Is it just me or do u guys also find it unbelieveably sexy how this guy doesn’t seem to give a fuck? He could probably walk into any scenario butt naked and still be comfortable, the thought turns me on so much.
Igor kolomiyets (model)
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Yeah same thing happened to me. He reached out said he knew a lot of agents, we'd test, and he'd send the shots out. I went over took, he took some half-assed shots and then started jerking off. He got off. I left. Never heard from him again.
I guess we have to add him to the Kevin Spacey/Bryan Singer pile of unconvicted rapists
I mean I think what he did was definitely inappropriate. But I’d still be careful about throwing around the term “rapist”. It wasn’t rape.
I’ve had that experience on a number shoots- unfortunately more than not- where a photographer uses their influence and authority to take advantage.
A stylist who required shots of my pubes before booking me jobs, a photographer who was basically on top of me grinding his knee into my cock as he shot, another giving me a viagra, another very hands on, etc.
it was hyperbole, but i mean if this is a habit of his, im not impugning his character by THAT much
that is considered rape tho, in other cases sexual harassment. they're using their positions of power to take advantage of you. you saying no to those actions would result in not getting work, therefore there's a power imbalance, meaning any consent you gave isn't valid
randomphotog
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Not really as he has had that porn out there for quite a long time and still works very regularly. No one seems to care, so good for him!
No, it’s not considered rape. Saying yes or no to a Jeremy Kost results in nothing. There isn’t a power imbalance. There’s a promise of something he doesn’t deliver on, and he uses his position - position, not power - to get off.
To say “any consent you give isn’t valid” is to undermine the personal power of those of us who knowingly and willingly have had sex with someone in “power,” older, more experienced, etc. You can know what you want, go along with it, and then have the dick not deliver it. It makes him a dick, not a rapist or sexual assaulter/harasser.
Don’t try to strip me of my power. I don’t take kindly to that.
Furthermore, it’s INSULTING to people who have been forced or had the threat of force have their trauma conflated with someone like me who has buyer’s remorse, I.e., someone who felt duped. Don’t do that. I’m a grown-ass man. There are sexual experiences I regret, but that doesn’t mean someone like me was raped.
Lastly, rethink these terms and this issue. You’re doing a disservice to real victims by conflating them.
I mean, trying to draw a firm line between "real" and "not real" victims is kind of a shitty thing that you maybe shouldn't do. So.
And I'm not passing judgment on this specific case, but any time a person uses his or her job to promise someone something in exchange for sex that's pretty suspect, even if that person's power is relatively minimal in the grand scheme of things.
And I'm not passing judgment on this specific case, but any time a person uses his or her job to promise someone something in exchange for sex that's pretty suspect, even if that person's power is relatively minimal in the grand scheme of things.
Ummm... it’s pretty clear when someone has been assaulted or raped. I know a lot of victims of sexual assault and rape, and I don’t take this issue lightly. Just because something is creepy doesn’t make it criminal.
Let’s take the Jeremy Kost talk out of a thread that’s not about it and talk about it where it belongs. Everyone’s points are valid but this thread is for something a little more lighthearted.
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Dude! Fuck your stupid ass! I’m the first one to describe what a dick he is!
