I am currently in a relationship with a man (been so far exactly one year and 2 months) and while everything I could ever want in a partner are there, I could discover as we progressed some issues with our sexual desires.
He is very little romantic, hates kissing and cuddling, his sex act is thr basic routine… i would suck him, he would barely touch me and then he just goes on to fuck and it all lasts for less than 30 mnts.
And he always needs to watch porn while we do it.
He has convinced me that he doesnt like to have sex all the time (which yes i do agree a relationship isnt always about sex) so we have sex like 2-3 times a month.
Aside from the incompatability in sex, I dif sacrifice most of the things i enjoy doing in a sexual activity because of love and attachment to him and because he is a good man too.
However the last 3 months I discovered that he does watch porn and masturbate by himself, almost daily.
I confronted him once and I told him: heck man, tell me you wanna do this, I will join.
We had a conversation about it and
While he promised to do so and not do that since we r together, I discovered he kept masturbating alone and watching porn
This has started to frustrate me and put me under stress.
I need advice
He is very little romantic, hates kissing and cuddling, his sex act is thr basic routine… i would suck him, he would barely touch me and then he just goes on to fuck and it all lasts for less than 30 mnts.
And he always needs to watch porn while we do it.
He has convinced me that he doesnt like to have sex all the time (which yes i do agree a relationship isnt always about sex) so we have sex like 2-3 times a month.
Aside from the incompatability in sex, I dif sacrifice most of the things i enjoy doing in a sexual activity because of love and attachment to him and because he is a good man too.
However the last 3 months I discovered that he does watch porn and masturbate by himself, almost daily.
I confronted him once and I told him: heck man, tell me you wanna do this, I will join.
We had a conversation about it and
While he promised to do so and not do that since we r together, I discovered he kept masturbating alone and watching porn
This has started to frustrate me and put me under stress.
I need advice