Ian Paget (model/dancer)

That sounds like internalized homophobia to me...
I think it's okay to not be sexually attracted to feminine guys? Not sure that itself is internalised anything. I don't identify with that view but for those people... it's their loss. Oh well.
 
I think it's okay to not be sexually attracted to feminine guys? Not sure that itself is internalised anything. I don't identify with that view but for those people... it's their loss. Oh well.
Exactly. I’m not into fem camp guys. No homophobia. It’s just like not being into twinks or bears or otters. Just what you are into. It’s not that deep.
 
I think in theory yes, but I think it's important to confront our attractions and living in a homophobic society where it permeates all area of daily life it's impossible to not internalize that in some way. I mean being flamboyant or noticably gay statistically lowers your projected wage and possibility for professional growth. I'm sure that we are all aware that within our own community; masculinity and being "straight passing" are a status symbol, I think it would be silly to assume you haven't internalized at least a small part of that.
 
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I think in theory yes, but I think it's important to confront our attractions and living in a homophobic society where it permeates all area of daily life it's impossible to not internalize that in some way. I mean being flamboyant or noticably gay statistically lowers your projected wage and possibility for professional growth. I'm sure that we are all aware that within our own community; masculinity and being "straight passing" are a status symbol, I think it would be silly to assume you haven't internalized at least a small part of that.
Thank you for saying this so we'll, it needs to be remembered.
 
ooooooooooh, spill
I live in Weho and I’ve seen him around and actually served him a couple of times. The first time I saw him he was wearing a muscle tee and all I could think was, “that’s a man, Maury!” Quite flamboyant lol but strikingly gorgeous. And very sweet.