Joey Roman
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is this a holiday snap?. Imagine just laying at the side of the pool having Jonathan jumping into the pool for entertainment.
is this a holiday snap?. Imagine just laying at the side of the pool having Jonathan jumping into the pool for entertainment.
I think those swim briefs are cut quite high at the back…is this a holiday snap?. Imagine just laying at the side of the pool having Jonathan jumping into the pool for entertainment.
They look a bit small for his cheeks but am not complaining.I think those swim briefs are cut quite high at the back…
If anyone wants to private chat Jonathan PM meThey look a bit small for his cheeks but am not complaining.
If that is his bf, the bf is punching way above.
I prefer to arrange it "actor"I prefer to arrange it married gay actor.
He’s in a Phoebe Waller-Bridge sitcom called Crashing… Trust me, if you’re a fan of Bailey, it’s definitely worth watchingI’ve been obsessed about everything Jonathan since Bridgerton season 2 came out.
already watched all of the videos I could find on YouTube, listened to his songs from musicals on Spotify. Now I’m watching Crashing on Netflix.
What else Jonatan related could I watch ??
You just didn't even read the post before replying to it, did you.He’s in a Phoebe Waller-Bridge sitcom called Crashing… Trust me, if you’re a fan of Bailey, it’s definitely worth watching![]()
Oh.. sorry! My badYou just didn't even read the post before replying to it, did you.
It's okay, you reminded me to watch it!Oh.. sorry! My bad![]()
I agree from a career standpoint tbh, the fact the interview turns to Jonathan Bailey as an example - who isn't a 'film star' - proves the casting director's point imo. I can't think of a single gay male actor who is given the opportunity to carry a feature film as the 'star'. That doesn't mean they don't have careers at all and there are many other reasons to come out that potentially outweigh the impact it will have on your career.What do you think?
I guess he isn't wrong on the descriptive facts of the matter. There are basically no openly gay "leading men". I think his prescriptions are awful though, essentially telling guys to perpetuate the same awful taboos.21. Finally, Joel's advice to gay actors in leading man roles? Don't come out.
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One of the things that interested me about your book is that you talk a lot about being a gay man in the industry. What kinds of things are actors told to keep to themselves, and do you think that's a good thing or a bad thing?
Joel: I think, for some reason, you can be a female movie star and be an out lesbian... Probably because straight men find lesbians "interesting". However, there is not one single out gay movie star. Television, yes, you have people like Matt Bomer and Neil Patrick Harris (although he grew up in front of our eyes, so he doesn't count). But name me one out gay movie star in feature films ever. There is none! I think the closest we ever got was Richard Chamberlain, but he came out after a certain point when his career was kind of over.
I think it's because of the tremendous amount of money involved in feature films, and the suspension of disbelief. That disbelief totally disappears on stage, but it doesn't translate to movies. I guess I would urge, if you are a handsome leading man on track to becoming a movie star, keep it to yourself. Do not come out.
I do think things are changing though – do you know who Jonathan Bailey is, for instance?
Joel: No.
Well, he's gonna be in the new Wicked film.
Joel: Is he Fiyero? Fiyero is not the star of the show. I think there are two other people in Wicked who have more important parts. Also, you can be gay as Fiyero. You're in a silly costume and you're not the *star* star! Anyway, that's my two cents, as saddening as it is.
Link: "Do Not Come Out" – We Asked A Hollywood Casting Director Whatever We Wanted, And The Answers Are Shocking
What do you think?
I hope someone like Jonathan can break through. He pretty much played the 'leading man' role in Bridgerton, with plenty of women lusting after him regardless that he is gay. It will be examples such as this which will hopefully change casting directors minds and allow the trailblazers to remove this taboo.I guess he isn't wrong on the descriptive facts of the matter. There are basically no openly gay "leading men". I think his prescriptions are awful though, essentially telling guys to perpetuate the same awful taboos.
We need guys like Jonathan to hopefully break that cycle and help dismantle the Hollywood closet altogether. Things won't ever change if actors took this guys advice though.
But some people don't wanna be trailblazers or take risks and that's their right I suppose. It's a lot of pressure to bear and it doesn't help that the Hollywood media just reduces you to your sexuality a lot of the time.
I think a lot of LGBTQIA baby boomers bear deep and painful old wounds that come out like this. Would you look at this world like it’s over, in his shoes? Like we won?21. Finally, Joel's advice to gay actors in leading man roles? Don't come out.
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Tim P. Whitby / NBCU Photo Bank / NBCUniversal / Via Getty Images
One of the things that interested me about your book is that you talk a lot about being a gay man in the industry. What kinds of things are actors told to keep to themselves, and do you think that's a good thing or a bad thing?
Joel: I think, for some reason, you can be a female movie star and be an out lesbian... Probably because straight men find lesbians "interesting". However, there is not one single out gay movie star. Television, yes, you have people like Matt Bomer and Neil Patrick Harris (although he grew up in front of our eyes, so he doesn't count). But name me one out gay movie star in feature films ever. There is none! I think the closest we ever got was Richard Chamberlain, but he came out after a certain point when his career was kind of over.
I think it's because of the tremendous amount of money involved in feature films, and the suspension of disbelief. That disbelief totally disappears on stage, but it doesn't translate to movies. I guess I would urge, if you are a handsome leading man on track to becoming a movie star, keep it to yourself. Do not come out.
I do think things are changing though – do you know who Jonathan Bailey is, for instance?
Joel: No.
Well, he's gonna be in the new Wicked film.
Joel: Is he Fiyero? Fiyero is not the star of the show. I think there are two other people in Wicked who have more important parts. Also, you can be gay as Fiyero. You're in a silly costume and you're not the *star* star! Anyway, that's my two cents, as saddening as it is.
Link: "Do Not Come Out" – We Asked A Hollywood Casting Director Whatever We Wanted, And The Answers Are Shocking
What do you think?