Ahah this is always a funny question. Well i got through many steps personally, my dick grew discontinuously: till 17yo i was 5.5, while in my 20s i got 7.5x5.5 in girth. Even after my dick grew i thought i was small average but didn't make a big deal of it. Then I jerked with 2 friends and I was the biggest, then my gf was surprised about my size, then the web started calling my dick “very big” or even “huge”. I still laugh to that cause every time I get hard I think: “is it really big?”. Then, when I start jerking, I always go “who gives a fuck eventually”. Ahahaha. This is really a topic that makes penis owners crazy, not necessarily for being small, but for not being able to understand how big they actually are, or in general how their dick actually looks like. For me the ultimate understanding was this site for real. I think ppl should really be more encouraged in experimenting even among peers when it comes to understanding sexuality. Jerking together or stuff like that is somewhere in between a party and a therapy... that’s why it sounds scary lol, but it really helps picturing anything as normal, cause it is!
In the end where does “big” starts for you guys?