How to ask guys to escort for me?

[drybones]

So this is the thing, i have been wanting to hire an escort for a while now since i work all day and i don't feel comfortable having a serious or meaningful relationship in the forseable future.
I've looked in Rent.Men but there's nothing there that i really like. On the other hands there's these guys who live in my old neighbourhood that are so hot to me, i've been fantasizing of having them fuck me and do all sorts of nasty stuff to me, the problem is that i really don't know how to approach them on the subject of being my escorts, since when i was living in that neighbourhood we weren't really close or talk to each other that much, but they know me and i know them, and i don't know if offering a big amount of money and living with me would be enough, they're straight but they look like they would be gay4pay, there's a lot of guys from that neighbourhood who have been or still are escorts for gay men in secret (or so they think), but idk about them, i really wanna ask them but i habe so much doubt, i think about everything that could go wrong, like them not accepting and telling everybody over there that i'm looking for escorts or even worse get in trouble with their family for asking them to escort for me (cause they're really young, one just turned 18 and the other one is 19)

SO PLEASE TELL ME WHAT SHOULD I DO?????????

 

[KennyPenny]

It's really inappropriate to ask a random guy to sleep with you. Things could go well but there's so much risk and a lot to lose. I'll suggest not to approach directly. Instead try befriending them first, get to know what they actually do for money. Then sometime between conversation you can try asking them what will they be willing to do for some extra bucks. Be playful. If they agree you're lucky. If they become uncomfortable you can pass the conversation as a joke.

 

[drybones]

I've thought about trying that, but it's so hard for me since i don't live there anymore, and even if i started visiting more to see them, it's almost impossible to talk to them one on one since they always hang out in groups with really dangerous people that i just don't wanna relate to

 

[KennyPenny]

In that case you can try finding their socials and connecting with them on their insta or snap using a fake id. Talk for sometime and you'll know if they're interested. Then you can ask them directly. But please don't reveal your real identity unless you're really sure they're okay with it since they're dangerous people.

 

[LPSG Simon]

i think about everything that could go wrong, like them not accepting and telling everybody over there that i'm looking for escorts or even worse get in trouble with their family for asking them to escort for me (cause they're really young, one just turned 18 and the other one is 19)

I've thought about trying that, but it's so hard for me since i don't live there anymore, and even if i started visiting more to see them, it's almost impossible to talk to them one on one since they always hang out in groups with really dangerous people that i just don't wanna relate to

This sounds like a whole boat load of trouble....^^^ And taking the time to get to know them sounds like more work than just dating someone. Also, like dont shit where you eat; as the saying goes.

IMO, I would start where you actually know people are looking for this sort of arrangement. That way you know people are receptive already, You said rentmen was a bust so I guess you're going to have to make do with something else.

If these guys are on apps, I guess you could just make an alt profile and be sure to include the word 'generous' in the bio. Then if you approach someone they'd know, and you don't have to risk outing yourself if you end up barking up the wrong tree.

If it's trade you are looking for, and they're not on any apps, then then IDK what to suggest.

 

[auncut10in]

I have had guys email me or contact me online and ask if they could suck my money for pay. I though it would be a fun experience knowing that a guy wants to suck my dick badly enough to pay for it. If it turned out to be someone that I knew, that would totally turn me on and I would make sure he got a throat full. And I would still make him pay cause, well, for me, that is the fun of doing something like that.

So just ask. And keep your identity secret until you actually meet up.

 

[tarheel6]

In that case you can try finding their socials and connecting with them on their insta or snap using a fake id. Talk for sometime and you'll know if they're interested. Then you can ask them directly. But please don't reveal your real identity unless you're really sure they're okay with it since they're dangerous people.

This is one of the worst ideas I've ever heard.

 

[Iamyesyouareno]

So this is the thing, i have been wanting to hire an escort for a while now since i work all day and i don't feel comfortable having a serious or meaningful relationship in the forseable future.
I've looked in Rent.Men but there's nothing there that i really like. On the other hands there's these guys who live in my old neighbourhood that are so hot to me, i've been fantasizing of having them fuck me and do all sorts of nasty stuff to me, the problem is that i really don't know how to approach them on the subject of being my escorts, since when i was living in that neighbourhood we weren't really close or talk to each other that much, but they know me and i know them, and i don't know if offering a big amount of money and living with me would be enough, they're straight but they look like they would be gay4pay, there's a lot of guys from that neighbourhood who have been or still are escorts for gay men in secret (or so they think), but idk about them, i really wanna ask them but i habe so much doubt, i think about everything that could go wrong, like them not accepting and telling everybody over there that i'm looking for escorts or even worse get in trouble with their family for asking them to escort for me (cause they're really young, one just turned 18 and the other one is 19)

SO PLEASE TELL ME WHAT SHOULD I DO?????????

There is just one simple answer to your question. DO NOT just proposition random guys to have sex with you for money. That is literally just asking for trouble, both from the dudes involved ( especially if they're straight) and also from the law, potentially. Also, don't assume that anyone can be bought. It's disrespectful and it isn't likely true, either.

 

[yearites]

no no no do you forget what you were like at 18 id be scared as hell if an older man propositioned me like that. youd have to know they were a slut beforehand. only time i slept with annolder man at 18 was love

 

[yearites]

oh wait nope i was a slut