Same it happened to me a few times when I first came out, the only type I stopped dating afterwards where straight girls and guys who identified as straight especially for that reason. Bi and Pan girls are fine they dont have that issue but the guys, while I will still date them too, I gotta know where you stand on that subject Like if people's own judgment of your life bothers you to the point you cant only date/sleep with me in secret then no not interested then they get offended when you tell them that. Look I had my coming out already and while I'd never rush anyone else's Im also not going back in with you even with a revolving door
that wink is very well placed. guys like that are always doing that crap cause they think lgbtq men are into every guy they see.
You explained everything I was trying to say.
But I am closeted (I'm not coming out; I'm way too private).
I am pansexual & male leaning - dating women never worked out for me, so I've dated men ever since.
In fact, my last exes were bisexual and closeted (they both have their own LPSG threads) and they cheated on me and they're both secretive alcoholics.
When I discovered those things, I ghosted them.
We only dated for 3 months and all three of us moved on.
They were attracted to me, until I called them out on LPSG for OnlyFans scams; they saw my posts and quickly started gossiping about me without mentioning my name.
One of their statements: "One thing I don't like is s*** talkers."
You're manipulating women on OnlyFans and you think I'm fake?
Regardless, all that's in the past now.
As I said, all 3 of us moved on eons ago.
I'm polyamorous with 2 boyfriends (and looking for 2 more, honestly) and they're still dating women & manipulating their female fans into thinking they're not bisexual (I'm the first guy they ever dated - from 26 May 2023 to 9 September 2023).