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as a be married guy (no extra curricular) with a bi wife, looking for quite some time for a simaptico, bi couple. Most of the time, the guy is not bi... this is pretty common around here. So my hunt has been, challenging! (We are very particular!)
Started in bi side many years back at a local small gym in the 90s. It had a set off open showers, naked sauna and jacuzzi. In jacuzzi where it was steamy, many times you could see guys obviously playing with each other under the water. Guys would approach me sometimes but I ignored them. Then one late night a bunch of guys jumped in or sat on the sides. The mood turned horny and erect guys started rubbing into each other. Unable to resist, couple of guys grabbed me and I did the same. I think everyone came in the jacuzzi! I remember like it was yesterday.
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My first was someone close and they made the first move and everything just happened organically. After that a few of my coworkers at my new job right out of HS were gay. Sometimes we would go out partying and things would just happen. They wre all the older daddy type so it was a learning experience for sure.
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First time was with a guy i met on a chatbox then we did private chat and cam sessions for months. Took a while befor i dared taking the step for real date. First date was at his home lots of jerking off and sucking an shooting. After that i became more easy mayb a bit too easy 
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I just had my first bi experience last night. I had played with a couple guys as a teenager so I kind of knew I was at least curious.
I met a guy on Telegram a few months ago. We chatted regularly, exchanged pics, cammed together once. Felt comfortable with him. As luck would have it, I ended up planning a solo vacation trip that was close to where he worked. We arranged to meet up, we exchanged cell #'s. Ended up back at my hotel room. Had an absolutely amazing experience with him. He understood it was my first time and didn't push things.
I met a guy on Telegram a few months ago. We chatted regularly, exchanged pics, cammed together once. Felt comfortable with him. As luck would have it, I ended up planning a solo vacation trip that was close to where he worked. We arranged to meet up, we exchanged cell #'s. Ended up back at my hotel room. Had an absolutely amazing experience with him. He understood it was my first time and didn't push things.
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When I was away at college at age 19 i danced at a club in Massachusetts. At the time no one I knew knew that I was a stripper. EspecialLy for mostly men. Especially fully nude.
The tips were usually good. A few weeks In I even had two “regulars” who would come to tip me, get privates, and touch and grind/get grinded on as much as could be done discreetly.
The club was the first time I was sexual for men. I showed off every inch of my body there. Getting on all fours on stage and showing my asshole was a regular, expected thing that was uniquely objectifying in a way that felt both really hot and really dirty. (Definitely for 19 year old me, who the year before was playing baseball at another college.)
...As I continue at the club, a regular offers to have me dance for him at his house on an off night.
He gives me his number during a one on one booth dance. I call him.
He’s a chill guy and his offer’s great - a really nice amount to dance for him privately at his place. We text a bit and I tell him i’m interested. He tells me he wants me to dance for him in a classic jockststrap and then go nude. He wants to blatantly touch instead of the sneaky lap dances at the club.
It felt exciting scary dirty dangerous . I did it regardless
I went to his place and he greeted me and showed me around. As we had agreed in previous chats, I changed into just a jockstrap and towel (which I brought in a target store style plastic bag) before nervously going to his lounge type area, where I started to dance to a playlist i auxed .
On a table by where he was sitting were some bills and also lotion. As i was dancing he started rubbing the lotion on my chest and abs and ass.
By then I’m more relaxed. I get into the music. I feel my cock start to get harder in my tight jock. I dance more and have him help me pull down my jock. I’m more than semi hard but not fully erect. I’m into it.
Once I’m full naked, I step back, swing my dick around for him then I proceed to do an ass centric bit. Show my hole like at the club
I show my ass, turn back around and gyrate while on my knees, shake my cock for him, than go over and straddle him. I rub back and forth and feel his hard cock through his pants all the while he strokes me. I get fully rock hard.
He tells me I don’t get that hard at the club and I tell him that the club feels different. At the club I had to position myself in a way that he could touch my cock but it had to be out of view.
So I gyrate and he strokes my very hard cock. I tell him it is new to me. I tell him that at the club is the farthest I’ve gone with guys.
He then asks if he could suck it if he could be the first man to make my cock cum and tells me he would almost double his offer. I just keep gyrating and say ok. He starts sucking.
I start to think about Everything and for a split second I get softer but he starts to stroke the base as he sucks and I feel myself getting harder again and getting close to cumming,too
I give in to the blowjob. He touches my chest with one hand and strokes the base of my cock while he sucks. I moan and feel on edge. I’m zoned out just feeling good and I say Oh fuck I’m going to cum and I start pumping cum hard and his mouth stays on my spasming cock until every drop of my huge fucking load is swallowed.
He asks if I feel good and I say yeah and he tells me to pose a way for him that he likes while he strokes and gets the load. I watch him jerk off and I feel so dirty. I feel hot. I feel naughty. He cums on a towel he had put on his lap. I watch his eyes as they’re in me and his cock spurts. I eventually go to the barroom to pee and also change into my street clothes.
I say to myself that I had my first gay experience. I say to myself I got paid for it too. I say to myself I’m a slut. I say to myself I liked it.
The tips were usually good. A few weeks In I even had two “regulars” who would come to tip me, get privates, and touch and grind/get grinded on as much as could be done discreetly.
The club was the first time I was sexual for men. I showed off every inch of my body there. Getting on all fours on stage and showing my asshole was a regular, expected thing that was uniquely objectifying in a way that felt both really hot and really dirty. (Definitely for 19 year old me, who the year before was playing baseball at another college.)
...As I continue at the club, a regular offers to have me dance for him at his house on an off night.
He gives me his number during a one on one booth dance. I call him.
He’s a chill guy and his offer’s great - a really nice amount to dance for him privately at his place. We text a bit and I tell him i’m interested. He tells me he wants me to dance for him in a classic jockststrap and then go nude. He wants to blatantly touch instead of the sneaky lap dances at the club.
It felt exciting scary dirty dangerous . I did it regardless
I went to his place and he greeted me and showed me around. As we had agreed in previous chats, I changed into just a jockstrap and towel (which I brought in a target store style plastic bag) before nervously going to his lounge type area, where I started to dance to a playlist i auxed .
On a table by where he was sitting were some bills and also lotion. As i was dancing he started rubbing the lotion on my chest and abs and ass.
By then I’m more relaxed. I get into the music. I feel my cock start to get harder in my tight jock. I dance more and have him help me pull down my jock. I’m more than semi hard but not fully erect. I’m into it.
Once I’m full naked, I step back, swing my dick around for him then I proceed to do an ass centric bit. Show my hole like at the club
I show my ass, turn back around and gyrate while on my knees, shake my cock for him, than go over and straddle him. I rub back and forth and feel his hard cock through his pants all the while he strokes me. I get fully rock hard.
He tells me I don’t get that hard at the club and I tell him that the club feels different. At the club I had to position myself in a way that he could touch my cock but it had to be out of view.
So I gyrate and he strokes my very hard cock. I tell him it is new to me. I tell him that at the club is the farthest I’ve gone with guys.
He then asks if he could suck it if he could be the first man to make my cock cum and tells me he would almost double his offer. I just keep gyrating and say ok. He starts sucking.
I start to think about Everything and for a split second I get softer but he starts to stroke the base as he sucks and I feel myself getting harder again and getting close to cumming,too
I give in to the blowjob. He touches my chest with one hand and strokes the base of my cock while he sucks. I moan and feel on edge. I’m zoned out just feeling good and I say Oh fuck I’m going to cum and I start pumping cum hard and his mouth stays on my spasming cock until every drop of my huge fucking load is swallowed.
He asks if I feel good and I say yeah and he tells me to pose a way for him that he likes while he strokes and gets the load. I watch him jerk off and I feel so dirty. I feel hot. I feel naughty. He cums on a towel he had put on his lap. I watch his eyes as they’re in me and his cock spurts. I eventually go to the barroom to pee and also change into my street clothes.
I say to myself that I had my first gay experience. I say to myself I got paid for it too. I say to myself I’m a slut. I say to myself I liked it.
I think being a nudist first helped me along to being bi. I just began to notice guys dicks more and more. Then I had a guy suck me and that made me want to suck a dick even more. I did and found i loved it
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Pretty early on, don't know how it happened I would watch porn with a buddy and we would jerk off. I would catch myself looking at his dick and not the porn nothing ever happend though.
After that, curiosity got the best of me and started stroking on cam with other guys. This made me want to do it even more. Finding the right guy was crazy hot.
Then my first real experience was a massage with a very happy ending.
After that, curiosity got the best of me and started stroking on cam with other guys. This made me want to do it even more. Finding the right guy was crazy hot.
Then my first real experience was a massage with a very happy ending.
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Started with my best friend here and there then I got the best blowjob I've ever had in my life from a random dude after smoking weed in Vegas(I came so hard i thought I was going to die that night) and I was hooked ever since
Back in the day with craigslist, things were frigid and boring at home, found a local hookup, been doing it since, use silver daddies and squirt mostly.
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