how to hide your boner when u are at public bathhouse / shower / onsen

[Brianhalim]

hi how do u gays hide your boner in front of any other str8 men in public shower or bathhouse or onsen?

i have a plan go to Japanese onsen just afraid i will getting boner and afraid people will know (including friends or family) that i am gay

 

[LPSG Simon]

You might consider a pre-game jerk off before you go, so that this is less likely to happen. If you're around friends and family and if the environment is non-sexual, the vibe might help you from keeping it from happening at all.

 

[chrisrobin]

hi how do u gays hide your boner in front of any other str8 men in public shower or bathhouse or onsen?

i have a plan go to Japanese onsen just afraid i will getting boner and afraid people will know (including friends or family) that i am gay

Just because you get a boner in a bathhouse doesn't mean you are gay - you can bet you wont be the only one, and, after the first visit it'll be a dangling flaccid cock you'll be carrying.

 

[jockbear]

You don't hide it! If you don't want to attract unwanted attention then don't act like anything is wrong. More people will notice you trying to hide a boner than if you simply ignore it and go about your business. Its unlikely that you get hard in a non-sexual situation anyway.

 

[Fun4All]

You might consider a pre-game jerk off before you go, so that this is less likely to happen. If you're around friends and family and if the environment is non-sexual, the vibe might help you from keeping it from happening at all.

When in my teens that is how I dealt with non-sexual nakedness. Once I got to college it was able to stay soft unless I started thinking about the guy showering next to me sexually.

 

[brobully]

It only happens in the first time, I swear. Take your time in the locker. Do no rush to be naked. I remember I got a boner too when you was in Japanese onsen the first time. I had to act busy with my phone and went in and out the locker room to calmed myself down. And when you see too many cocks with various shapes and sizes, you will get used to the atmosphere.

 

[chrissal480]

Usually the boner happens because of being in new area or setting.. you may get aroused at first but in time you will not. Let it be an issue and will remain limp..


It’s a subconscious thing.. .. you mind might think fuck look at all these men.. but subconsciously you’re totally enjoying g it .. so you get aroused.. after so long and many times.. your subconscious will work on it to not get excited

 

[HarryPalmas]

hi how do u gays hide your boner in front of any other str8 men in public shower or bathhouse or onsen?

i have a plan go to Japanese onsen just afraid i will getting boner and afraid people will know (including friends or family) that i am gay

Don't bother. Don't hide it, don't flaunt it. Go natural about business

 

[chrissal480]

I agree completely about going about business the more worry about it the more likely you will keep thinking guys are watching you and probably keep you aroused

And just remember .. you getting aroused.. you’re not the first to do it and surely won’t be the last

 

[Buuhan]

Stay in the water until it goes down…?

 

[Brianhalim]

okay thankyou all, i will try focus on the business and not overthinking lol

 

[chrissal480]

Just remember.. it’s a penis.. it raises on the occasions of when you think about sex..

When being naked you think wonder who is watching —

Subconsciously—- which is out of your control.. things can rise to the occasion just for the pure hell of it ..

I never worry… if it’s limp or semi hard or rock hard.. it happens and I am pretty sure my penis isn’t the first to be seen erect in these places

 

[Brianhalim]

Just remember.. it’s a penis.. it raises on the occasions of when you think about sex..

When being naked you think wonder who is watching —

Subconsciously—- which is out of your control.. things can rise to the occasion just for the pure hell of it ..

I never worry… if it’s limp or semi hard or rock hard.. it happens and I am pretty sure my penis isn’t the first to be seen erect in these places

yeah i know, just afraid what my friend think of me, afraid they think i hard for them etc

 

[John-Z23]

My cock is broken! Seriously, the internal shaft has a break in it so when I get hard it just points straight down vs standing up. (it's been like that most of my life) I think I broke it very early when I first started getting erections trying to see if it was bendable, but I digress. So it is not a problem for me and is easily concealable even when I'm fully hard. But looking at your Media pics Brianhalem, its does appear that your cock does point straight out when hard. (nice cock by the way) So this could be a problem for you.

So I too recommend what others have said. Try to jerk off beforehand until you have nothing left, then you'll be less likely to be able to get a serious erection. If you're a bottom like me I know how hard it is to control. The second I see another's man cock in the lockeroom (or elsewhere), I immediately begin to fantasize about how nice it would feel inside of me rubbing against my prostate, and before long I'm stiff as a board. But also as said, being in a non-sexual situation with friends and family might help to curtail that.

But if they don't know, I too would be terrified about my cock having a mind of its own and "outing me" at an inopportune time in front of close family. Sometimes, I just can't control it.

 

[chrissal480]

Tell

yeah i know, just afraid what my friend think of me, afraid they think i hard for them etc

them don’t flatter themselves ..

 

[Pat48081]

Here's a trick I learned in High School-
If I start to get a locker room chubby, I do math equations in my head. I'll think of a large number and start subtracting from it by 23's. When your mind is occupied with numbers, you'll stay flaccid.

 

[User101823]

You don’t need to hide it. Let it do whatever it does. Plenty of straight guys walk around with boners in all of those situations. Having a boner in any one of them doesn’t mean/isn’t a sign a guy is gay.