Have you ever cheated?
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No. I haven’t cheated.nnbut when I am single, it seems that I end up fucking people in relationships
12 years into my relationship with my husband I had a severe mixed episode (I'm bipolar). I was so manic AND depressed at the same time, not to mention all of the circumstances that leading up to it.
A little context, my husband and I opened up the relationship VERY briefly because he for whatever reason has zero sex drive. In the instance I'm talking about his family had gotten into his head about me and I thought I was losing him. I was so depressed I broke my sobriety from alochol and opiates and used Grindr for the first time. To this day his family is doing things to try and seperate us. In the past his grandfather ended up paying for his tuition on the condition he lives with his mother, and not me, while in school.
That entire side of my family, literally my mother-in-law, his sisters, their hetero Latino Trump supporting idiot spouses, all of their kids, both sets of his grandparents, are at this very moment is on a cruise without me. Still don't know whats' true and what isn''t. Bottom line in my head is that if they wanted me there they would have expressed it. My husbands mom paid for his ticket for "graduation" and allegedly, according to him, said I could go if I paid my own way. I'm not wealthy like them. I work a full time respectable job, but I'm not a college graduate. IF they did say that, they knew I couldn't get the money together on that short notice.
I don't believe they said that though. Because my husband acted very confused a few months later when I brought it up. I'd rather be told "You're an outsider. You're not welcome. They don't like you." than deal with this bullshit.
Sorry... I think I needed to get that out.
My husband did cheat on me about 6 years into our relationship as well with his best straight friend. I bawled, but more for the fact that I had been put through Hell with his suspicious mind and cheating accusations when he was the one who had done it.
If you made it this far thanks! I feel a lot better having written that out.
A little context, my husband and I opened up the relationship VERY briefly because he for whatever reason has zero sex drive. In the instance I'm talking about his family had gotten into his head about me and I thought I was losing him. I was so depressed I broke my sobriety from alochol and opiates and used Grindr for the first time. To this day his family is doing things to try and seperate us. In the past his grandfather ended up paying for his tuition on the condition he lives with his mother, and not me, while in school.
That entire side of my family, literally my mother-in-law, his sisters, their hetero Latino Trump supporting idiot spouses, all of their kids, both sets of his grandparents, are at this very moment is on a cruise without me. Still don't know whats' true and what isn''t. Bottom line in my head is that if they wanted me there they would have expressed it. My husbands mom paid for his ticket for "graduation" and allegedly, according to him, said I could go if I paid my own way. I'm not wealthy like them. I work a full time respectable job, but I'm not a college graduate. IF they did say that, they knew I couldn't get the money together on that short notice.
I don't believe they said that though. Because my husband acted very confused a few months later when I brought it up. I'd rather be told "You're an outsider. You're not welcome. They don't like you." than deal with this bullshit.
Sorry... I think I needed to get that out.
My husband did cheat on me about 6 years into our relationship as well with his best straight friend. I bawled, but more for the fact that I had been put through Hell with his suspicious mind and cheating accusations when he was the one who had done it.
If you made it this far thanks! I feel a lot better having written that out.
Have only ever cheated on one partner, and the affair partner turned out to be my wife... I was more the homewrecker of the situation though as I just had a gf, and AP was married.
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