I Love Asians! Who else does?

[1904491]

Just curious.

As an asian, I feel like many gay guys finding us fetish. Except of course it's fellow asian haha. I don't know.

It's 2020. If your dating choices are solely based on race, you are losing out. Simple as that. To be hones , HOT men can be found in every race, of every shade and of every size

 

[1363532]

It's 2020. If your dating choices are solely based on race, you are losing out. Simple as that. To be hones , HOT men can be found in every race, of every shade and of every size

That part.

 

[1446622]

It’s A mess over here

Indeed. I prefer the Philippines and will be moving there soon.

 

[4097701]

Indeed. I prefer the Philippines and will be moving there soon.

i think it's a mess over there too?

 

[Sayejan88]

Just curious.

As an asian, I feel like many gay guys finding us fetish. Except of course it's fellow asian haha. I don't know.

I agree with you about the fetish part. It is annoying and I have developed a sixth sense for this type of men.

Talking about dating, I find it limiting. Especially living in London where the majority of men still prefer other white men. They don't have to say it, action speaks louder than words. Doesn't mean there are less "No spice no rice" means that racism in the gay community has been eradicated. We still live in a world where the European standard of beauty is predominant. With that being said, I can't help but notice that even among the SE & East Asian men, we gauge attraction based off of the European standard of beauty. This happens a lot with the white men I've come across, a particular one I remember is "Oh, your nose isn't as flat as most Asian men.". That definitely was a dealbreaker.

 

[maenner]

...a particular one I remember is "Oh, your nose isn't as flat as most Asian men." That definitely was a dealbreaker.

I wish you could have flattened HIS nose

 

[brandon38]

Yes I do .

 

[Angkeyile]

Here is me ;p

 

[4321121]

Sometimes.

 

[Ldn]

In general yes.

 

[W4_Hung]

Well yeah, race is irrelevant to me.

 

[Quadzirella]

Asians are amaziiiiing!

 

[Demitri Jones]

the problem is that everybody is offended by everything... there is a huge population that just points fingers and talks shit.... "you're a racist!" "transphobe" "fascist" etc...and it gets really really old really fast.. political correctness has made it so nobody can say anything, even if it's true, that could be deemed 'inappropriate' and here we are on a site that is basically a big dick fetish site (i'm not really that into big dicks, but i love the discussions) and I'm pretty new here, but i see the same kind of discussions... it's ridiculous... we are not here to be PC, we are here to talk about things you can't in other places, because we are pervs, at least I am... I just get so frustrated when people can't have a sexual preference, or body type, skin color, eye color, hair whatever preference without being treated like a horrible person... sorry for the rant... it's not really all about this thread, but a lot of things at the same time keep bringing me back to this point.

If you don't wanna ne called a racist then don't do racist things. It's actually a very easy thing(if you aren't racist)

 

[Demitri Jones]

I love Mediterranean men, Latinos etc. and husky guys. I
Not fetishizing them any more than the general culture is atttracted to six pack pretty boys. Or blondes with big tits. People are people. Things that make you horny are things that make you horny. I’m so sick of people pointing fingers at everything people say or do, then wonder why we have no freedom of expression. Do your thing and treat people like human beings, but also don’t preach. Especially on a big dick forum where fetishizing penises is the reason we all come here

And you clearly don't understand the problem with fetishizing other people based on race. It's a disgusting thing to do and too many white people see nothing worng with it and have the same mentality that you do. People can come here to this site and discuss sexual things but that doesn't mean we wanna be fetishized FFS

 

[Demitri Jones]

White people are unbelievably dense when it comes to topics around race and they absolutely hate being educated on those topics. It seems they would rather cry about some completely made-up witch hunt in order to play victims when they inevitably get called out for their ignorance. White americans loathe being called racist but would never do something productive about race issues here in the U.S.

 

[W4_Hung]

Generalising white people isn't going to help either.

Some white people are dense about race, as it has never been major part of their social experience, or highlighted as affecting their life. It is the same as how most of the population don't consider that having 2 legs is a privilege, they are aware but it doesn't sit a forefront of their mind as something which benefits them.

Also, i'm mixed and the over reaction & labelling of everything as racist by minorities is tiring and also undoes constructive discussions that some of us are trying to have with people to educate them on the situation, so that they have an understanding.

Can't expect people to change their perspectives without having an open discussion.

 

[4097701]

White people are unbelievably dense when it comes to topics around race and they absolutely hate being educated on those topics. It seems they would rather cry about some completely made-up witch hunt in order to play victims when they inevitably get called out for their ignorance. White americans loathe being called racist but would never do something productive about race issues here in the U.S.

what is it when non-white people do it... totally fine... fuck off already... i'm tired of this shit
black and latino people do this all the fucking time, like all the time... stop being such a fucking douche.... and a racist

 

[Demitri Jones]

Generalising white people isn't going to help either.

Some white people are dense about race, as it has never been major part of their social experience, or highlighted as affecting their life. It is the same as how most of the population don't consider that having 2 legs is a privilege, they are aware but it doesn't sit a forefront of their mind as something which benefits them.

Also, i'm mixed and the over reaction & labelling of everything as racist by minorities is tiring and also undoes constructive discussions that some of us are trying to have with people to educate them on the situation, so that they have an understanding.

Can't expect people to change their perspectives without having an open discussion.

You being mixed doesn't mean anything so I'm not sure why you thought that was supposed to. Also, "some" is incorrect seeing as how much more than half voted for the racist administration that campaigned for white supremacy currently in office. The effects of slavery and segregation never just washed away because all the white people in power. Choose a better hill to die on than this shuck & jive kumbaya nonsense.

 

[Demitri Jones]

what is it when non-white people do it... totally fine... fuck off already... i'm tired of this shit
black and latino people do this all the fucking time, like all the time... stop being such a fucking douche.... and a racist

Ahh yes the old deflection technique. Something tells me you're one of THOSE white people that cry "reverse racism" when black people call you out for your clownery. Thanks for proving my point about white americans being overwhelmingly dense and ignorant when it comes to race in the US. Next you'll say, you've met a few black people in your life so you can't be racist.

 

[malakos]

Ahh yes the old deflection technique. Something tells me you're one of THOSE white people that cry "reverse racism" when black people call you out for your clownery. Thanks for proving my point about white americans being overwhelmingly dense and ignorant when it comes to race in the US. Next you'll say, you've met a few black people in your life so you can't be racist.

This thread isn't about you or your racial group, Captain Narcissist.