Is tightness really a thing for men?

My girlfriend's pussy is snug but not tight. And when she's all juiced up it's awesome to slide my cock into her. It's like being in warm honey. But when I'm all the way in, she likes to exercise her pussy muscles and give it a squeeze. That just makes me harder.
Guys who claim to prefer a dry pussy either don't have much experience of fucking or it's some sort of macho thing — they also probably boast that they never use lube for anal because it's "unmanly."
Exactly! Lube is a great thing! Even though I've had girlfriends who got quite wet very easily, fucking with a condom, or for more than just 5-10 minutes lead to dryness and chaffing, which is not good. I found that applying the right lube ensure that we could have uninterrupted sex without causing any dry friction problems. With lube, I've been able to slide my 7 by 6 inches balls deep on the initial stroke most of the time. The look in their eyes, the intake of breath, as their body reacts to being "filled up" is priceless and amazing every single time of the thousands of times I've experienced it!
 
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I don’t think it’s a thing. If she is ”too tight” to get your cock in, you are not doing foreplay right.
 
Exactly! Lube is a great thing! Even though I've had girlfriends who got quite wet very easily, fucking with a condom, or for more than just 5-10 minutes lead to dryness and chaffing, which is not good. I found that applying the right lube ensure that we could have uninterrupted sex without causing any dry friction problems. With lube, I've been able to slide my 7 by 6 inches balls deep on the initial stroke most of the time. The look in their eyes, the intake of breath, as their body reacts to being "filled up" is priceless and amazing every single time of the thousands of times I've experienced it!

Fuck yea dude that's how it's done. Work with what she needs, I always keep lube in the bedside table so I'm ready if she needs more.
 
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For years, I’ve heard friends and seen on social media or various forums, talk of how a woman’s tightness is a deal breaker. This really contradicts what science or our gynaes tell us. So what’s the tea gentlemen? Honest answers please. I’m genuinely curious.
Well if someone is on the internet claiming that a "woman's tightness" is a deal breaker. Then they just outed themselves as someone with a small or girth-less penis. Or they are some adolescent or grownup who is sexually inexperienced and/or who has never had sex before.

I've been to couples events and seen some absolutely stunning women. Is any experienced and/or mature man really thinking about her "tightness" at that point.
 
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I've been with lots of women from all walks of life, ethnics, and all shapes/sizes... and what I've noticed is that there are varying degrees of tightness/looseness but never so tight that my penis won't go in or never too loose that I can't feel anything. I was always able to work with what she had and we always had a good time.

I've fucked women whom were into fisting right after my whole hand was in there and it felt great to me and to her as well... go figure. :neutral::p:D

To the OP, don't fret over tightness, most men are just happy to get some pussy and won't complain, ever.
 
My girlfriend's pussy is snug but not tight. And when she's all juiced up it's awesome to slide my cock into her. It's like being in warm honey. But when I'm all the way in, she likes to exercise her pussy muscles and give it a squeeze. That just makes me harder.
Guys who claim to prefer a dry pussy either don't have much experience of fucking or it's some sort of macho thing — they also probably boast that they never use lube for anal because it's "unmanly."
Who the fuck would prefer a dry pussy??
Totally agree on the squeezing thing, I'm not bothered about tightness (O'm pretty thick anyway so never a problem!) it is the rubbing against he that makes me cum so doesn't matter how tight it is, but yeah, when I feel it getting squeezed it really turns me on! I usually tell my partner when I'm going to cum and she squeezes my cock when i ejaculate
 
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Tightness? I dunno. I do know that regardless of how tight a women feels around me, they dont all feel the same. And depending on the partner certain positions will feel better or worse. When I fuck my wife from behind, I could blow my load in like 30 seconds if I let it. That’s not the case with almost every other women I dated before her.

Visually, I smaller or tighter pussy looks nicer to me. Love seeing the lip grip, but that’s so subjective and not anything I’d hold against a partner.
 
It's definitely a factor! I had one girlfriend who yes, we had to break up because of size incompatibility. It was effin' painful for both of us. My penis was raw and red, yes we used lube, just she was very very petite and it wasn't a match. Her honest size preference was 4"x4". Another girlfriend had a quite loose one and it was very fun, we could fuck for hours and hours. My wife now is quite tight, enough to make us both cum in about 5-20 minutes depending and it's a good balance.
 
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I would be a little concerned having a smaller penis if it is too loose her or i will feel nothing. If i cant make her happy then its just not going to work.
 
Never worried about tight or loose as far as the woman went because those that were loose were VERY oral oriented! I mostly worried about hitting th right spots when we screwed and bu no means am against a woman giving me a hint or two because it's her physic and I want her to be happy, for the most part it's always gone good! I love blow jobs specially when thw woman knows what she's doing as in keeping me on the edge, that's a gift specially to the man. I do that same to my woman also and love a woman that's a good face sitter. that's a gift to the man also. the taste-the scent-and her quivering when she lets go mmmm!
 
Some women are looser than others, but I've bulled for many couples over the years when they were not able to feel their husbands and their "tightness" wasn't being fulfilled. What might be tight for some men is loose for others.
 
For years, I’ve heard friends and seen on social media or various forums, talk of how a woman’s tightness is a deal breaker. This really contradicts what science or our gynaes tell us. So what’s the tea gentlemen? Honest answers please. I’m genuinely curious.
Lets put it this way - its better than rolling a Woodbine up Regents Street or a Marlboro up Broadway
 
For years, I’ve heard friends and seen on social media or various forums, talk of how a woman’s tightness is a deal breaker. This really contradicts what science or our gynaes tell us. So what’s the tea gentlemen? Honest answers please. I’m genuinely curious.
I actually prefer a looser pussy. I like to fuck hard and I find that women that are tighter have a difficult time lasting. My wife was very tight when we first started dating, but she was extremely wet, which helped a lot. Now after 3 kids and taking me for years, she does her keegles so she can squeeze it when she wants, but it is a more enjoyable size. I do love the initial stretch when she adjusts to my girth though.
 
Thank you for this! I agree with this totally. The sucky part is that where I’m from, men make such a big deal about it and some of them resort to either cruel unkind rhetoric toward their partners or weird bedroom behaviour. I appreciate the validation that I’m not crazy lol
You're not crazy! I wouldn't make a big deal about it at all. Every woman is unique and desirable, and for me the only aspect that makes a small difference is whether she can fit my whole length.
 
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I actually prefer one once it starts to loosen up! At first they are too tight but once a few strokes in and the get lose its much more enjoyable for me!
 
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For years, I’ve heard friends and seen on social media or various forums, talk of how a woman’s tightness is a deal breaker. This really contradicts what science or our gynaes tell us. So what’s the tea gentlemen? Honest answers please. I’m genuinely curious.
I'm uncircumcised so tightness can be an issue for me. However, it's not a deal breaker or a big deal, have to get the woman excited and things work themselves out, you dig.
 
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