For over 52 years, my backdoor was closed to incoming business. It wasn't something I had a stern rule about, but just something that I simply didn't experience with a "warm real one". That's to say I did toy play with a partner, but never took the real thing until the last couple of years.
Since being open to "flipping", which I wish I started doing so much earlier in life, it surprises me how many gay men pigeonhole their "roles" with their sexuality. As a personal fan of watching gay porn, I scour actors' biographies to see if they ever tried to top or bottom even one time - THOSE are the scenes I find most fascinating to watch. I don't understand why so many men have what I consider to be a hang-up on giving equal pleasure to the person they are with. Now, I don't have any interest at all in being with someone who outright won't be willing to do both. My former long-term partner had a great looking one, but refused to ever top me, which was one of many reasons we aren't together any longer.
Since being open to "flipping", which I wish I started doing so much earlier in life, it surprises me how many gay men pigeonhole their "roles" with their sexuality. As a personal fan of watching gay porn, I scour actors' biographies to see if they ever tried to top or bottom even one time - THOSE are the scenes I find most fascinating to watch. I don't understand why so many men have what I consider to be a hang-up on giving equal pleasure to the person they are with. Now, I don't have any interest at all in being with someone who outright won't be willing to do both. My former long-term partner had a great looking one, but refused to ever top me, which was one of many reasons we aren't together any longer.
