Have you ever cheated?

Have you ever cheated ?


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12 years into my relationship with my husband I had a severe mixed episode (I'm bipolar). I was so manic AND depressed at the same time, not to mention all of the circumstances that leading up to it.

A little context, my husband and I opened up the relationship VERY briefly because he for whatever reason has zero sex drive. In the instance I'm talking about his family had gotten into his head about me and I thought I was losing him. I was so depressed I broke my sobriety from alochol and opiates and used Grindr for the first time. To this day his family is doing things to try and seperate us. In the past his grandfather ended up paying for his tuition on the condition he lives with his mother, and not me, while in school.

That entire side of my family, literally my mother-in-law, his sisters, their hetero spouses, all of their kids, both sets of his grandparents, are at this very moment is on a cruise without me. Still don't know whats' true and what isn''t. Bottom line in my head is that if they wanted me there they would have expressed it. My husbands mom paid for his ticket for "graduation" and allegedly, according to him, said I could go if I paid my own way. I'm not wealthy like them. I work a full time respectable job, but I'm not a college graduate. IF they did say that, they knew I couldn't get the money together on that short notice.

I don't believe they said that though. Because my husband acted very confused a few months later when I brought it up. I'd rather be told "You're an outsider. You're not welcome. They don't like you." than deal with this bullshit.

Sorry... I think I needed to get that out.

My husband did cheat on me about 6 years into our relationship as well with his best straight friend. I bawled, but more for the fact that I had been put through Hell with his suspicious mind and cheating accusations when he was the one who had done it.

If you made it this far thanks! I feel a lot better having written that out.
 
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Have only ever cheated on one partner, and the affair partner turned out to be my wife... I was more the homewrecker of the situation though as I just had a gf, and AP was married.
 
Not proud, but I have cheated on almost every partner I have had.
 
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I've cheated before, wasn't planning on it but I was going through things I felt better talking to a stranger about and it went from chatting to meeting.
 
Only in one relationship I have ever cheated, and it was with my current partner. I had sex with her sister.

I'll get raked over the coals for saying this....but it was an opportunity that I could not ignore. This woman is just gorgeous. And when I saw her naked for the first time, the perfect body, tits and ass, it was all there.

She lives in Canada, and I live in the United States so we don't get the chance. But when we do get the chance, we'll get together.
 
Only in one relationship I have ever cheated, and it was with my current partner. I had sex with her sister.

I'll get raked over the coals for saying this....but it was an opportunity that I could not ignore. This woman is just gorgeous. And when I saw her naked for the first time, the perfect body, tits and ass, it was all there.

She lives in Canada, and I live in the United States so we don't get the chance. But when we do get the chance, we'll get together.
Big question is, does your wife know?
 
I was in a long term relationship with a guy who couldn’t stay off dating apps and Grindr. I ended up downloading an app, trying to see if he was once again lurking on there. And yep, there he was on the app, looking for men. So I got pissed and got drunk and ended up sneaking off in the middle of the night while he was fast asleep, just so I could meet this gay couple. The younger dude fucked my ass raw while his older boyfriend sucked me off. I came so hard and it was one of the hottest experiences of my life. I came home with the dude’s cum still inside me and I slept so good that night, knowing that I had given my bf a taste of his own medicine.
 
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