Intolerance of those who aren't verse when you become verse.

wired of not, you are the one who mixing sexual preferences with skin colour from family tree.
Empathy doesnt define what you like in sex or expect from a partner who told you what he likes and then likes other thing afterall. Lines exist for a reason, and im not to strict because of my issues, people communicate by saying they like X, and im looking for X, then when we get along and stay togeher have sex several times, the person tells me they like X and Y and that I should like Y to satisty them? Im not the wrong one here. All my life i was a bottom, even when a Top tell me he is a top/versatile, I lose interest, because when I imagine a top taking in the ass it turns me off.
You dont seem to want to understand me. I already confirmed you arent wrong. Just you are being too strict and narrow-minded with black and white thinking.

That you didnt understand what I meant about an empathy exercise cements to me that you aren't able to or are unwilling to see anything outside of your personal point of view or refuse to try.

Ah well. Notice how most of us are just fine with things and you seem upset? Not to be mean but, this seems like a YOU problem. But funnily enough I bet you think its eveyone else's problem because they dont conform to your very strict and very assuming perspectives and expectations.

Notice i never said you should be okay with it and try. Notice I never said he should ask you to top. Notice I never said that its wrong or bad of you to want 101% tops. Just that if the mere mentioning or asking once in 15 years is enough to break up, Its CLEARLY a you problem and overreaction
 
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You dont seem to want to understand me. I already confirmed you arent wrong. Just you are being too strict and narrow-minded with black and white thinking.

That you didnt understand what I meant about an empathy exercise cements to me that you aren't able to or are unwilling to see anything outside of your personal point of view or refuse to try.

Ah well. Notice how most of us are just fine with things and you seem upset? Not to be mean but, this seems like a YOU problem. But funnily enough I bet you think its eveyone else's problem because they dont conform to your very strict and very assuming perspectives and expectations.

Notice i never said you should be okay with it and try. Notice I never said he should ask you to top. Notice I never said that its wrong or bad of you to want 101% tops. Just that if the mere mentioning or asking once in 15 years is enough to break up, Its CLEARLY a you problem and overreaction
not really, maybe im the one talking about it and pointing out, in reality i have talked about this with other bottoms and they agree with me, the thing is bottoms can have sex with versatiles sometimes but cant form a relationship as there are sexual incompatibilities which a bottom CANT give the pleasure a versatile demands for, so when I get a Top that ask me the same thing a Versatile would ask, then that it will not work out because as a bottom we cant provide that, i tried to top my ex once or twice in 15 years and my dick doesnt even get hard, it only gets hard when my anal zone is being worked out this is what being a bottom is.