Replace the word "some" with "most," at least in my sexual history.
Like I've said, it's sexy if the rare woman wants to do it, but no big deal if not. Part of the fun of exploration is learning the other person's proclivities.
How many woman enjoy swallowing sperm and how many just do it to please the man?
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Like I've said, it's sexy if the rare woman wants to do it, but no big deal if not. Part of the fun of exploration is learning the other person's proclivities.
i agree with u absolutelly......i dont obly guys to lick my pussy if they are not into it.....thats simple FREEDOM....anyone can do what he/she likes....and in my case i love sucking cock and swallowing hot loads....but that is my personal choice,,,,i respect who does not do it or whatever sexual practises they are into it.....
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On the other hand, a man should know if he doesn't want to eat my pussy, I'm not keeping him. If I do, I have only myself to blame for a life lacking in fantastic oral sex.
yes dear, there has to be some balance in tastes, if not a relationship is imposible. For me for example is basic that my partner is into feet. My long term bf has a huge foot fetish and in all those years he has made me also into it. I coulnt date a guy if he is not gonna massage and lick my feet before sex, simply i cant relax myself for sex if this is lacking. I guess for me these are SEXUAL Preliminaries.
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Sounds like you have a few interesting prerequisites. I once went on a date during which the guy washed my feet and sucked my toes. And we were at a bar! It was kind of hot.
She is talking about a specific issue, and it's one that bugs me too.
Although I have no real sense of what proportion of the male population they make up, there are a fair number of guys out there who expect to receive oral sex, but refuse to give it. I was hoping some of the ladies around here could give me some sense of what proportion of the male population are like that (in another thread).
Because this is driven in part by weird cultural assumptions (women are "dirty down there," smell bad, taste bad, sex should be for his benefit not hers, none of which I agree with), men who expect to receive but not give were kind of a hot discussion topic in certain circles back in the 1990s. Before my friends started talking about guys like that, I didn't even know men like that exist. Hearing the news shocked and offended me.
Oh, and I have heard that complaint more often from African-American women than white women, so I suspect that this attitude is more prevalent among Evangelical men. Not that I would know.
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In my experience, there are certain Caribbean men who won't do it, but then the ones who do sometimes act like it is such an impressive and difficult thing for an American woman to find. For example I kept shooting down a Jamaican dude who was working for my grandmother who spent hours telling me how good he was at "doing things [my] man won't do". It was hours before I was sufficiently attuned to his accent to understand what he was suggesting. By then he was being quite graphic, vulgar even. Meanwhile, my dude at the time was from Antigua, and his face practically lived up my snootch. He didn't make a huge deal out of it, he just liked what he liked, and what he liked was to eat me out. I told the Jamaican dude this, but he kept insisting he could do what my man would not. I also found that where I lived, guys of Italian descent were either enthusiastic, or totally opposed. I ended up not laying with the latter group at all.
Most, nearly all, of the men I laid with were eager to rat pussy, some were also into analingus. I have encountered nearly no resistance.
If your guy likes eating pussy, you can tease him a little beforehand with an "appetizer."
Get one or two of your fingers really covered in pussy juice, but don't let his face or hands get near just yet. Make lots of wet noises while you get your finger(s) sloppy so he can think about what his mouth is going to get. Then feed him the pussy juice off of your finger(s) nice and slow. While he's licking and sucking your finger, you can think about what his mouth is going to be doing next...
Forgive me, i really don't want to offend you , but if u believe that this whole thread is disgusting and nauseating, why u keep licking all my comments? i really don't understand.
Yes i have a few prerequisites as u said,,,and basically are on my feet,,,,(sometimes i start kissing the guy even after that)....after that i become cock craving and stroke the guys cock and suck him,,,,to he honest i don't really need penetration,,,that is a plus....i have orgasmed many many times sucking a big cock while fingering myself at the time,,,,,and after my feet my second big turn on is to receive the guys hot load in my mouth,,,,,
and now dear,,,,i am very curious how that man managed to wash your feet and suck your toes in the bar,,,,,i am very intrigued hahaha
I can get hard just by kissing a woman, and I'm not picky about which set of lips are used for that purpose.
I swear I've hit the jackpot of girlfriends. My lady loves oral more than anything else. She says it's because she enjoys knowing she's providing the ultimate pleasure for another person. Tying into that, she enjoys either swallowing or taking a load on her face/boobs, etc.
Personally, I prefer cumming on her, as opposed to in her, but I usually leave that decision up to her. Either way...she absolutely loves it. I really am a lucky man!
Personally, I prefer cumming on her, as opposed to in her, but I usually leave that decision up to her. Either way...she absolutely loves it. I really am a lucky man!
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He asked a cocktail server for a bowl of hot water and a rag.
It is just as easy to swallow it as it is to discretely spit it into the palm of your hand. Sometimes I like the taste of it, and sometimes I don't, but even chocolate tastes horrid if I just don't want any. I am happier swallowing it I think.
I'm pretty sure my own obsession with oral sex comes from adolescence, when most of my girlfriends didn't want intercourse, but were willing to do anything short of intercourse.
While it was frustrating, I actually kind of liked it, and I even had a no-intercourse relationship in adulthood (with a woman in her early 40s while I was in my late 20s). I kind of didn't mind the sexual restriction because it made me nostalgic, and also the emotional side of the relationship was intense, if rocky.
I love that guys attitude,,,so brave and not conventional...to do it right there in fronT of everyone....¡BRAVO!
Showing your man that you are not disgusted by his fluids and want to take it in you is a show of absolute trust and familiarity and you are sharing a very intimate experience with him. It is bonding.
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