LPSG is really just a cock and balls oriented site. Being big really is not a prerequisite.
Is there a point for me to identify as anything but gay?
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Why do you have to label yourself? Be a good and compassionate man, and live your life without a label.I think many of us struggle with questions like this, and we needn’t. The discussions often confuse sexual orientation, with sexual tastes. I identify as gay, but there are plenty of man-on-man acts I don’t care for. And I have enjoyed the physical sensation of vaginal sex from time to time. But I’m oriented toward self-identified men. That’s persistent, and if I need to use a label (which, from time to time, I do) I will simply use the word gay. I don’t need to get into a detailed explanation of what flavor gay I am, or reveal the intricacies of what might turn me on at any given moment—not just because it’s TMI, but because ya never know what might tickle your fancy.
I don’t wish to speak on your behalf, but ”gay” or “homoflexible” would be the words I would use if I were you. Technically bisexual sounds a little too complicated for daily use, and forces others into in an in-depth analysis of what you do in the sack when they just want to know a little more about you for a social conversation. A simple gay feels more natural to me, and a little less self-absorbed.
I wouldn’t sweat it. Warmest wishes to you, my fine gay-man-who-doesb’t-like-dick-but-watches-pegging-and-likes-pussy-on-a-deep-voiced-woman. Did I leave anything out?
TIL what LP stands for lol i used this forum for a minute without ever knowing what LPSG stood for
That's how I see it too; genitals are just one aspect, albeit a very important aspect, but I like everything else about men for the most part. Aside from feet, assholes, dick and balls, I like everything about men, especially ass, thighs, and calves
Agreed. Muscles seem to actually be a more common theme than large cocks amongst the forums.
Like it is just a male-body centric site with lots of threads dedicated to all sorts of stuff.
a guy having a sexual release with another guy doesn’t mean he is gay or bisexual it’s just seen as sex with a guy!
I agree. Fetishes especially can take you weird places. Plus I think curiosity about other male bodies is kind of a normal thing that for whatever damn reason, most straight guys struggle with admitting. (probably because they think it makes them look weak, insecure, or gay)
My rule of thumb is the label is only useful when you pretty much are 100% only attracted to men or women. If you are unsure the easy answer is “What are you thinking about/looking at when you masterbate?” That is gonna be a key tell on your sexuality.
For me, I am 99.90 percent gay. I just love and focus on male bodies, real male bodies, penis pecs pretty faces and bubble butts all day long.
However, that 0.10% is my bizarre fetish for Hentai girls and defloweration stories. I cannot for the life of me explain why I will think about women and jerk off to this on occasion, but it is there. I is interesting that it 100% either hentai cartoons and erotica, so it is basically unachievable, ultra-feminine bodies with exaggerated breasts, thin waists and big asses. Exclusively.
I am much more diverse in my types of men and it has expanded over the years. Outside of twinks, that look too feminine and sometimes not even sexually mature, I am now liking all sorts of body types. And they are photos and videos of real men. Real men are what I bulge and ass watch.
So….I think saying I am bisexual is a falsity. I am pretty damn gay.
I don't think you being bisexual here is false at all. It would be a very narrow slice... but it still isn't inaccurate. You also aren't taking into consideration the chance you could be attracted to a physical woman at some point, assuming she fits your standard. There are absolutely real women with the properties you described.
I think it's a choice at that point (of such an extreme sexuality gap) if someone wants to label themselves as bisexual or simply gay/str8 since the sexuality is so heavily slanted one way and it's just more "convenient" to be one of the other. I don't consider such labelling as being more valid or true though. That's just subjective for each person.
There are plenty of "mental bisexuals" who will choose to not call themselves that label for merely social or personal reasons. That have an even more balanced gender attraction than you have.
As dumb as this sounds, I will forever be grateful for this thread's existence. so much self-discovery came from it.
so much self-discovery came from it.I'm surprised there's no gay gatekeepers that usually plague these
Maybe as the world has become more intolerant in some ways, more flexible in others, we are decided to take it easy on ourselves?
Plus younger gays, if they identify as such, tend to just do whatever they fucking please and sometimes labels really matter to them, other times they chafe and are hostile to em. I say good for them. Life is for living and experiencing not being defined, boxed, and confined into a space. Leave that to the endless demographers and market-focused robots in their endless attempts to find a niche and make a quick buck.
You are into trans people. You are not gay, you strongly dislike penis. You are not bisexual because you don't particularly like cis men or cis women.
More specifically you like men who have had genital reassignment.
There are labels for that but it's up to you what you prefer.
Labels are for cans but sometimes it's handy to have one so others can know what's inside.
More specifically you like men who have had genital reassignment.
There are labels for that but it's up to you what you prefer.
Labels are for cans but sometimes it's handy to have one so others can know what's inside.
Reverse gynandromorphophile XD
what would that be then? Androgynomorphophilia?
AGMP for short ;3
what would that be then? Androgynomorphophilia?
AGMP for short ;3
I want to say that in theory I do like penis, but in practice I don't. I dislike anal sex (although I like watching pegging) vehemently and I only am attracted to penis if I imagine myself as a woman, which for the vast majority of my porn consumption is what I do. It's not simply about being submissive or being a bottom but it's particularly the vaginal aspect part that makes me fantasise about it.
From a romantic standpoint I did just realise recently that I am almost always not attracted to cis men and I tend to be attracted to trans men or genderqueer men who are amab. And I do find myself more into women romantically than men but the fact that I'm not attracted to women aside from genitalia always stops that pretty quick
You really should stop watching porn and get a therapist you sound like a mess
Are you also confident you yourself are not transgender in any way? Have you actively confirmed a diagnosis of gender dysphoria or experienced feelings of incongruence outside of a sexual context?
"You really should stop watching porn" says the bloke on a porn website
I assure you I am less of a mess than a bozo like yourself projecting and trying to act holier-than-thou on LPSG of all places
I do have gender dysphoria but it's more so how I'm perceived rather than anything innate if that makes sense, but I enjoy looking male and I've never had the desire to look like a woman. At most I'd just want to be a guy with a pussy but it's not that intense of a desire where I think I'd want a vaginoplasty (plus those surgeries are pretty underdeveloped anyways). I enjoy having a dick for all intents and purposes
My gender dysphoria is more so I don't feel man enough (visually) rather than I want to be a woman
It is a mere question. It's not causing me distress or problems. Whatever else you read into it is coming from your brain and not mine, hence why I said you were projecting
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