Is it a turn on or turn off when you find out a woman has been with a bigger guy?

Is it a turn on or turn off when you find out a woman has been with a bigger guy?
If you were dating someone and found out their ex was really big, would that excite you or make you jealous/insecure?
It would be a turn off. And I would be concerned as to why she told me she'd been with a bigger guy... is she implying that she's disappointed about what I've got? I'm big, but not huge, so if she's saying she wants huge, well, I don't have that to offer.
 
sooo when I was younger I dated a guy who was like legit 7 feet tall. My bf asked about him, and started asking questions about our sexual history, how big he was etc. I was scared to answer because other guys I've dated have asked that kind of stuff and reacted really negatively, but my bf seemed to be really excited by it. He said he liked that I've had sex with endowed guys because "I know what I'm doing" or whatever lol.

If you were dating someone and found out their ex was really big, would that excite you or make you jealous/insecure?
The size of the previous partners/hookups,etc of the women I've been sexually involved with has come up, usually early in our sexual encounters. Just about every woman I've been with has mentioned how big I am when they are handling or sucking it for the first time (or the 50th time) or the 500th time) After almost 20 years, my wife still mentions my size almost every time we have sex.

When women have commented on my size when first getting to know each other sexually, I've said "Really?" and on occasion have asked what's the biggest they've had. Some of the women I've been with were very sexually experienced (a FWB loved sex so much she usually fucked guys she met on the first date). The responses from the women usually were that they had a few longer than me, but none (or very few) as thick as my cock (7" by 6"). A long term FWB said I was in her top 5 size-wise, and absolutely in her top 5 when it came to sexually satisfying her (out of 65+ men). I took that as a complement, as did any remarks made by other women including my now wife.

Did it turn me on that some of these women had larger partners in their past? No, as it was me that they were with, me that they were expressing their sexual desires with, and me that was giving them sexual satisfaction. Was/is it a turn-on knowing I was the largest, or among the largest they've ever had? Yes, sure it was, but the reality is that the women I've been with were into me, the whole human being, and not just my cock. A larger cock can be a fun thing for a woman to experience, but only if the lovemaking skills and chemistry are there to ensure sexual satisfaction. (which has absolutely nothing to do with cock size!)
 
sooo when I was younger I dated a guy who was like legit 7 feet tall. My bf asked about him, and started asking questions about our sexual history, how big he was etc. I was scared to answer because other guys I've dated have asked that kind of stuff and reacted really negatively, but my bf seemed to be really excited by it. He said he liked that I've had sex with endowed guys because "I know what I'm doing" or whatever lol.

If you were dating someone and found out their ex was really big, would that excite you or make you jealous/insecure?
Me myself excited about it
 
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Soon to be married. Fiancee has some experience, I've only ever been with late wife. We're very open about our sexual histories.

She says that size has only ever been an issue when someone is too large, as in "you're not putting that into me;" otherwise size wasn't even on the list of reasons why she did or didn't enjoy sex with any of her partners.

So, no, her having had larger partners than me is neither a turn-off nor a turn-on. Her wanting to fuck ME is a turn-on.
 
The only time that has happened, she mainly talked about how he couldn't really get it up. That was kind of funny to me. The idea of a woman turning to me because another man is impotent is a turn on for sure.
 
I enjoy fucking self admitted size queen women…. I find it erotic knowing a big cock boyfriend plowed her before me.
 
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I think I would like to know and would be a turn on. It’s a bigger turn on if a girl says I am bigger than her ex too
It is a bigger turn on haha, I experienced this quite a lot while dating in my teens and 20s and hearing them tell you you’re bigger than their ex is very hot, always made me grow even bigger haha
 
It is a bigger turn on haha, I experienced this quite a lot while dating in my teens and 20s and hearing them tell you you’re bigger than their ex is very hot, always made me grow even bigger haha
lol. Definitely had a couple notice I grew bigger while inside them when they were talking about how much bigger and better I was.