Mate your response is measured and I like that (the ignorant bit not so much though). You give a good insight to this over stretching arsehole practice and I was curious re the this would have long term effects on this performer hence my original comment.
Can I also just say that why do some commentators feel the need on this and other forums, adopt the over passionately defence these blokes that work within the gay porn industry.
The models come into it for the money, attention, adulation and the positive affirmations that it give them and dont need defending for this.
Just Saying!
Lol sorry mate, I didn't mean to offend you with my comment. I was using the word ignorant in a literal dictionary definition sense of "lacking knowledge or awareness" on the subject matter, not the informal use that reduces the word to simply mean 'rude/stupid.' I actually thought your posts were cute in such an innocently querying way on such a kinky subject matter haha.
As for the latter half of your post, I can't and won't comment on other peoples posts here, but I wasn't 'defending' holenextdoor. I was just facepalming at both the negative
and positive comments policing the condition of his hole lol. No, he doesn't and won't need diapers with the level of play he's currently doing and no, what he's doing absolutely isn't simply 'normal' gay sex. Of course it's understandably shocking to see what he's capable of to the average person, because the average person is in all honestly, frankly vanilla. And I guarantee he enjoys how different he is in both a hole and exhibitionistic sense (I know I do~). I just thought to educate the folks here a bit because to us who are deep into the kink (heh) and see these kinda comments
all the time...they've honestly become kinda cringe lol. If anyone's interested to learn more from an actual professionally licensed colon doctor on the subject, I'd recommend the Such FFun podcast episode "Doctor's Orders" (note: lots of fisting discussion in there tho so if that's icky to you be advised).
Oh, and while I wasn't really defending holenextdoor here, I have and do defend people against cruelty. Ultimately, I just want people to be happy so long as what they're doing isn't literally hurting someone. And if "money, attention, adulation and positive affirmations" achieve that goal I'm glad. Conversely, if theft, negligence and condemnation result in negative affirmations in a person I'd hope I could help change that.