There is no Objective Need to be a slave to mass propaganda, brainwashing, conditioning, and their ever-changing, random, whatever labels, narratives, noise, nonsense, and nastiness. You are and will always be a man who is Alive, Healthy, Horny, and Optimistic. That is more than enough to think about yourself and advertise around. After all, no one has promised you or any other male that you will ever play with a wet pussy!
So, you cannot and should not justify your competitiveness and interest in playing hard with any such or not (yet) as being out of reach for all males and completely careless and indifferent by eternal default about our daily strong Objective Need for wild and unforgettable Safe hard sucking, fucking, and cumming! They owe us no reasonable apologies for that just like we owe them no obsessive fixation on their little pussies! Fair enough.
As a classic win-lose double standard, it is extremely dangerous and devastating to genuinely care a lot more about anything, such as wet pussies, than they will ever care about You and what matters to you in AND out of bed. Your one dear life, radiant Health, strategic interests, fabulous well-being, and bright future require that You NEVER AGAIN allow yourself to go and especially to stay like a planted tree on the dark losing end of any win-lose deals, relations, and relationships because it is You who must exist somehow and suffer in silence from the dire consequences!
Our great ancestors were objective and pragmatic realists who kept their beautiful eyes open for Objective Reality and how things actually are and work! They knew or quickly learned that a hand is a hand, a mouth is a mouth, a hole is a hole, Safe Pleasure is Safe Pleasure, hard fucking is hard fucking, and cumming is cumming. Everything else is a detail that is only important for the other two Target Goals- procreation and propaganda!
You are well advised, son, to be aware of your Target Goal at all times and to pursue it to the exclusion of all else, particularly competing or conflicting Target Goals. Otherwise, you will be like an arrow attempting in vain to fly towards two different Target Goals at the same time, which will doom you and ensure your common failure to hit any of them! Ouch.
So, if and when your Target Goal is Safe Pleasure, you simply use any and all Safe hands, mouths, and private parts you can get and use regardless of anything and, if necessary, despite everything, just like our wise ancestors did, guilt-free, shame-free, labels-free, and confusion-free. After all, failing to address and satisfy an Objective Need almost always quickly results in struggling, suffering, and even agonizing in silence, which is always the greater evil and thus a dark, disadvantaging, and devastating path to follow beyond a reasonable doubt.