Intolerance of those who aren't verse when you become verse.

[malakos]

Leave it to the weirdos on LPSG to have a heated debate about the semantics of gay sexual position terms.

 

[Cum_is_Great]

wired of not, you are the one who mixing sexual preferences with skin colour from family tree.
Empathy doesnt define what you like in sex or expect from a partner who told you what he likes and then likes other thing afterall. Lines exist for a reason, and im not to strict because of my issues, people communicate by saying they like X, and im looking for X, then when we get along and stay togeher have sex several times, the person tells me they like X and Y and that I should like Y to satisty them? Im not the wrong one here. All my life i was a bottom, even when a Top tell me he is a top/versatile, I lose interest, because when I imagine a top taking in the ass it turns me off.

You dont seem to want to understand me. I already confirmed you arent wrong. Just you are being too strict and narrow-minded with black and white thinking.

That you didnt understand what I meant about an empathy exercise cements to me that you aren't able to or are unwilling to see anything outside of your personal point of view or refuse to try.

Ah well. Notice how most of us are just fine with things and you seem upset? Not to be mean but, this seems like a YOU problem. But funnily enough I bet you think its eveyone else's problem because they dont conform to your very strict and very assuming perspectives and expectations.

Notice i never said you should be okay with it and try. Notice I never said he should ask you to top. Notice I never said that its wrong or bad of you to want 101% tops. Just that if the mere mentioning or asking once in 15 years is enough to break up, Its CLEARLY a you problem and overreaction

 

[Genuinkguy]

You dont seem to want to understand me. I already confirmed you arent wrong. Just you are being too strict and narrow-minded with black and white thinking.

That you didnt understand what I meant about an empathy exercise cements to me that you aren't able to or are unwilling to see anything outside of your personal point of view or refuse to try.

Ah well. Notice how most of us are just fine with things and you seem upset? Not to be mean but, this seems like a YOU problem. But funnily enough I bet you think its eveyone else's problem because they dont conform to your very strict and very assuming perspectives and expectations.

Notice i never said you should be okay with it and try. Notice I never said he should ask you to top. Notice I never said that its wrong or bad of you to want 101% tops. Just that if the mere mentioning or asking once in 15 years is enough to break up, Its CLEARLY a you problem and overreaction

not really, maybe im the one talking about it and pointing out, in reality i have talked about this with other bottoms and they agree with me, the thing is bottoms can have sex with versatiles sometimes but cant form a relationship as there are sexual incompatibilities which a bottom CANT give the pleasure a versatile demands for, so when I get a Top that ask me the same thing a Versatile would ask, then that it will not work out because as a bottom we cant provide that, i tried to top my ex once or twice in 15 years and my dick doesnt even get hard, it only gets hard when my anal zone is being worked out this is what being a bottom is.

 

[Cum_is_Great]

I tried to top my ex once or twice in 15 years and my dick doesnt even get hard, it only gets hard when my anal zone is being worked out this is what being a bottom is.

Yes, totally get that and thats fine! However, due to your words you are no longer a bottom. You tried to top. You are now verse. This is how black and white thinking works with hard lines. If you dont call yourself Verse from now on, you are lying. Again, all your own words and definitions. If you can make an exception for yourself within your own very strict definitions, then you have put yourself into that gray. You are no longer a 100% bottom. You are now 99.99% Bottom 00.01% Top and must use VERSE.

Sound silly? Remember I am merely using your own hard line black and white logic and definitions yourself used earlier. If your ex who topped you for 15 years is a liar and actually verse for asking, you are equally as guilty for calling yourself a bottom now.

(Remember, you denied those who I mentioned trying once or twice just to see what it is like or possibly to see if they could do a one time special thing for their partner, from being tops but VERSE. Hopefully you can see where I am comfing from when I say such definitions literally erode the meaning of verse and such)

 

[Genuinkguy]

Yes, totally get that and thats fine! However, due to your words you are no longer a bottom. You tried to top.

what? you are confusing what i said, I tried once and didnt worked out, IF it had worked out and enjoyed then i wouldnt be considered a bottom and that is correct and how it should be. NOW I tried once and didnt liked, so I wont be saying im a versatile when im a true pure bottom, and this is what my complain is, people that think they are top or bottom when in fact they are versatile BECAUSE they ENJOYED their experience out of what they THOUGHT they were and keeping saying per example they are TOP when they love being penetrated.

Did you get it now?

 

[Hung4HungNYC]

I will never understand the preoccupation people have with other people's sex lives. If someone is an exclusive top or bottom... who cares!! If someone is vers... who cares!! In any case, they are doing what they enjoy and that's really all that matters IMO.

 

[Cum_is_Great]

what? you are confusing what i said, I tried once and didnt worked out, IF it had worked out and enjoyed then i wouldnt be considered a bottom and that is correct and how it should be. NOW I tried once and didnt liked, so I wont be saying im a versatile when im a true pure bottom, and this is what my complain is, people that think they are top or bottom when in fact they are versatile BECAUSE they ENJOYED their experience out of what they THOUGHT they were and keeping saying per example they are TOP when they love being penetrated.

Did you get it now?

And can you genuinely push and see if SOMEHOW you actually did like it but only a small amount or enough to get hard, you are now "verse"? And that you didnt lie saying you were a pure bottom but now you "did lie" because you tried and could preform?

Anyway I already told you I understand your point of view. You dont seem to ne able to flip it around and see the nuances.

 

[Genuinkguy]

And can you genuinely push and see if SOMEHOW you actually did like it but only a small amount or enough to get hard, you are now "verse"? And that you didnt lie saying you were a pure bottom but now you "did lie" because you tried and could preform?

Anyway I already told you I understand your point of view. You dont seem to ne able to flip it around and see the nuances.

do you have problems in interpretating a text?? I said when people tell when they are TOP and like taking in the ass thats wrong, I tried once penetrating and I DIDNT LIKED IT, so I remain a pure bottom, jezz what level of IQ you have?

 

[Cum_is_Great]

do you have problems in interpretating a text?? I said when people tell when they are TOP and like taking in the ass thats wrong, I tried once penetrating and I DIDNT LIKED IT, so I remain a pure bottom, jezz what level of IQ you have?

How unfortunate. You genuinely cannot follow up on hypotheticals. Cannot do an empathy exercise. Cannot understand nuance. And you question *MY* IQ?

Thanks for the "discussion". Yet again repeating a point not being focused on and as if it hasn't been emphasized repeatedly and missing my point.

 

[Genuinkguy]

How unfortunate. You genuinely cannot follow up on hypotheticals. Cannot do an empathy exercise. Cannot understand nuance. And you question *MY* IQ?

Thanks for the "discussion". Yet again repeating a point not being focused on and as if it hasn't been emphasized repeatedly and missing my point.

mate just get back and read all again you are lost on the interpretation

 

[Cum_is_Great]

mate just get back and read all again you are lost on the interpretation

Nah. The discussion is over. You called me dumb and questioned my intelligence. I've reiterated your point back and reassured you multiple times. Claim your victory over this idiot and enjoy.

 

[Genuinkguy]

Nah. The discussion is over. You called me dumb and questioned my intelligence. I've reiterated your point back and reassured you multiple times. Claim your victory over this idiot and enjoy.

i still question when you twist what i said

 

[Cum_is_Great]

i still question when you twist what i said

You can't even take a WIN without still going. SMH