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I met this guy at work last year, we have become quite close and he knows I'm gay. Initially when I first met him it did not cross my mind that he might be bi/gay.
Anyway we started going out for work drinks and he started to get quite close, colleagues at worked asked if we were a thing, his behaviour was that obvious (close, flirty, touchy). As time went by we started hanging out on the weekends and started partying together (nothing sexually has ever happened) and the chemistry is/was crazy.
I have now started to question whether he is closeted or not!?
For context:
We sent 3,000 messages in 12 weeks. He acknowledges that some are flirty and that he is a flirty guy. We discuss all kinds of topics.
He admitted that he has never had such feelings towards a guy, like he does me, but that he is not attracted to them.
He says he comes from a conservative friends group and family, and that his ex GF has asked him if he was gay before.
He makes me tell him that I don't like like him sexually etc.
It's made me very confused, maybe I like him as well? But I don't want to ruin the friendship! We've had a few arguments about it but it always sorts its self. He is also becoming aware of the rumour spreading around the office and he wants to hangout less.
Any thoughts welcomed.
Anyway we started going out for work drinks and he started to get quite close, colleagues at worked asked if we were a thing, his behaviour was that obvious (close, flirty, touchy). As time went by we started hanging out on the weekends and started partying together (nothing sexually has ever happened) and the chemistry is/was crazy.
I have now started to question whether he is closeted or not!?
For context:
We sent 3,000 messages in 12 weeks. He acknowledges that some are flirty and that he is a flirty guy. We discuss all kinds of topics.
He admitted that he has never had such feelings towards a guy, like he does me, but that he is not attracted to them.
He says he comes from a conservative friends group and family, and that his ex GF has asked him if he was gay before.
He makes me tell him that I don't like like him sexually etc.
It's made me very confused, maybe I like him as well? But I don't want to ruin the friendship! We've had a few arguments about it but it always sorts its self. He is also becoming aware of the rumour spreading around the office and he wants to hangout less.
Any thoughts welcomed.