Hey. My name is Tony, I am in the middle of an almost 8 month relationship with my girlfriend. She says we have a lot of arguments which I can agree on, but she could'nt once complain about our sex, which is also something I'd agree on, I'm just not sure about how true that is. I am only 5 inches but she says she loves everything I do (pounding her, the way i fuck, the way i take control, making her orgasm orally, etc.) I am just self concious about my size and nothing seems to make me feel better. Is there anyway to tell that she's lying or telling the truth? Please help
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The only person you should be directing this question to is her. No one knows you or her, what your relationship is like and what she would be like if she was lying. The bigger issue here seems to be that you don't trust what she's telling you.
Not all women are the same, just as not all men are. If she seems like she's enjoying it then she probably is. Though it is easy for us to fake it during sex. But again, no one here can answer if she's faking it or not.
Also, if you are one who keeps on going on about having a small cock and constantly asking for reassurance.... this could be a turn off for her overtime.
Has she said in the past that she likes big cocks? If you're so worried about it then what about using toys or a penis extender / sleeve every now and then? There's nothing wrong with adding some new things in the bedroom.
Not all women are the same, just as not all men are. If she seems like she's enjoying it then she probably is. Though it is easy for us to fake it during sex. But again, no one here can answer if she's faking it or not.
Also, if you are one who keeps on going on about having a small cock and constantly asking for reassurance.... this could be a turn off for her overtime.
Has she said in the past that she likes big cocks? If you're so worried about it then what about using toys or a penis extender / sleeve every now and then? There's nothing wrong with adding some new things in the bedroom.
Either trust her or don't. Or go spend tons of time and effort and potentially money to go learn body language tells/etc. Even so, if you're able to read her body language/etc and it's truthful, sounds like your insecurity won't lead to you believing that, either.
In spite of the minority of the population who are indeed size queens/kings, assuming the skill is there (and depending on the person), they like you, it's entirely possible to have great sex with an average sized penis.
This site has its perks, but going to a site centered around large penises to ask if you can trust your woman saying she enjoys sex with you, no matter what your size is... Is a bit counter intuitive.
If you're that stuck on an insecurity, possibly seek a therapist. Or dump your girlfriend, since you apparently don't trust her anyway
We always ask eachother if we're happy about our sex, and we always say yes. Do you think its possible she may be saying this just to prevent sexual pleasure issues? She says she would tell me if our sex wasnt good, I just dont know. She's never said she likes big dicks or anything.
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Anything is possible. But if you don't believe what she's telling you then that's not something that anyone else can fix for you.
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So she says she can't complain about the sex and you agree, but you're questioning her? Seems to me like you're questioning yourself dude. Get the worries out of your head, if she's having a good time then enjoy the moment. Has she ever brought it up in one of your many arguments?
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Only an issue in your head then I'd say. Don't let it be. Not every girl wants a hung monster in bed like not every girl wants a ripped muscle guy that's what make life so interesting. You can't know the secrets to another man's marriage, an old saying, but what works for some won't work for another. Stop questioning the sex and start questioning why you're arguing so much.
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If she's lying then she would already have left you.
Forget about your dick.
from the sound of it, if you lose her, it will be because of the arguing.
Or she might leave because you are so insecure about your damn dick ( that's not coming across as masculine confidence )
Or- maybe what you are arguing about is your insecurity over your dick?
Forget about your dick.
from the sound of it, if you lose her, it will be because of the arguing.
Or she might leave because you are so insecure about your damn dick ( that's not coming across as masculine confidence )
Or- maybe what you are arguing about is your insecurity over your dick?
if you want a woman to not like you and sex with you because your dick is too small, just keep asking her like a kid if your dick is too small. Eventually she will say yes. There is nothing a woman likes less than a guy who is insecure
Have you always been self-sabotaging?
Here are the facts, that you are choosing to ignore...
1) You and she have been dating 8 months.
2) You both agree that sex is good.
Does it really matter if you're big or small, thin or thick, cut or uncut, etc...
Does it really matter if her tits are B, C, or D cups, if she prefers one position over another, if she rides you or plays passive, etc...
The two of you are ENJOYING sex together. That's what matters.
I would be more concerned that you are thinking she may be lying to you. Why are you doubting her words AND actions?
You should consider whether you asking if she is lying because you
(a) think she is deceitful, lying and trying to hurt you;
(b) think she is using you for your money, possessions, status and therefore willing to lie;
(c) are trying to sabotage the relationship out of fear and insecurity;
I'm with @Phil Ayesho , if you're going to break up, it is more likely over the arguments and insecurity, not dick size.
As I've said before, people date people, not dicks. If all they wanted was a cock, then they don't date or/and can use a dildo.
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Btw I wouldn't bother replying to this thread anymore. On the day that the OP posted this he pm'ed me asking how to delete this thread and his account cos he's embarrassed for posting it. Obviously he didn't like the frank responses. And it appears that hasn't been back since.
[QUOTE="Antonio_52300, post: 6356941, member: 1062669"I am just self concious about my size and nothing seems to make me feel better. Is there anyway to tell that she's lying or telling the truth? Please help[/QUOTE]
A few things...
First, you don't really have a particularly small cock. So, there is unlikely to any issue here, except in your mind.
Second, if she's telling you that she's loving the sex, believe her.
Third, do not make the mistake of going on and on to her about the small size of your cock. I can almost guarantee she will not find this an interesting topic of conversation, and in the worst case scenario she will find it so annoying that she'll end the relationship.
A few things...
First, you don't really have a particularly small cock. So, there is unlikely to any issue here, except in your mind.
Second, if she's telling you that she's loving the sex, believe her.
Third, do not make the mistake of going on and on to her about the small size of your cock. I can almost guarantee she will not find this an interesting topic of conversation, and in the worst case scenario she will find it so annoying that she'll end the relationship.
there are methods, like water-boarding, electro-shock, cutting, slicing, burning, dental pliers and rusty hammers often to the trick but, I think the amazing sex might end. for good.
learning to believe the one you're with is really, so much more satisfying than those trips to the abandon whare houses. at midnight. and you can build trust and honesty on open and candid communication.
learning to believe the one you're with is really, so much more satisfying than those trips to the abandon whare houses. at midnight. and you can build trust and honesty on open and candid communication.
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Are you rich; or do you own a lot of property ? Do you spend lotsssssssssssss of money on her in general ?Is she an illegal, trying to get a green card by marrying you ? Is she close to the age where her chances of having kids is getting close at hand; and you are her last chance ? Are you one of those guys who practically invented oral sex ?
If you answered YES to any of these questions, she may just be lying to you. If you answer NO, to all of them she is probably telling you the truth, just enjoy and let the relationship take its natural course
If you answered YES to any of these questions, she may just be lying to you. If you answer NO, to all of them she is probably telling you the truth, just enjoy and let the relationship take its natural course
