lol

Wow! That was a lot to process for you!
Sounds like you’re in a much better place today, which is good.
I think the ubiquity of ‘perfect’ male bodies on social media makes it seem like it’s just gym time to look like that, but as you’ve said, it’s so much more.
Thank you for sharing!

 

[CreamEggOmlette]

Yes and no. I like to think that my taste has expanded. When I was in my 20's. I only dated guys like me or jocks (gotta love being attracted to your HS bully).

As I've gotten older, I've begun looking at men in a different fashion. Now it's about how I feel around you. If we vibe, we can definitely fuck. If not, probably not. Now my taste ranges from chubby guys all the way to twink, from younger to older, and all the colors under the rainbow.

 

[Wildman2015]

Surprisingly, my type has remained the same over the years, which I describe as fit and/or athletic. I've dated many guys who don't fit in that mold, but in my fantasies and when I'm browsing online, my eye will be drawn to the fit guys most.

 

[mxguy52]

My type has basically remained the same, relative to my age. I've always liked men who are manly and are 5-10 years older than me, ever since my teen years. Now I'm 39 and it hasn't change. In fact, guys in their 20's don't do it for me as much. 30's are also good. As long as you look "older", you're my type

 

[sheerq]

Hi guys,

So, I was just wondering, has the type of guy that awoke your sexuality/male crushes remained the same up until this point in your life?

Has Mr Tall, Dark and Handsome always done it for you? Or have you segued into unfamiliar territory?

I seem to go through periods where I find other types of guys insanely hot and the lust can be off the scale, but I always return to my blonde guys.

Love to hear your thoughts!

No, my type hasn’t remained the same at all. When was a young, white twink I wanted to be with someone similar to me. Now, I prefer darker men who are scruffy.

 

[sheerq]

No, my type hasn’t remained the same at all. When was a young, white twink I wanted to be with someone similar to me. Now, I prefer darker men who are scruffy.

…if Caleb Williams was 20 years older…

 

[LatinBubbleButt1]

I'm Hispanic and I've mostly been with Hispanic guys but I've always had a thing for taller, older white men similar to one I had previously been with. He was quite a bit older than I was and very physically fit for his age. Very well endowed as well

 

[Brodie888]

Here's a list guys over the years I have crushed so hard for. I've always had a thing for athletic dirty blonds. Especially blue eyes and hung

 

[dana2]

Hi guys,

So, I was just wondering, has the type of guy that awoke your sexuality/male crushes remained the same up until this point in your life?

Has Mr Tall, Dark and Handsome always done it for you? Or have you segued into unfamiliar territory?

I seem to go through periods where I find other types of guys insanely hot and the lust can be off the scale, but I always return to my blonde guys.

Love to hear your thoughts!

With me the biggest change was coming to the realization that there was a huge disconnect between guys I thought were very "good looking" and guys that rocked my cock. I would date or hook up with guys who my mind said were very good looking and sometimes I would realize I had no interest in having sex with them. Other times, I would go on dates with guys who I didn't think were that good looking but then in bed something about them just made my cock so excited and happy. So I have realized there is a big disconnect between what my mind thinks is good looking and what my cock thinks is hot. So I have learned to listen more to my cock. But my type is more or less the same: older, dark hair, facial hair a plus, Southern European looking, European looking Hispanic guys and Jewish guys. Shaved bodies, too many tattoos and painted nails turn my cock off.

 

[Vastian]

I wouldn't say it has change so much as expanded. Sometimes i feel a little ashamed because I still like the young thin guys I looked for when I was in my early 20s. So I do make a conscience effort to avoid those. These days though older latinos really get me going. Always appreciated African Americans but i don't seem to be their type. Least the few I was social with. Desi guys are lovely but not a big population around me I'm involved with. Asians are quite appealing as well. ...well now that I wrote it all down...guess I'm into anything but other white guys.... not cuz they arnt good looking just not that exciting for me.....this whole post makes me sound like a jackass doesn't it...

 

[Southeasterner]

My "type" is over. I realized that the "type" I considered beautiful was an oppressive media imposition, but in any case, I always thought that the ideal partner would be approximately my age, ranging from 5 years before to 5 years after. Today, I have increased the range, ranging from 10 years before to 10 years after, as life expectancy has been increasing.

However, the most important thing was the deconstruction of the physical idealization of this "type". I always found beauty in everyone, but I was more restricted when it came to myself. Today, I have no barriers regarding race and/or ethnicity. However, there needs to be interest and harmony between me and the other person.