Increased Masochism

[deleted848353]

i just cant choke her the way she wants it, i wish she would like it light

Sounds like your not compatible to me

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Sounds like your not compatible to me

Agreed, but depending on how important it is to her, workable.

My guy isn’t that into some things I like. The reverse is true. We do the things WE like, and explore a bit.
Old dogs can learn new tricks. So can this old bitch.

 

[MickeyLee]

Rando: I am allergic to blueberries. My partner wants me to eat blueberries.

Everyone: Don't eat blueberries.

Same damn thing. Just Don't.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

While I agree with the blueberry analogy, there are workarounds.

the light hold the OP is comfortable with could be used with “head fuckery” where he tells her he could do more, he controls the moment, whatever... it might kick her gears just so.

 

[sudcalifornio]

Sounds like your not compatible to me

not a fan of hurting someone who i can see myself a future together, she is super sweet

 

[deleted848353]

not a fan of hurting someone who i can see myself a future together, she is super sweet

Then sit and talk to her tell her you ain't comfortable with the level of choking she is after unless you can come up with a safe way to communicate it's too much for her or if she feels your doing it wrong

 

[Scarletbegonia]

It also seems most of your posting is a communication issue with her. Sweet she may be. But if you are basically incompatible physically, in a few years post marriage, you will be complaining that you aren’t ...getting what you want...just like now.

consider letting each other go.

 

[sudcalifornio]

It also seems most of your posting is a communication issue with her. Sweet she may be. But if you are basically incompatible physically, in a few years post marriage, you will be complaining that you aren’t ...getting what you want...just like now.

consider letting each other go.

Nah, i'm juggling until it blows on my face

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Nah, i'm juggling until it blows on my face

So why make it an issue for the women of LPSG? Since you seem to not take any advice?

 

[sudcalifornio]

So why make it an issue for the women of LPSG? Since you seem to not take any advice?

i need to broaden my perspective to make a decision later

 

[sudcalifornio]

It also seems most of your posting is a communication issue with her. Sweet she may be. But if you are basically incompatible physically, in a few years post marriage, you will be complaining that you aren’t ...getting what you want...just like now.

consider letting each other go.

You were right.

we did it, but i missed her a lot, and after couple weeks i saw her at some dinner with some friends, we talked, then after i took her back to my place she didn't last more than a minute, lets say i didn't have the chance to touch her other than my dick.
I ask her about why she came so hard, so fast, she miss all what we had, then i set that boundary to choke her softly, sorry but i won't go harder or rougher, she agreed.