azatazat

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I’m 24 yo male, circumcised in childhood, below average endowment, and I have premature ejaculation.

Being a quick cummer is hard. When I’m horny and try to masturbate with my hand I can last for 10 seconds, I’m extremely sensitive.
At younger age I discovered pillow/mattress humping which helped me to last a bit longer, around 5 minutes.
I enjoyed the sensation of touching my cock and I wanted it to last longer.
At high school I learned about edging and after that my life was never the same. I used to edge for longer time polishing my shaft and glans and I would stop right before I was ready to bust.
But nowadays things has changed. I became so much sensitive that I am now able to cum hands free, without any physical stimulation…
I know, it sounds unreal, but I swear that’s my real struggle (or a blessing, at some point).
Traditional masturbation results in instantaneous cum, edging looks like more of a torture due to high sensitivity.
Eventually I reverted to humping which basically trained me to cum hands free as I became able to cum without even humping but only lying on my stomach with dick turned up (frenulum to the mattress). The pressure of my body was enough for me to cum without even twitching.
I got familiar with that sensation and mechanics and soon was able to cum lying on my back without even touching myself, but it is worth mentioning that I was wearing my underwear or compression shorts (the latter make it way faster).
Now my way of “edging” is just scrolling porn or this site, I don’t touch myself as even a slight caressing could result in ejaculation. It became my kink I guess… When I’m in the mood I wear my compression shorts, sit back and watch porn or read some hot stuff, I precum like crazy, it is pleasurable and I can do that for hours without even thinking about an early cum.

Long story short, I stopped masturbating with my hand and started “edging” with my compression shorts to be able to last at least 10 minutes.

I find there’s a lack of coverage on premature ejaculation topic, and would be more than happy to read your stories about this. I feel like I do need support and affirmation.
 
There are legitimate prescription pharmaceuticals for premature ejaculation, so your situation is not that unusual. Also, there are over-the-counter numbing creams that might help. I like benzocaine-based creams when I want to play for extended periods of time.
 
More often than not, I cum quite quickly, especially when I am very excited. So I have to stop stroking, and then continue again, and repeat. However, when I’m really edging, I will barely touch myself, and I’ll be able to last a long time, but if I touch my dick for more than a few seconds, when I don’t want to cum yet, it doesn’t matter, and I’ll cum immediately. I think it’s fine. Some people take long, some don’t.
 
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