Have any of us ever asked YOU a Damn thing about our appearance?
No.
Because we ask (theoretically, many women don’t go there) the people involved. Not strangers.
As for why I linked previous discussions, the question has been answered in so many ways, and by women who are no longer active. It’s mental labor that has already been done, the wheel exists and you aren’t so special as to have none of it apply.
Remember, you come to our house.
@LaFemme, we have a new bingo square “just don’t answer.”