Help me get over my obsession with straight guy(s)

[Boaxy]

Ok this is kind of a problematic take to me (though I agree about Grindr), so I just wanted to reply directly.

There is little that mentally separates gays and straights imo. We gotta drop the differences and focus on what we all have in common. Wanting someone unattainable is normal for any sexual orientation - nobody can help what they’re attracted to. The advice many people have given here apply to that situation for anyone, including me (don’t think of them when you jerk off, give yourself some space, etc.)

I do hope you find your hot boyfriend someday. And I’m sorry about Grindr - it is definitely racist sometimes and I’ve had some people say some horrible shit to me there as well lol

Yes as a Gay Black man, I hate Grindr. I refuse to use it.

I just can't stop thinking about him, (My Straight crush I've known for years, and he doesn't even want to be friends anymore after I revealed my feelings. I cried, and cried, and still dream about this man.) and I feel the world is fucking stupid and unfair.

As long as he doesn't have a Girlfriend/is single, if you can't get a straight guy out your mind. Maybe the universe has something in store for you with him? Or maybe not. But yeah.

Or being gay just fucking sucks. And you forget about him.

Either or, it's whatever.

 

[neil sharma]

I just love straight guys period !