Kink/fetish in a relationship

[superboi9]

I’m in a great long term relationship, but there’s one thing I’m hiding. I have a few kinks/fetishes that are on the more extreme side and don’t know how or if i should bring it up to my partner.

I’ve always been on the more curious side of sex and it’s only been until more recently that I’ve found new kinks extremely enticing. Through porn, this site and my “alone time” I’ve been trying some things out, but feel torn. On one side, these new discoveries of mine bring me enjoyment, but on the other side I’m still exploring and don’t feel comfortable bringing it up with my partner just yet. Sometimes it feels like it would be easier if I already knew these things about me and could have brought it up from the beginning or if I had someone to explore this kinky side, but happily in a monogamous relationship.

Any thoughts or advice would be great!

 

[Kinglmao]

Just tell your partner you wanna try some new things and see if he’s into it

 

[elklindoxxx]

I’m in a great long term relationship, but there’s one thing I’m hiding. I have a few kinks/fetishes that are on the more extreme side and don’t know how or if i should bring it up to my partner.

I’ve always been on the more curious side of sex and it’s only been until more recently that I’ve found new kinks extremely enticing. Through porn, this site and my “alone time” I’ve been trying some things out, but feel torn. On one side, these new discoveries of mine bring me enjoyment, but on the other side I’m still exploring and don’t feel comfortable bringing it up with my partner just yet. Sometimes it feels like it would be easier if I already knew these things about me and could have brought it up from the beginning or if I had someone to explore this kinky side, but happily in a monogamous relationship.

Any thoughts or advice would be great!

Don't be shy....discuss it with your partner. Tell your partner that you want to experiment with something new. You'll be surprised to see the variety of sexual activities that couples engage in.

 

[HungBtmVegas]

Just have the conversation, they might have it too.

 

[superboi9]

Thanks everyone! Seems like I should probably bite the bullet.

Update:
Recently, he mentioned how he didn’t understand fisting (into) and golden showers (not quite into)…which has now made me second guess bringing it up

 

[Kinglmao]

Thanks everyone! Seems like I should probably bite the bullet.

Update:
Recently, he mentioned how he didn’t understand fisting (into) and golden showers (not quite into)…which has now made me second guess bringing it up

My ex boyfriend didn’t eat ass then he started to love doing it .

 

[fitzgerald123]

markb191763

 

[likitisplit]

talk. communicate. i don't know if it's a male or female you are with but after a long relationship, open communication has to be used.