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No offense. But did he have to come out for us to know he was fruity considering how he looks and acts lmaoooo I knew he was a fellow fruit the moment I saw his face. Hearing him talk kinda solidified it for me. But I mean this in a good way, I am happy that he is fruity.
 
Am I obtuse, or do I really not understand his messaging on his sexuality. As far as I can gather he made that ambiguous statement which amounted to trying to say he’s not not queer, but that’s about it. Is he just not into labels or still figuring things out? Has he expressly said “I am gay/queer”? I’m not saying he’s queerbaiting, but the ambiguity has me confused.
 
Am I obtuse, or do I really not understand his messaging on his sexuality. As far as I can gather he made that ambiguous statement which amounted to trying to say he’s not not queer, but that’s about it. Is he just not into labels or still figuring things out? Has he expressly said “I am gay/queer”? I’m not saying he’s queerbaiting, but the ambiguity has me confused.
He's basically said he is lgbtq but he hasn't sorted out his label and doesn't really feel pressed to do it

Loads of people have been super harmed by it and sworn he's damaged their entire existence by not choosing one of the three 'acceptable' labels

Can't be arsed to be upset myself
 
Am I obtuse, or do I really not understand his messaging on his sexuality. As far as I can gather he made that ambiguous statement which amounted to trying to say he’s not not queer, but that’s about it. Is he just not into labels or still figuring things out? Has he expressly said “I am gay/queer”? I’m not saying he’s queerbaiting, but the ambiguity has me confused.

Yes, he's essentially remaining label free and perhaps suggesting that he's still questioning.

This isn't uncommon amongst LGBTQ+ youth. I think this will be the prevalent attitude going forward via the TikTok generation. There's a mystery and intrigue about it which people find interesting.

There's also the attitude of taking things as they come, leaving things open to change in the future, and not categorising others, which I think younger people are adopting in an effort to eschew what they perceive as inflexible views from narrow-minded older generations. (I know I'm generalising, but I think that's the gist of it for a noticeable amount of both queer and straight youth, myself included).
 
There's also the attitude of taking things as they come, leaving things open to change in the future, and not categorising others, which I think younger people are adopting in an effort to eschew what they perceive as inflexible views from narrow-minded older generations. (I know I'm generalising, but I think that's the gist of it for a noticeable amount of both queer and straight youth, myself included).

This. And given the ever expanding number of letters in the alphabet to label oneself with and the ever expanding number of ways to define one's gender, it's probably smarter to avoid offending anyone accidentally by avoiding a label. Especially when you're part of Gen Z.

He definitely likes guys. I think we've established that much. Why are we so worried about it?
 
Am I obtuse, or do I really not understand his messaging on his sexuality. As far as I can gather he made that ambiguous statement which amounted to trying to say he’s not not queer, but that’s about it. Is he just not into labels or still figuring things out? Has he expressly said “I am gay/queer”? I’m not saying he’s queerbaiting, but the ambiguity has me confused.
He’s basically just called himself a member of the LGBTQ community. Good enough for me, really. At the beginning of the whole thing it seemed like he maybe got caught queerbaiting, but he seems pretty genuine in saying that he’s still figuring it out.
 
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