How is watching straight porn not gay?

[Assman1]

Yawn to the last two posts. Yes the sight of watching a beautiful woman be fucked is incredible but how is that not possible without a hard cock?

 

[tobythecat]

Yawn to the last two posts. Yes the sight of watching a beautiful woman be fucked is incredible but how is that not possible without a hard cock?

True but their point is simple, for Straight guys they are NOT turned on by the cock otherwise they would be Gay or Bi at least, they are turned on by the woman. Obviously you cant have Straight porn without a cock but that's not the reason Straight guys watch it.
So to answer the OP watching Straight porn is certainly not gay no matter how much the OP wishes it to be.

 

[14600801]

True but their point is simple, for Straight guys they are NOT turned on by the cock otherwise they would be Gay or Bi at least, they are turned on by the woman. Obviously you cant have Straight porn without a cock but that's not the reason Straight guys watch it.
So to answer the OP watching Straight porn is certainly not gay no matter how much the OP wishes it to be.

Solo female also exists

 

[deleted16896471]

for sure it does

 

[tobythecat]

Solo female also exists

Yeah I know that but the OP's original post, the thread starter stated that he was talking about straight male/female porn and his assumption that straight people get off on the guy rather than the girl which has been proven wrong here.

 

[tabana]

Shortly after I came out, I was watching some type of a Hollywood film with a gay friend and I asked him who he looked at when there was a kissing scene. The answer seemed obvious to both of us then but I realized over time (when trying to figure out who I looked at) that the choice is seldom given to you as the editing, camera angle, etc will actually dictate where your focus will go. When I did have the choice though, I noticed that I would look at who I was most attracted to, sometimes the man, sometimes the woman. How frustrating must it be then, I wonder, for him not to be able to gloat on the man when he's got no interest in what the woman felt or how she looked.

This is what got me even more curious about straight porn, you see, because why so much focus on the man? Thanks to your answers, I get it now and though I don't ever know what normal means, this part helps me see even clearer.

I and normal ppl watch porn like this:

We just want to see beautiful women fucking in our favotire positions. We just want a fast way to fap or get excited.

 

[Frozen Heart]

Shortly after I came out, I was watching some type of a Hollywood film with a gay friend and I asked him who he looked at when there was a kissing scene. The answer seemed obvious to both of us then but I realized over time (when trying to figure out who I looked at) that the choice is seldom given to you as the editing, camera angle, etc will actually dictate where your focus will go. When I did have the choice though, I noticed that I would look at who I was most attracted to, sometimes the man, sometimes the woman. How frustrating must it be then, I wonder, for him not to be able to gloat on the man when he's got no interest in what the woman felt or how she looked.

This is what got me even more curious about straight porn, you see, because why so much focus on the man? Thanks to your answers, I get it now and though I don't ever know what normal means, this part helps me see even clearer.

Ofc I was joking when I said "normal".

There are all kind of porn movies. There are many where we don't even see the man's face. Those are my favorite btw. I can imagine myself with the girl if the male actor is barely shown.

You just watched some straight porn where the male actor had more screen time.

 

[cofrader]

Shortly after I came out, I was watching some type of a Hollywood film with a gay friend and I asked him who he looked at when there was a kissing scene. The answer seemed obvious to both of us then but I realized over time (when trying to figure out who I looked at) that the choice is seldom given to you as the editing, camera angle, etc will actually dictate where your focus will go. When I did have the choice though, I noticed that I would look at who I was most attracted to, sometimes the man, sometimes the woman. How frustrating must it be then, I wonder, for him not to be able to gloat on the man when he's got no interest in what the woman felt or how she looked.

This is what got me even more curious about straight porn, you see, because why so much focus on the man? Thanks to your answers, I get it now and though I don't ever know what normal means, this part helps me see even clearer.

Perhaps when you are a hammer all you see is nails.
Perhaps the ia of the site knows you and when you look for straight after looking for gay suggest more male focus porn.

Perhaps there is straight and straight.

https://imgur.com/KBn4n

 

[gymbro30]

Discussions like this really make me shake my head in disbelief. When did men start becoming so insecure and stopped being just men. Porn is a fantasy depiction of a sexual act, so dicks are involved, but now that's somehow gay? For me that falls into the same logic as: taking a shower naked in a gang shower is gay, saunas are gay, pissing at a urinal (especially without dividers) is gay, sharing a room with another guy is gay, changing in front of another guy is gay, if somehow I ever see another dick or somebody sees my dick, its official, I'm gay...sorry for the rant, bur men these days really have to get over themselves...

 

[figgnewton]

Discussions like this really make me shake my head in disbelief. When did men start becoming so insecure and stopped being just men. Porn is a fantasy depiction of a sexual act, so dicks are involved, but now that's somehow gay? For me that falls into the same logic as: taking a shower naked in a gang shower is gay, saunas are gay, pissing at a urinal (especially without dividers) is gay, sharing a room with another guy is gay, changing in front of another guy is gay, if somehow I ever see another dick or somebody sees my dick, its official, I'm gay...sorry for the rant, bur men these days really have to get over themselves...

When I was in senior high school we had open shower room. We all showered do i guess I was gay back then and didn't realize it.

 

[figgnewton]

Yawn to the last two posts. Yes the sight of watching a beautiful woman be fucked is incredible but how is that not possible without a hard cock?

Yep. Even if she used a dido I guess that would still be gay.

 

[figgnewton]

Porn is Fantasy. It is not a depiction of reality, it is a projection of (male) sexual fantasies. That's why the over-the-top screaming. I also do not like the fakiness, but, as everything, there is better and worse quality porn.

The guy moaning when he cums, I find it SUPER annoying. And if you look at the comments of many straight videos, you will read that a lot of guys do not like when the man make noises (or even worse, comments). That is why most likely is no more zooming on the man's face.

About why the focus is not the cock making the women cum, one can answer that in many different ways:
- They already do it, but not in most movies
- They already do it, but in a fake way. The woman enyoing being blast with sperm is an example.
- They cannot really do it. Is not that easy to make a woman cum with a dick, tongue or fingers are best for that.
- They don't do it because ultimately it does not matter. Porn shows women enjoying pleasing a dick, praising dick. Women pleasure is surrogated to cock (not men) pleasure.

I think the last one is the most accurate. And, as I said, this is because porn is a fantasy. That does not happen in real life (or not very commonly), but we would like that to happen. How can anything be hotter than a woman so in love with your cock that she enjoys more the cock orgasming that orgasming herself? That's the ultimate sexualization fantasy for a straight guy.

So true. Porn is just that... fantasy that most couples don't do but most men would love to. I have been with a few woman that enjoyed sucking my cock and swallowed and I ate them out like no tomorrow ! But most never got into cock pleasuring like in porn.
All porn is for men and yes some woman. There are some good lesbian scenes out there that look real and I enjoy watching woman pleasuring each other. Is there a thread on here where woman open up and say they like worshipping cock, like cum and swallow and to enjoy Nutting a cock. I do assume there are many ( a lot?) Woman that are into bandage, BDSM
At the end of the scenes they tell you why they liked it or maybe again being paid they will do anything. Maybe that's the whole answer. $$$$. Sex sells and some of these woman are fairly wealthy and yes some are dead or down and out. That's my 2 cents on it.

 

[deleted17703901]

I ment flying penis, without a person attached to it.
And to show it without been requested those things that only work on porn.

Lol, waiting for the movie: "The night of the Flying Penis."

 

[tobythecat]

Lol, waiting for the movie: "The night of the Flying Penis."

You wanna see a Flying Penis??

Here he is..

 

[ronin001]

Porn can stimulate the fantasy part of ones brain.

Someone posted a thread asking if jacking off was gay . I think I answered, that if one is thinking of a woman taking the place of your hand, then it is hetero. If one is thinking of a guy, replacing your hand then the fantasy part of your brain may be a little Bi or Gay.

Same for watching M F Porn. If you watch and envision yourself as the guy getting oral or penetrating the female, that is one thing. However if you watch M F Porn and you envision yourself as the woman, giving the male oral; or being penetrated, Wellllll that may just be a little Bi

Then again some guys look at the M and F in the video and fantasize about getting oral / topping them both. No harm no foul. But fantasy is just fantasy, until one makes fiction fact

Just my opinion

 

[figgnewton]

Porn can stimulate the fantasy part of ones brain.

Someone posted a thread asking if jacking off was gay . I think I answered, that if one is thinking of a woman taking the place of your hand, then it is hetero. If one is thinking of a guy, replacing your hand then the fantasy part of your brain may be a little Bi or Gay.

Same for watching M F Porn. If you watch and envision yourself as the guy getting oral or penetrating the female, that is one thing. However if you watch M F Porn and you envision yourself as the woman, giving the male oral; or being penetrated, Wellllll that may just be a little Bi

Then again some guys look at the M and F in the video and fantasize about getting oral / topping them both. No harm no foul. But fantasy is just fantasy, until one makes fiction fact

Just my opinion

Dito !

 

[gymbro30]

Porn can stimulate the fantasy part of ones brain.

Someone posted a thread asking if jacking off was gay . I think I answered, that if one is thinking of a woman taking the place of your hand, then it is hetero. If one is thinking of a guy, replacing your hand then the fantasy part of your brain may be a little Bi or Gay.

Same for watching M F Porn. If you watch and envision yourself as the guy getting oral or penetrating the female, that is one thing. However if you watch M F Porn and you envision yourself as the woman, giving the male oral; or being penetrated, Wellllll that may just be a little Bi

Then again some guys look at the M and F in the video and fantasize about getting oral / topping them both. No harm no foul. But fantasy is just fantasy, until one makes fiction fact

Just my opinion

There actually is a discussion about whether jerking off is gay? OK that is seriously twisted and pretty much proves my point further up. If men feel weird about doing what comes natural because somehow (SOMEHOW) that us supposed to be gay, you really need to grow up and grow a pair and stop acting like paranoid insecure sissies, good grief...

 

[figgnewton]

If a gay person watches stra8 porn does that make the person stra8 ? I'm a male and watch girl on girl porn does that make me a lesbian ?

 

[longstroke7]

Next you'll have guys saying that touching yourself is gay because you're enjoying stroking a penis.

 

[Sexedup]

I watch porn with my wife
We copy what we are watching, and fantasise and talk about it when it's lesbian, MMF, FMF, etcwhen I'm not around, wife watches lesbian porn mostly, which is a separate turn on.