How many of you are "Sides" (oral no anal)?

[deleted22016481]

I am a side and tried anal yet it wasn't my thing and I've no problem with guys or trans women telling me it will be okay and just relax but I tried and it isn't for me but I love orally receiving and giving.

How many here are like me?

 

[dreamer20]

It's good to have a label for people who don't want to insert a penis/have a penis inserted in the anus. Long before that label I was happy to find satisfaction from rimming, oral, being fingered and massaged instead. A past partner of mine, who was happy with "side action", stated it was preferable to bareback anal sex as it was "cleaner". Michael Henry has a video concerning Sides here:

 

[deleted22016481]

It's good to have a label for people who don't want to insert a penis/have a penis inserted in the anus. Long before that label I was happy to find satisfaction from rimming, oral, being fingered and massaged instead. A past partner of mine, who was happy with "side action", stated it was preferable to bareback anal sex as it was "cleaner". Michael Henry has a video concerning Sides here:

Thank you!

 

[HappyMedium]

I never knew there was a name for it. I'm not into anal either, so I guess I'm a side

 

[SlamminSammy]

I guess I'm a bicurious side?

 

[halcyondays]

I'm not but I've hooked up with guys who do everything except anal including specific things like only handjobs, bjs, frotting, hot dogging, tantric massage and other foreplay.

I love to penetrate--and quickies are fun and sometimes necessary--but long lingering languid foreplay has always been my favorite part of sex.

 

[longjohnny21]

I haven't had anal in years (lots of) and neither top/bottom side suited me. Sometimes some folks opt for one because they feel they have to (lol gay programming). Maybe in future it'll happen but I really doubt it. Like a lot of stuff it just sounds better in theory and in your head.

And finding proper partners for it, good luck.

 

[allin4cum]

if your defining a side as strictly oral and no anal, then YES, that would be me with a capital S. LOVE giving and receiving blowjobs and playing with the cum before swallowing.

 

[CumLovingMWM]

I never knew there was a name for it. I have zero interest in anal (or kissing or body contact); I simply want to stroke and suck cock.

 

[raddude]

While I am not strictly a side, most of the time that my vibe.

 

[deleted22016481]

if your defining a side as strictly oral and no anal, then YES, that would be me with a capital S. LOVE giving and receiving blowjobs and playing with the cum before swallowing.

Wow, we might have lots of fun if we ever hooked up.

 

[playklax01]

Up until maybe a year or so ago I had no idea there was a 'label' for it. I'm a total side! And I'm seeing it pop up more and more on dating sites and whatnot. I've always felt there was so much more to do than just fuck... And I was never really into it either way (active or passive), it just did nothing for me.

 

[marriedasian]

I know many men who are "sides" and a handful of them are in long-term relationships with other sides. I will admit that I was a bit surprised when I met the first one though because I always associated sexual activity with penetration (straight or gay couples) however that was decades ago and I've been enlightened many times over since.

 

[Tristane]

I know many men who are "sides" and a handful of them are in long-term relationships with other sides. I will admit that I was a bit surprised when I met the first one though because I always associated sexual activity with penetration (straight or gay couples) however that was decades ago and I've been enlightened many times over since.

That is awesome. I am hoping someone creates some dating app for side purpose only. I feel it would be easier and avoid the long winding attempt to relate to guys who want to a top or bottom strictly. I am open to trying anal if its someone im connected to, but will be just fine with oral, kissing, frotting, jerking, edging, rimming etc. I don't see myself as either position, even verse. If someone knows of where to meet men that are sides let me know.

 

[Cum_is_Great]

That is awesome. I am hoping someone creates some dating app for side purpose only. I feel it would be easier and avoid the long winding attempt to relate to guys who want to a top or bottom strictly. I am open to trying anal if its someone im connected to, but will be just fine with oral, kissing, frotting, jerking, edging, rimming etc. I don't see myself as either position, even verse. If someone knows of where to meet men that are sides let me know.

I'm just glad the term side is becoming more known and mainstream. It'll take a while but it will be easier to find other sides eventually!

I was a reluctant bottom because I had no interest in topping but I also dont get much out of bottoming either. But I do enjoy the top getting so much pleasure from topping me. There's barely any *physical* pleasure and it's mostly mental.

 

[HairyAFBro]

I'm mostly a side. I'll top a bro if he really wants that, I'm happy to help out. But with a guy I love frot, edging/stroking together, bjs.

 

[Fun Size]

I guess this describes me too. I'm mostly into women but love looking at and playing with cocks. Chicks with dicks are awesome but hard to come by so I'm not one to pass up the opportunity to kneel and bob for a dude! I have a big collection of toys I've been trying for years but they really don't do it for me. I keep trying because I feel like I must be missing out on something. I've never had the real thing though so I guess I'll have to try that before giving up on anal, I'm pretty sure it would be way better! I'd want to start small though. My size would be perfect for first timers, short and thin!

 

[JBrown61]

I've always been a side for as long as I've had any homoerotic feelings, and have never really had an interest in Anal. I like the look of a nice ass, but have always been a little turned off at the idea of penetrating one. But I always love seeing a handsome guy with a great jawline trying to take my girth down his throat, or swordfighting and jacking off with each other.

 

[Alexmvrq]

Thank you for the information, I didn't know there was a term for this, I always wanted to know if there was a term for my case, but nobody knew of its existence, because I don't practice anal sex at all and I've never given in to social pressure (gay culture) and I've always found this part of the body very repulsive (anus, buttocks) I've always defined myself as asexual because of this.

What I find unfortunate is that gays only live for anal and that there are people who practice it anyway just to please, but in reality they find it very unpleasant and even painful (several people have told me so).

I've just discovered the term g0y (g-zero-y) for a man of any sexual orientation (gay, straight, bi) who has sex with a man, excluding anal sex.

 

[BiSexplorer]

The older I get the broader my sexual repertoire and the less need do I feel to perform anal. Also, being a side is sometimes „necessary“ if you have IBS or something else… though I do enjoy topping from time to time so lol