Ideal duration for sex

[ak0047]

Curious what women think is the ideal duration for sex? I know nobody likes a minute man, but in my situation it’s the other way around. My wife cums almost too fast most of the time, then I feel pressure to finish quickly because she doesn’t like it to go on too long. And before I get these comments, I’m not just trying to pound away for an hr. I’m more than happy to change positions, breaks for oral, add lube to make sure she doesn’t get raw, etc. but she just isn’t into it lasting too long. Occasionally she will have multiple orgasms, but usually she is one and done. Not so much because she couldn’t cum again, but more because once she cums once she’s over it. We even did it a while back when we were stoned and it took her a while to cum and she said “see, that’s why I don’t like stoned sex. It takes too long”. I’m not expecting hours of sex, just would prefer more than 10 minutes…

 

[BiMaleHungWV]

Bi/ Pan guy here and most recent partners are guys so makes difference. My boyfriend and I usually fuck 15-30 min and only stop because my chronic hip pain. He will suck me for an hour or more. I don't usually cum unless I jack. Don't need V to get hard but to get stiff enough to penetrate I need help. Without V I have very limited refractory period (time after cmming before hard again). With V, I have none and rock hard within sec if I go soft at all.

Depend on people but best sex is when 2 people match up with desire, stamina, and understanding (especially of each other's limitations.)