I think that all of us are characters, but I don’t really think that everyone cares to be one in bed. One partner might have much more charisma and passion in the bedroom while the other partner displays most of it in person. And I really don’t know for sure about who’s turned on and who’s not when being verbal and role playing is a force. I think that we always want to do things sexually when and where it’s not appropriate (like at work for example). Of course, if you have enough of an adrenaline rush everyone knows their role and their lines, but how many of us are that kinky and freaky and crazy, trying that hard to lose our jobs? Why aren’t we that way in the bedroom? Why does that always seem like so much more of a production? Why does it seem like your partner gets off on talking about you in person to everyone else about your sexual activities, but he can’t seem to be that way during sex? What are your thoughts and what has been your personal experience in this area with your partner? Maybe it’s different for people that are aren’t committed to each other and are closer to just being casual in comparison to couples trying to spice things up. “Blah blah blah blah….yeah yeah yeah yeah…just shut up and fuck me!” WHAT?! 
Do you have erectile dysfunction now or are you turned on?
Do you have erectile dysfunction now or are you turned on?
