Heteroflexible for Gay Couple?

[gaydude45]

One idea that's been flitting through my head is the notion of straight men who are apathetic and/ or indifferent to sexual activity with their gay male friends. My boyfriend and I are sexually happy, but the idea of us showing a straight friend a good time is hot and appealing. Therefore, my question is this:

Would you straight men ever experiment with your two gay friends (who are a couple)?

 

[Rooker]

Ask a Bisexual Man is just two sections down.

 

[gaydude45]

Ask a Bisexual Man is just two sections down.

I would, but my question is to straight men for how far they may go under the best of circumstances.

 

[ronin001]

1 Personally, I do not see that as a path I would walk down.

2 Porn is not real, it is essential to be able to separate fiction from fact

3. Why does this fantasy require a straight man ? Is the straight guys body different, is his penis longer, does it taste better, stays harder ?? If you want to try a 3 way, I assure you as long as there is an erection and a pulse, you will be just as satisfied if the male is Bi or Gay

 

[gaydude45]

1 Personally, I do not see that as a path I would walk down.

2 Porn is not real, it is essential to be able to separate fiction from fact

3. Why does this fantasy require a straight man ? Is the straight guys body different, is his penis longer, does it taste better, stays harder ?? If you want to try a 3 way, I assure you as long as there is an erection and a pulse, you will be just as satisfied if the male is Bi or Gay

It would objectively mean a man who has only ever exhibited heterosexual behavior. I don't care what his thoughts and feelings are. I'm gay, and that is my lifestyle choice; I didn't happen upon my partner by accident. Our friend would be straight, and that is his lifestyle choice; he was only ever with women, regardless of personal thoughts or feelings. Actions are what matter most, not this internal hollabaloo that the pontificating pseudo-educators in American perpetually prattle on about.

In short, we want (in our theoretical fantasy) to introduce a straight friend to man on man action.

 

[Intellectualmeat]

It would objectively mean a man who has only ever exhibited heterosexual behavior. I don't care what his thoughts and feelings are. I'm gay, and that is my lifestyle choice; I didn't happen upon my partner by accident. Our friend would be straight, and that is his lifestyle choice; he was only ever with women, regardless of personal thoughts or feelings. Actions are what matter most, not this internal hollabaloo that the pontificating pseudo-educators in American perpetually prattle on about.

In short, we want (in our theoretical fantasy) to introduce a straight friend to man on man action.

Just curious. Would you be offended if a straight man wanted to introduce you to pussy?

 

[Intellectualmeat]

One idea that's been flitting through my head is the notion of straight men who are apathetic and/ or indifferent to sexual activity with their gay male friends. My boyfriend and I are sexually happy, but the idea of us showing a straight friend a good time is hot and appealing. Therefore, my question is this:

Would you straight men ever experiment with your two gay friends (who are a couple)?

No.

This is common fantasy espoused by gay men on LPSG. I think this appeals to you for the “taboo” nature of it. Making this man like something he has never liked likely gives a boost to your libido and pride. It’s the same as straight guys who want to fuck lesbian women simply because they are lesbian. Both are feats of conquest.

 

[ronin001]

I wish you and your BF well on your adventure. There is nothing wrong with having a fantasy. However one should always care about / consider others and their thoughts and feelings.

I pose a question to the OP. A lesbian couple has a fantasy to seduce and bed a Gay man. They like your self are asking for input, they only care about his past / present sexual behavior. Under what circumstances would you agree and join them ?

 

[ronin001]

I wish you and your BF well on your adventure. However one should always care about others thoughts and feelings. There is nothing wrong with a fantasy Good going for the use of Alliteration (P) in the last sentence, it really drove your point across the finish line .

I do want to close with an FYI, it is not PC to categorize people / friends into straight or gay. This any more than categorizing friends by race or nationality or gender. A friend is a friend. Not my black friend, my white friend, my Mexican friend, my Asian friend nor my Canadian friend

 

[gaydude45]

Just curious. Would you be offended if a straight man wanted to introduce you to pussy?

Not at all, that would be awesome! I've never tried it, so that would be rather hot, actually. He would be one hell of a friend for hooking me up.

 

[gaydude45]

No.

This is common fantasy espoused by gay men on LPSG. I think this appeals to you for the “taboo” nature of it. Making this man like something he has never liked likely gives a boost to your libido and pride. It’s the same as straight guys who want to fuck lesbian women simply because they are lesbian. Both are feats of conquest.

Very well articulated, and I agree with you wholeheartedly. Still, the theory is quite appealing.

 

[gaydude45]

I wish you and your BF well on your adventure. There is nothing wrong with having a fantasy. However one should always care about / consider others and their thoughts and feelings.

I pose a question to the OP. A lesbian couple has a fantasy to seduce and bed a Gay man. They like your self are asking for input, they only care about his past / present sexual behavior. Under what circumstances would you agree and join them ?

I might actually explore with a lesbian couple. I kid you not, the thought entered my head last night.

 

[gaydude45]

I wish you and your BF well on your adventure. However one should always care about others thoughts and feelings. There is nothing wrong with a fantasy Good going for the use of Alliteration (P) in the last sentence, it really drove your point across the finish line .

I do want to close with an FYI, it is not PC to categorize people / friends into straight or gay. This any more than categorizing friends by race or nationality or gender. A friend is a friend. Not my black friend, my white friend, my Mexican friend, my Asian friend nor my Canadian friend

Well without the designation, then the whole point I am making would be without its premise. We are the only gay friends to all our straight friends (we don't have any gay friends); for the purposes of our discussions here, it makes sense to clearly delineate in text for the sake of total comprehension. I'm not going to explicate offense where none is intended.

 

[ronin001]

I appreciate your informative replies

 

[lapdog2001]

One idea that's been flitting through my head is the notion of straight men who are apathetic and/ or indifferent to sexual activity with their gay male friends. My boyfriend and I are sexually happy, but the idea of us showing a straight friend a good time is hot and appealing. Therefore, my question is this:

Would you straight men ever experiment with your two gay friends (who are a couple)?

Short answer: No, absolutely not.

I'm straight (heterosexual) not by choice but by instinct, genetics, brain chemistry, or whatever it is that makes a male only want to be sexual with females. There is nothing about a man that interests me in any kind of sexual way.

If you two were my friends and posed the question to me (none of my gay friends every have even hinted at anything like this with me) I would say No Thanks and suggest you approach a 'straight acting" gay or bisexual man. Isn't str8 used to designate non-heterosexual men that appear to be stereotypically straight?

 

[gaydude45]

Short answer: No, absolutely not.

I'm straight (heterosexual) not by choice but by instinct, genetics, brain chemistry, or whatever it is that makes a male only want to be sexual with females. There is nothing about a man that interests me in any kind of sexual way.

If you two were my friends and posed the question to me (none of my gay friends every have even hinted at anything like this with me) I would say No Thanks and suggest you approach a 'straight acting" gay or bisexual man. Isn't str8 used to designate non-heterosexual men that appear to be stereotypically straight?

Well then that would be my partner and I; most people we meet actually think we're either friends or just roommates. Well surprise surprise, we are in fact butt buddies, and monogamous ones at that. I will qualify all of this by saying that it is merely fantasy and speculation. We do in fact know better, but exploring the want, desire, and even the fetish as it were are too alluring to ignore in the bedroom. Hehe we do like to keep things there lively, and we're not quiet.

 

[Rooker]

It is cool that you understand there are several of straight me that do not want to engage in anything sexual with men. I get what you are asking, you want a closeted bi or curious or whatever. I get that. I still think you will find better answers in the bi section.

My answer is no. Not a chance.

 

[cofrader]

One idea that's been flitting through my head is the notion of straight men who are apathetic and/ or indifferent to sexual activity with their gay male friends. My boyfriend and I are sexually happy, but the idea of us showing a straight friend a good time is hot and appealing. Therefore, my question is this:

Would you straight men ever experiment with your two gay friends (who are a couple)?

Interesting are you trying de Morgan law with us? since no straight men would have sex with a single gay men perhaps a doble negation becomes acceptance so you are trying as a couple. Well it doesn't.
What it's a good time for you is not for me, it puzzling that you didn't develop empathy about your friends about what they want not what do you want, moreover if you see them as potential sex partners you are not a true friend.

 

[gaydude45]

Interesting are you trying de Morgan law with us? since no straight men would have sex with a single gay men perhaps a doble negation becomes acceptance so you are trying as a couple. Well it doesn't.
What it's a good time for you is not for me, it puzzling that you didn't develop empathy about your friends about what they want not what do you want, moreover if you see them as potential sex partners you are not a true friend.

You're taking this far too seriously. No one has violated you. This is just a theory for discussion purposes only; there are no propositions or persuasive language contained, therein. I am seeking viewpoints from straight men on the subject. So cool your jets, cupcake.

 

[cofrader]

You're taking this far too seriously. No one has violated you. This is just a theory for discussion purposes only; there are no propositions or persuasive language contained, therein. I am seeking viewpoints from straight men on the subject. So cool your jets, cupcake.

Buttercup, your lack of empathy is evident speaking about rape with a stranger is a serious matter at least ask my zodiac sign first.
I'm giving you my viewpoint without any adjective, I'm sorry If touched a nerve.
I try to break it for you would you offer a ribb to someone you know is a vegan? Obviously not but veganism is a philosophy now offer him something that is against his being his identity, no one has to be flexible to humor someone else. And if someone accepts it just means he was bi or gay, and it's also alright.
The obsession with straight kinda reminds when woman were preferred virgin it perhaps talked more about that person insecurities than the virgin itself.