I'd have to say it's definitely a blessing. I'm good-looking, tall (6'3"), well-built (190 lbs), athletic (former high school and college football player). I've found that the combination has landed me more chicks in a week than most guys get in their entire lifetime. It's also helped in my social life and business. I'm usually the leader in any group and I've been promoted faster and further than my abilities would warrant. I've leapfrogged past guys equally or better equipped (hehe) for the job. (Since we have company-sponsored gym membership, I've can also attest they're much better equipped cock-wise.)
Studies support these advantages. Good-looking, taller, and more athletic guys have the edge, even on first impression. (Also, blondes, but I missed out there.) When I first went to work, my college football gave me an inside edge with many of my bosses socially. The studies also show that this holds true even for just going to a gym or just jogging.
. . .my cock can't cash the checks my looks write, haha. I've had very interested guys very obviously lose interest once they saw my barely-average (if that) cock. But, eh. People like my former friend would tell me to cry them a river about that, since at least I still get the dates or the come-ons. . .
True. I've heard the familiar surprised comment, "Your cock's much smaller than I'd expect for a guy your size." As I've explained many times to those curious about my success with women, it's due to my looks (and personality), not the size of my cock. If that were the case, I'd be a virgin.