How to improve sensation during anal sex ?

[accidenttourist]

My read:
1. fully agree your partners are lying about "virgin". I had the pleasure to "break the cherry" of a few straight guys crossing the line (OK, OK, it's a personal fetish of mine). It's a lot of work to train up their ass muscles to take me in, even though I love the look in their eyes when they discover the pleasure from their prostates...

2. if you fuck an ass like a cave, you get the feeling you're fucking a cave...
*** How does the other guy feel when you're fucking him?
Personally I love "edging" my bottom (i.e. put him on the "edge" - he almost has to cum but not there yet), and make sure that every stroke in rub against the most sensitive spot of his highly sensitized prostate (every bottom has a different spot - if you can't tell, you haven't done your job properly as the top ...)
It's just reflex action - a guy with the urge to cum instinctively contracts his ass muscle, which is exactly what you are looking for as sensation as you fuck.
Also, if you're fucking missionary, you'll have to use your dick tip to "hit" his prostate properly. And I read that your tip is indeed your most sensitive part.
Moreover, I always trigger his orgasm right before I need to go, to be sure I have those strong rhythmic ass contraction grabbing my cock as I shoot my load...

A very long passage just to say you have to care about how the other guy feels to have great sex...

 

[accidenttourist]

By no mean did I intend to write a definitive opinion for this thread...
Any bottom here who wants to comment on my habit, of edging you while fucking you at the same time?

 

[dreambridger]

Honestly him lying flat on his belly with his legs together while you're on top of him could help with making it feel tighter, as are the bottom participating with contractions as has been all ready mentioned. But I haven't seen mentioned yet the bottom having the legs together instead of apart making a huge difference, it does if you like a tight feel.

I have the opposite problem where most asses feel too tight for me, like it kinda hurts my cock, and a loose flesh cave is much more desirable for me. But we all have different sensitivities. I have somewhat above average girth, but i don't think it's that, i think it's sensitivity.

 

[tabana]

By no mean did I intend to write a definitive opinion for this thread...
Any bottom here who wants to comment on my habit, of edging you while fucking you at the same time?

Anything edging will get my full attention. Mostly I wish you'd post a video demonstrating exactly what you mean

PS: I love this thread. I definitely stayed for the humour.

 

[Looking-In]

I have told one of the partners to try to push it out while I'm inside him, as much as he can, it feels a bit better but still not quite. However , sometimes if I went a bit deeper with him, he'd have the sensation to go to the bathroom and that's when I could feel his insides around my penis and his exterior muscle hole all loosed up and that felt really good indeed, but I'm not sure how to replicate that.

And yes, they personally never have any complaints to be honest, I think they are happy that it doesnt hurt them given it's their first time .

I believe that feeling is when they are feeling anal pleasure. When you stimulate the prostate enough it can become engorged or "horny" and swell up. Prostate stimulation to beginner's often feel like the need to pee. You should try asking them to relax and keep going. That's why the external muscles loosen up because they are starting to relax and get good prostate stimulation. If you're good at fingering you can warm up their hole prostate by pressing on directly.

 

[1373263]

My read:
1. fully agree your partners are lying about "virgin". I had the pleasure to "break the cherry" of a few straight guys crossing the line (OK, OK, it's a personal fetish of mine). It's a lot of work to train up their ass muscles to take me in, even though I love the look in their eyes when they discover the pleasure from their prostates...

For whatever reason, I seem to be able to identify and draw in curious guys and have found that a gentle approach usually brings the goods; I really don't like one nighters and tend to assist a curious guy with his interest for 6-8 weeks or longer, on a daily basis. Most of these guys end up hooked on cock on a long-term basis.
My personal experience is that many guys who have never taken a cock ("virgin" ) but are interested in doing so have played with their holes using vibrators or toys before they decide or get the opportunity to try the real thing. In my experience, these curious guys are used to relaxing their holes and have little trouble taking a cock if a gentle approach is taken, and respond well to having a cock massaging their prostate. Most of these guys will admit they have previously played with their holes, once they are hooked/have accepted their new interest.
Guys that have not played with their holes are very tense in my limited experience; I tend to refer them to a friend who makes them a specialty to get sorted; he uses poppers, warm showers, gentle cleaning, lots of lube and often some vibrator homework to get things prepared. I guess I should do so too but like the curious ones better.

 

[Jlatinochub]

Also, if you're fucking missionary, you'll have to use your dick tip to "hit" his prostate properly. And I read that your tip is indeed your most sensitive part.

P-Spot is a bottom's best friend.

 

[BulgeGuySD]

How to improve the sensation for the top during anal sex ?​

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From my experience so far with different partners, once the penis penetrates the hole and the tip goes past the anus , it feels hollow like a cave inside and I have no sensation from it.​

I have tried different positions such as doggy style, which makes it feel completly hollow inside ; having him lay on his back with his legs up in the air, this makes it feel better but still not enough to cum ; and having him lay on the bed on one side, just like in the picture included , this was the only position I managed to cum from sex so far, and that's only because I felt his hole / anus / sphincter on the tip of my penis , like walls around it and that sensation alone made me orgasm.​

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Spoiler: The other method

Another way I sometimes can feel a good sensation is whenever the partner does *something* , I don't know what he does with his insides , but he's telling me he can no longer take it and he has to go to the bathroom, that's when it's like his insides are swelling up or something, and there's a tightening on the inside around the penis, all while the anus and sphincter loosen up to the max in the same time.

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Spoiler: The other method

To me that seems like he's "bearing down" ( I dont know the exact expression / non native English speaker ) like he's going to the toilet and trying to push whatever he has inside , out .​

( Please pardon the expression / graphic image )​

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Now, I really do enjoy the ideea of sex in general and anal in particular but I would need some pointers from more experienced people as to how to improve the sensation and maximize the chances of an orgasm by getting the sensation I mentioned above.​

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* my penis size is regular / medium , both for length and for girth .​

** my partners have mostly been ass-virgin straight men , with varying body heights from shorter than me to way taller than me ( the shorter ones had sensible tighter holes while the tall ones felt very loose after a couple of thrusts inside ) as well as ages from 18 to 32.​

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that is one delicious hot looking asshole yummmm !

 

[voyeurfan]

that is one delicious hot looking asshole yummmm !

it does indeed and it also feels great too , under certain conditions, it tends to relax and loosen up quite quickly .

 

[BulgeGuySD]

it does indeed and it also feels great too , under certain conditions, it tends to relax and loosen up quite quickly .

mmmm yummm it is so hot sexy and eatable, and I find out the I like loosed holes Vs tight ones, I’m quite thick and tight holes hurt my cock, gelling spongy,
slime, warm flesh around my cock makes me cum almost instantly, of course after a good rimed job !!

 

[nhguy78]

As someone who hasn't been fucked in so long and even so was told that I'm too tight to fuck by my larger husband, you gotta treat your bottom right. Not everyone is ready to fuck and prepared to make you orgasm. They are probably not ready for orgasm inducing fucking especually sounding like you may be a little desensitized yourself. We're not porn stars. We don't orgasm on command. Inexperienced (or even experienced) bottoms don't automatically experience pleasure just from getting jackhammered by an inexperienced top. Take it easy and show your bottom some love.

 

[chrisrobin]

This is my thought as well. An experienced bottom will know how to grip your cock and even milk you with their ass. As a bottom, it really took me time to learn how to do this, but once I did I realized that I could (basically) control when the top cums.

Sounds like you enjoy having your tip stimulated. Might a blowjob be better for getting you off?

As a guy who bottoms it really took me time to learn how to milk a guy so he delivered his cum, but once the technique is there there are joys to be had, and being "done" by a good top is a real pleasure.
There was a time when I was a virgin and my first time was, to say the least, painful. I was lucky that I was being taken by a guy who knew the ropes, he was slow and patient and penetrated making sure I was happy to continue, till, at last he was fully inserted. For him too this was erotic and once he began his cock gyrations he shot his load. Now the bonus was he stayed but, his cock relaxed, got softer and I relaxed and enjoyed the sensation of his cock in my hole and his bush pressing against my buttocks. But then he began again, got hard and really fucked me and this time I came off, my cum really shot out as he plumbed my depths. Some guys lose their cherry when a guy really takes them, uses them as a fuck hole and doesn't appreciate what fucking a virgin is really about

 

[Kanashi]

How to improve the sensation for the top during anal sex ?​

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From my experience so far with different partners, once the penis penetrates the hole and the tip goes past the anus , it feels hollow like a cave inside and I have no sensation from it.​

I have tried different positions such as doggy style, which makes it feel completly hollow inside ; having him lay on his back with his legs up in the air, this makes​

are you "new" to anal sex? if so, what were you doing before? sex with vaginas? masturbating?

 

[d_sylva]

As a guy who bottoms it really took me time to learn how to milk a guy so he delivered his cum, but once the technique is there there are joys to be had, and being "done" by a good top is a real pleasure.
There was a time when I was a virgin and my first time was, to say the least, painful. I was lucky that I was being taken by a guy who knew the ropes, he was slow and patient and penetrated making sure I was happy to continue, till, at last he was fully inserted. For him too this was erotic and once he began his cock gyrations he shot his load. Now the bonus was he stayed but, his cock relaxed, got softer and I relaxed and enjoyed the sensation of his cock in my hole and his bush pressing against my buttocks. But then he began again, got hard and really fucked me and this time I came off, my cum really shot out as he plumbed my depths. Some guys lose their cherry when a guy really takes them, uses them as a fuck hole and doesn't appreciate what fucking a virgin is really about

Hot. So hot.

 

[1373263]

By no mean did I intend to write a definitive opinion for this thread...
Any bottom here who wants to comment on my habit, of edging you while fucking you at the same time?

Sounds good to me.
I can certainly feel my FB's prostate swell up when I'm fucking him and yes, I do gently aim for it until he cums and that sets me off. I wouldn't say I deliberately prolong things from an edging perspective but one of the medications I take has the effect of delaying ejaculation, so I can get him really swollen and dribbly before he cums; he begs me to fuck him and I like to take his cock too so we take turns unless I get into him first.
If he's fucking me, he fills me up so much that rubbing on my prostate is a given and I can feel things tighten when this starts to happen, I f I cum before him I let him fuck me until he cums and sometimes the pressure on my prostate will make me dribble cum for some time afterwards.

 

[voyeurfan]

are you "new" to anal sex? if so, what were you doing before? sex with vaginas? masturbating?

Kinda / sorta , the guy in the pic was my first and he was my main for about 10 ~ 11 years , but I have this issues with every other guy , regardless.

They dont come to me for love & affection, they want to get fucked and experience how it feels so that's what I'll do but it would be nice if I were to get more physical satisfaction & orgasm from it.

For example , with the guy pictured , it took literally years before I had an orgasm just by using his hole without touching myself or anything , I just found the right position for us with him laying on one side just like in the picture and me behind him also laying down. That position in particular allows me to spread his cheek with one hand so that the penis goes directly in his hole and it doesnt slip out or sideways so with that type of motion over time, I feel like the tip of my penis is enlarging while his hole is swelling up and that gets me to cum.

Haven't found another position yet that gets me that sensation that I need on my penis that gets me to cum so altho the other positions are also pleasurable from a mental point of view , they dont get me to orgasm unless I also use my hand to masturbate during the process.

Again, sorry for describing it in such a technical manner , I get it that for most people it's something intimate & pleasurable .

 

[Kanashi]

no worries for the detailed description! i'm in the same boat. i can't really cum from anal penitration either. it's only happened once or twice for me. i don't consider myself an experienced top, so i figure i just need to do it more often, practice makes perfect, right? but if you're been doing it 11 years and still struggle with it - damn! that's kinda discouraging.

like you mentioned, it's more of a mental thing for me. i like pleasing a guy and getting him off. i don't not enjoy topping. but a lot of the guys i've topped seem to be frustrated or disappointed when i have to masturbate in order to cum. even if i tell them that i still enjoyed it.

 

[voyeurfan]

no worries for the detailed description! i'm in the same boat. i can't really cum from anal penitration either. it's only happened once or twice for me. i don't consider myself an experienced top, so i figure i just need to do it more often, practice makes perfect, right? but if you're been doing it 11 years and still struggle with it - damn! that's kinda discouraging.

like you mentioned, it's more of a mental thing for me. i like pleasing a guy and getting him off. i don't not enjoy topping. but a lot of the guys i've topped seem to be frustrated or disappointed when i have to masturbate in order to cum. even if i tell them that i still enjoyed it.

No no, dont get discouraged, surely there are things we can do to improve it for us as well.
Like I said, I absolutely love male asses and holes and nothing but them so at the end of the day , if nothing, I'd still be enjoying the mental aspect of it even if it requires my hand in order to orgasm .
Wouldn't have it any other way .

 

[BulgeGuySD]

very interesting discusión, I love to top and bottom as much, but since the aids pandemic I had to refrain my self from practicing unprotected sex, I survive because of it.
I never learn to enjoy cuming inside sone one while wearing a condom that sedation was gone, no matter how much I like the guy, I had to pull out and masturbate and cum outside, I always fear the people weren’t honest about the status, even though they says their were negative, I figure if the wanted that bad they gonna have to do it that way, or not at all, some were understanding but must were not. and now there is PreP . I still no being able to cum inside a guy, I guess I’m predispose and got use to cum outside, and as much as I adore my husband, he dies not a bottom 100% top

 

[Hardyx1]

How to improve the sensation for the top during anal sex ?​

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From my experience so far with different partners, once the penis penetrates the hole and the tip goes past the anus , it feels hollow like a cave inside and I have no sensation from it.​

I have tried different positions such as doggy style, which makes it feel completly hollow inside ; having him lay on his back with his legs up in the air, this makes it feel better but still not enough to cum ; and having him lay on the bed on one side, just like in the picture included , this was the only position I managed to cum from sex so far, and that's only because I felt his hole / anus / sphincter on the tip of my penis , like walls around it and that sensation alone made me orgasm.​

​

Spoiler: The other method

Another way I sometimes can feel a good sensation is whenever the partner does *something* , I don't know what he does with his insides , but he's telling me he can no longer take it and he has to go to the bathroom, that's when it's like his insides are swelling up or something, and there's a tightening on the inside around the penis, all while the anus and sphincter loosen up to the max in the same time.

​

Spoiler: The other method

To me that seems like he's "bearing down" ( I dont know the exact expression / non native English speaker ) like he's going to the toilet and trying to push whatever he has inside , out .​

( Please pardon the expression / graphic image )​

​

Now, I really do enjoy the ideea of sex in general and anal in particular but I would need some pointers from more experienced people as to how to improve the sensation and maximize the chances of an orgasm by getting the sensation I mentioned above.​

​

* my penis size is regular / medium , both for length and for girth .​

** my partners have mostly been ass-virgin straight men , with varying body heights from shorter than me to way taller than me ( the shorter ones had sensible tighter holes while the tall ones felt very loose after a couple of thrusts inside ) as well as ages from 18 to 32.​

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That tight arse make my cock hard , I'd love to lube your entire slit with my excessive precum .