How often do older women fantasise about young men ?

[cougartoy]

I know it's one of the most cliche genres of porn. But for some reason it never gets old and young men are always fantasizing about "hot milfs". So my question is what women think about this age old fantasy. Do older women fantasize about young men they see or know ? And if so, how often ? Also, do they act on those fantasies ? (Take the first step, or hope the younger man initiates ?)

 

[693987]

I wouldn't count myself as "older" but I have had a child, and lemme say, being in my mid-to-late twenties...... I am not thinking about some 18-20 year old (or anyone that is maybe more than a year or so younger than I am). Not even remotely appealing, sorry.

 

[sanaxx]

as an older woman (and creator of new group for cougars/cubs), I enjoy that dynamic very much so. Most men my age just don't do it for me anymore. There's a few that I can say I truly enjoy looking at or fantasizing over. Mostly my fantasies include much younger men, as do some of the real life encounters that I've experienced.

now I have friends who want nothing to do with younger men at all, they don't find them appealing other than eye candy.

 

[LaFemme]

Not young young. My age or maybe ten years younger. I'm not into older men at all.

 

[cougartoy]

Thank you for all the input ladies... so from what i've gathered there are women who fantasize about younger men and there are those who prefer men of same age. Interesting outlook, please keep the opinions flowing

 

[stickywetmom]

OMG, all the time!!!!

 

[EllieP]

Zero. Young uns don't do it for me. I guess I'm one of those weird chicks who really require intimacy to be fully satisfied. And for some reason I just don't see the fresh meat being able to provide that. Maybe I'm wrong, but I just don't have that fantasy.

 

[Betty_Cocker]

I have ... and do sometimes. Fantasies are great tools for sexual pleasure.
We've played openly before and always, always, it was a cougar/cub situation.
At least 10 years younger.
It was easier for everyone involved to enjoy the moment without a lot of drama and hassle.

Pretty much now, it's just fantasy. But there are a few guys that I really enjoy thinking about, "what if".
And yes, there must be a chemistry connection. But not really one that leads to cuddling and snuggling afterwards.

I've actually enjoyed being the cougar for guys.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

I once dated a guy about a year younger. Does that count?

 

[EllieP]

I once dated a guy about a year younger. Does that count?

That was about the same for me. But I think I went younger, like maybe a year and a half or two! Hot!

Well, kinda hot. I don't remember the sex being fireworks on anything like that.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Yeah, because younger meant less mature, fewer clues overall and less experience, in theory.

 

[AlteredEgo]

My dude is 5 years younger. I think I'm pretty good at communication, but he's so much better. I actually love when we have a problem to work through, because he really pits in the effort, and after it is all resolved, I feel so much closer to him.

 

[SprinkleMe69]

I prefer younger men. However under 30 is just a little to childish for me these days. 35-40 is a good age. Nothing like getting my flirt on. Absolutely love it. Hook ups? Maybe.

 

[Amygirl]

I've always gone for older guys. Hubby was 25 and I was an innocent 19yo uni student when we met.

I've always been more of a George Clooney girl than a Brad Pitt girl.