Just Found Out Al Parker Was Actually Bisexual; don't know how to feel

[alpha_centauri]

You and me both. In my life,I was always like "nah, boyfriends aren't for me" until I meant my first boyfriend although he was a transman and in the early stages of transitioning when we met and till date,he's still the only man I have ever been with as I couldn't be with a cis man because of my physical disgust of the male or masculine body,gay porn is super hot to me but when it comes to do the deed physically with a cis man,I can't as I puked the first and last time I was with a one (I owe that to the horrors and traumas I faced from conversion therapy in Nigeria though that made me feel nothing but disgust for the male form) but part of the reason I was closed to it was also the masculine and dominant over the submissive dynamic in same sex relationships,I have never been submissive before and I have always been curious about that dynamic in same sex relationships,like I see a same sex hypermasculine couple and I will just be wondering "how on earth does it work for them?","who cooks and cleans?", questions like these just pop into my head but I found out I was heteronormalizing same sex relationships which is why I couldn't see myself being romantic with a man. Fast forward to today,it's the exact opposite,I am beginning to even feel romantic towards men more and I want a boyfriend badly and a cis man at that,I want to submit to a man in all ramifications (first time i'm admitting this to myself as I associate submission with shame, feminity and weakness) and I want a man worthy of that submission

Why do you have disgust about men or the male body?

I don't have disgust or revulsion unless a man or woman is morbidly obese, anorexic, does not practise basic hygiene, chain smokes or vapes non-stop, is a hard drug addict that is the type that wants others to get addicted just like they are, is extremely strung out from drugs or lack of sleep, and not sorry the bareback porn with guys who have AIDS or are close to it all strung out on methamphetamine and having unsafe sex is a turn off.

Facial tattoos and piercings are not nasty to me. I have none and do not want any. I am from the time when only men in the military or ex military, prisoners/ex-convicts, criminals, and bikers or guys in motorcycle clubs had them.

IF you have anal sex with men or get into sex kinks such as submission use condoms avoid sex with anyone who wants it unsafe-I don't care if the guy or woman claims she or he is "neg" and on prep or shows just 1 recent test that at the time says she or he is neg, and be extremely picky and careful who you have anal sex with, don't swallow cum, and even more careful who you do bondage and discipline with.

 

[Jeffer2580]

Why do you have disgust about men or the male body?

I don't have disgust or revulsion unless a man or woman is morbidly obese, anorexic, does not practise basic hygiene, chain smokes or vapes non-stop, is a hard drug addict that is the type that wants others to get addicted just like they are, is extremely strung out from drugs or lack of sleep, and not sorry the bareback porn with guys who have AIDS or are close to it all strung out on methamphetamine and having unsafe sex is a turn off.

Facial tattoos and piercings are not nasty to me. I have none and do not want any. I am from the time when only men in the military or ex military, prisoners/ex-convicts, criminals, and bikers or guys in motorcycle clubs had them.

IF you have anal sex with men or get into sex kinks such as submission use condoms avoid sex with anyone who wants it unsafe-I don't care if the guy or woman claims she or he is "neg" and on prep or shows just 1 recent test that at the time says she or he is neg, and be extremely picky and careful who you have anal sex with, don't swallow cum, and even more careful who you do bondage and discipline with.

I went through an intense form of conversion therapy that was physically, mentally, spiritually and psychologically draining as a kid to teenager in my home country of Nigeria,I literally went through hell. Just imagine tying an 8 year old naked to a tree and whipping him with a whip that was soaked in pepper for hours under the rain while telling him to chant how much he hates the masculine body in my ethnic language as a ritual to get rid of that "homosexual spirit" and then when the sun comes up, pepper is put on your privates while you are still left naked under the sun to starve for three days, that's just a snippet of what I went through till my late teens and I wouldn't even pray for my enemy to experience something like that

Thanks for the sex ed dad lol.......but seriously, thanks............this is what I would've expected from the monster I call a father but it was the monster that orchestrated the whole thing

 

[Wallow]

Ok turning this conversation back to Al Parker. If anyone knew him personally did he date women during his career or after or men?

 

[8Cylinder]

Maybe African men actually living in Africa but there are a lot of black men in the US who are on the "down low" lol

I have a problem with this statement. Categorically, anyone of any race born in the United States of America is a US Citizen and American. Conversely, whites born in Africa are categorically African, and to deny this on any level is inherently racist. I personally see only people when I meet them, regardless of their skin, complicated identities, sexuality, pronouns, or rocket engineer complicated self-identified gender. Today's vogue is to attempt to confuse society and erase any sort of allegiance to turf... an insult to those of color who fought and lost their lives to allow you the freedom to post opinions of all forms here.

I'm an American living in Italy. I was not born here, and not a citizen of this country. Ahead I will become an Italian citizen... but I cannot imagine being regarded only as American had I been born here due to my parents' emigration from the US. Let's stop all the finger pointing.

 

[8Cylinder]

Have u realized there's a certain quality (i wouldn't describe it as hyper masculinity, it's just something special) that bisexuals have that 100% gay men just don't have?
Even if they are not really bi and just gay-for-pay or in real life they are just experimenting, it has happened to me... they behave sexually in a quite special way which makes them more appealing.

And yes, I do understand this is about Al Parker... but I can isolate what they do with men from what they do with bitches... the fact that he could fuck bitches really shouldn't bother u... he was so much of a man so why be selfish?

Al Parker and most men in porn of his era were very masculine. I am not alone whatsoever in being 100% gay and also completely masculine. For this I've been accused of playing a role, not owning up to my so-called gay identity, and sundry other tragic misconcepts which illustrate again the general sexual immaturity of American society.

Just allow people to be how and what they are, please. Is there no longer any freedom for working as you choose, where and how you choose without being hung out to dry? Seriously, this forum reads like a pious 1950's Christian Women's Abstinence Society. Horrid.

 

[KulaDangerous23]

Y'all are so biphobic

 

[HeroSignalCosplay]

Having read his biography wherein he says he stopped liking women I don’t think I’m being biphobic

why did he stopped, did something happen or did he just like men more?

 

[BadMan125]

I don’t see the big deal here. Many prominent men in the LGBT community are bisexual. Maybe he preferred men but also loved women. Nothing wrong with that. He’s still a legend in our community and in gay porn. May he RIP.

 

[Enron]

I jerked off to one of his videos last night, 'Flashback'. I am a huge admirer of his and always turn to his videos when I want the perfect happy ending. My all time favorite is that one with him in that jeep, I believe the other guy is Buck Stevens, man, the cum at the end is mind blowing, but its the continued licking and sucking of Al's cock that sends my head spinning and my tool dripping. Its like you become one with Al when watching it.

He captured an element that's missing in gay porn for decades now, especially Only Fans content. That sense of eroticism and ecstasy. Its almost like simulation was a key focus of the videos. For instance, the scenes where Al would perform oral, you would see the initial real time ejaculation, but then the slow reel while Al sticks his erect tongue out then tickles the frenulum and glans with more spurts then deep throats the cock. You know for the receiver that must have felt good!

I also noticed this technique from other actors who were in Surge Studio videos like "Dangerous" and "Doing it".

 

[ZuhayrKhan27]

So I discovered a very rare 1985 interview of Al Parker online, originally featured in the first issue of Torso. It's a lengthy interview, and within Al Parker sort of revealed his bisexuality. Here's roughly what I found.

1. When he was working at Playboy, he met many beautiful girls and was sexually interested in them, though he was in the meantime becoming more and more attracted to men. The only reason he apparently became not "turned on" by women was because they weren't centerfold candidate for Playboy.

2. He said he'd enjoying doing a straight porn, and wouldn't find it difficult because he enjoyed being with women and saw women sexually once in a while by having a threesome involving him, his male partner, and the woman; and that he find it enjoying to fuck a female. (He also auditioned for Playboy which certainly would involve having sex with a female model.)

Even though in the interview he said he came out as gay to his roommate and said he enjoyed being with a male. I'm not even getting into the fact that he had girlfriends before becoming a gay pornstar (because frankly, I think many gay men back then did have girlfriends).

I'm not biphobic or anything, and I certainly don't think less of him or think him less attractive because of this revelation. However, because I fantasized or idolized him as the rarest gold-star gay god who only had sex with men... well let's just say i won't see him that way anymore.
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It's not so bad buddy. I identified as gay until I married heterosexuality and discovered that I can have sex with a woman and actually enjoy it. I am still mostly attracted to men, and my wife is the only woman I have ever had sex with. Sexuality is fluid. I guess I was bisexual always, with my attraction towards men clouding the attraction to opposite sex. I guess Al Parker may have been same.

 

[Goldstargay]

It's not so bad buddy. I identified as gay until I married heterosexuality and discovered that I can have sex with a woman and actually enjoy it. I am still mostly attracted to men, and my wife is the only woman I have ever had sex with. Sexuality is fluid. I guess I was bisexual always, with my attraction towards men clouding the attraction to opposite sex. I guess Al Parker may have been same.

Your whole post is entirely homophobic. It’s certainly not a head scratcher why gay men reject bi-men.