Kit Connor

[LadyLena]

Hot couple if true

Definitely. And see I don’t know if they were dating before they both got parts for the new projects or what. I personally wouldn’t want to date my costar only because of all the drama that can surround it. But if they are allegedly dating, then I’m happy for them.

Nominated for an Emmy.

I know right. I’m excited for him and Joe. I hope that one of them do win. I feel like that right there would totally make their entire careers. Because I feel like right now? They could definitely use the confidence boost. I wish they could both win. Like Joe would win one category and Kit would win another. That would be great. The boys would be young Emmy winners. Imagine winning an Emmy at 18. No one would be able to tell me anything lol.

 

[jimjimfu]

I'm convinced the Heartstopper cast searches their names on Twitter and reads every single tweet because I have barely heard about this man for months.

Also, I feel like this should be a learning opportunity for the creators of the show. The show was heavily marketed as having all LGBT people working in front of and behind the cameras, even explicitly saying that the actors were cast to match the characters sexual orientation. So to then throw this kid out there on a media tour, and have him basically saying that may not be true was awkward and not well thought out.

I kind of find it funny that he came out the same day his openly gay co-star got cast in the MCU. Have a feeling he is only getting offered queer roles, and they're all only hiring people who are out of the closet - lord knows this man tweeted that out and started banging on Marvel's door dressed as Hulkling.

Yesss the marketing thing I super agree with, I think it was a big mistake and something that Netflix shouldn’t have done knowing they were dealing with such young people, some of who like Kit hadn’t come out yet publicly. It’s kind of like putting a target on all of their backs in my opinion.

 

[qavak0]

I don't think the production staff or the show's creator (Oseman) have been forceful enough with these parasocial fans, many of them (but not all) young and immature, who have now successfully terrorized at least three of the main cast off social media. It's fine to want to imbue soft and welcoming vibes into your work or work environment, but this isn't that environment and a firm line needs to be drawn on this kind of behavior early and strongly. The creator and the production are too permissive with these fans, too accommodating to emotional behavior and it's time to regulate.

 

[AdoptedCarrot]

As a bi-gay, still figuring himself out male, I truly feel sorry for Kit.

This is why I absolutely hate fandom, its often childish, creepy and toxic as. But also on the gay scene side of things, I have seen this sort of thing happen way to many times, even to non celebrities. This website is a big example of people trying to determine another persons sexuality, based on either stereotypes or fantasies. Or demanding "he should just admit it"

People regardless of their sexuality have every right in the world to figure things out for themselves, come out when they are comfortable, and not be shamed for choosing to stay in the closet. Imagine ousting someone who comes from a family with a violent homophobic father? Or a highly religious family? Not only have you potentially placed the persons well being at risk, but also likely made their life much harder.

People who are not out and so for a reason. Maybe they have not figured themselves out fully enough yet? It is a process that could take years. Maybe they are not so due to safety reasons? Or because they have a good life as it is, and know it may change things for the better? Coming out does not always make a persons life easier. Maybe they are not comfortable? Given the very judgemental society, I do not blame them one bit.

The idea that people MUST come out to "help the cause" is stupid. There are tons of openly queer people out there for people to look to as role models or help push causes. People in the closet, or unsure about their identity should not be looked at as lesser people purely because another person wants them to be a walking pride flag on legs. Nor does it mean they do not get the same equal rights as those fully out there who walk in pride marches. And also it does not mean that person is less proud about themselves than someone who is openly out.

I got harassed by an ex friend for so long. He would pick on me for choosing to stay in the closet and not be fully open. And would guilt trip me into feeling bad because "I can't be proud if I am not out", and that "I am not part of gay rights movements because I have not earned it". And lastly, as I said I was "bi" for most part, was told "there is no such thing, I either like one or the other, cannot be both. All bi guys end up gay"

I also think its stupid reading so many comments all the web, including here, over trying to guess peoples sexuality.
1. It's no ones freaking business what someone else is into
2. I have known guys so damn "feminine", and have all the gay "stereotypes" of sounding voice, mannerisms, hand movements, and interests. Now happily married to a female with a family. And I have seen people so "straight acting", and display the very toxic sides of masculinity, end up being fully gay. Never judge a book by its cover. How a person acts, who they hang out with, what posts they like on social media mean F all in the context of someones sexual identity. I mean I have straight mates who hang out with heaps of gays, and straight mates who have liked a hot models body picture. I mean you can still be straight and appreciate another males physique. After all many inside wish we were ripped or good looking.

And lastly, when people do no get there way. There is a popular, over used and misused word that gets thrown around as an insult and to guilt trip someone when people do no get their own way. Or when a straight person won't announce themselves as "gay" to fulfill your fantasies. Yes, the word Queer-baiting. See it on here a lot too. "Oh he won't post his dick on Only Fans" (despite them saying they only post body shots) "He has gay followers though" "I don't get what my entitled self wants, that I shall sook about it and call them a queer baiter"

Sadly Kits story will not be the last one like this. As long as people allow it to happen, instead of putting people in their place, there will be other people sadly stuck in Kits shoes.

 

[AdoptedCarrot]

Also, why does is the forum the only one in the world that does not allow editing any time? Picked up a couple of typos in my post and cant even edit to make sense.

"Or because they have a good life as it is, and know it may change things for the worse"

 

[sgt.smelly]

I have to say I'm really glad this is getting attention. So far, the discussion mostly seems to be rooted in an accurate understanding of what just happened: a queer teen was bullied online. Even though he's famous, attractive, sweet, well-spoken, and generally beloved, he still couldn't avoid the bullying.

Twitter sucks and is about to get worse as Musk allows more right-wing conspiracists back on. We're about to be flooded with creepy revisionist history about a lot of recent political events. I have a feeling LGBT issues are not going to get treated well in this new environment, and stuff like what happened with Kit are going to become an excuse to portray all queer people, or all Zoomers, as some kind of crazed zealots (this is projection, of course).

 

[Jacktemp7]

My thing is when I speculate or hope someone is gay or bi, it is just because I have a crush on them or really like them. Idk why, but its like, just makes me happy to have someone so good looking on our side. But people trying to force him to come out or being really vocal about speculation it is just wrong. Yeah I’m happy he’s bi in real life because that means there’s a .00000000000001% that we bump into each other and then fall madly in love, but this isn’t how I wanted to find out he was Bi. I would have been more than happy waiting a few years before he felt comfortable and came out on his own terms. People suck…

 

[seth67]

I feel so bad for Kit and worry for any very talented young actors that want to have (and should have) big star careers that have to navigate fandom and social media. This proves even if you stay away, like Kit tried to do, they'll come for whomever you're involved with and try to effect the success of your career and those you care about.

 

[LaFemme]

Please stop debating his sexuality in this forum.

The LPSG Moderating Team

 

[moreno28]

Please stop debating his sexuality in this forum.

The LPSG Moderating Team

Thanks!!!

 

[LoveOfLads]

*People trying to protect him and asking if he is okay....*
Of course he is okay... he is living life at peak privilege - he has the looks and status to attract any guy or girl that he fancies - putting up with a bit of crap from random people on the internet is hardly a significant downside compared to the massive upsides that his position in society affords him - he has an infinity of opportunities available to him, compared to any one of us, so it is probably more appropriate to direct our empathy towards a more worthy target than Kit Connor... Kit will be absolutely fine (to put it mildly)

 

[hornyscousebear]

*People trying to protect him and asking if he is okay....*
Of course he is okay... he is living life at peak privilege - he has the looks and status to attract any guy or girl that he fancies - putting up with a bit of crap from random people on the internet is hardly a significant downside compared to the massive upsides that his position in society affords him - he has an infinity of opportunities available to him, compared to any one of us, so it is probably more appropriate to direct our empathy towards a more worthy target than Kit Connor... Kit will be absolutely fine (to put it mildly)

It's not been a "bit of crap" though. Even now he is still getting hounded by utter morons who believe this is a publicity stunt.

Privilege (whatever you deem that to be) does not mean you will have sound mental health and it's utterly foolish and naive to think so.

 

[LoveOfLads]

It's not been a "bit of crap" though. Even now he is still getting hounded by utter morons who believe this is a publicity stunt.

Privilege (whatever you deem that to be) does not mean you will have sound mental health and it's utterly foolish and naive to think so.

Fair point. I've not been following the circus closely - I am sure there have been loads of dickheads, trolls and stalkers in his life, but at least he is able to get the hottest sex partners whenever he wants (heck, he's probably having a fun time as we speak haha)

 

[hornyscousebear]

Fair point. I've not been following the circus closely - I am sure there have been loads of dickheads, trolls and stalkers in his life, but at least he is able to get the hottest sex partners whenever he wants (heck, he's probably having a fun time as we speak haha)

I hope he is, he comes across as a really sweet guy but rather reserved compared to his cast mates. I think his sudden rise in fame might have been a bit overwhelming for him.

Whether he's having a fun time or not, just hoping he is okay and has a good support network around him.

 

[LoveOfLads]

I hope he is, he comes across as a really sweet guy but rather reserved compared to his cast mates. I think his sudden rise in fame might have been a bit overwhelming for him.

Whether he's having a fun time or not, just hoping he is okay and has a good support network around him.

Yes but he has everything in life, he doesn't need our sympathy lol

 

[LadyLena]

*People trying to protect him and asking if he is okay....*
Of course he is okay... he is living life at peak privilege - he has the looks and status to attract any guy or girl that he fancies - putting up with a bit of crap from random people on the internet is hardly a significant downside compared to the massive upsides that his position in society affords him - he has an infinity of opportunities available to him, compared to any one of us, so it is probably more appropriate to direct our empathy towards a more worthy target than Kit Connor... Kit will be absolutely fine (to put it mildly)

There’s so much wrong with you just said is unreal. So first of all, people can be concerned about him. He’s an 18-year-old kid (which at his age, and at that particular in his career, can be crucial) who just got outed. People shouldn’t have immediately assumed his sexuality just because he’s playing a queer character. That’s been happening for ages. Whether or not you are actually queer or straight, playing a queer character. The relentless hounding him about his sexuality was insane and straight up insensitive. No one should have to go through any of that. Like that’s definitely unfair. And deserves some sympathy.

And like people said, there is a 50-50 chance that this could hurt his career. Or it may not. He could eventually become a voice for bisexual young people. Especially bisexual men. Him and Ronen Rubinstein could definitely be some voices. And as for your, “he could have a lot of opportunities”, well, as a few have for pointed out, he may, or may not. We all know how Hollywood is towards the queer community. No matter where you are on spectrum. Some people have it better than others.

And as for that little “ so it is probably more appropriate to direct our empathy towards a more worthy target than Kit Connor... Kit will be absolutely fine (to put it mildly)”, yeah, that was kind of ignorant on your part. If that’s how you feel, then, maybe you shouldn’t be in this thread. Because we can feel sorry for him. Half of your comment, on second thought, all of your comment was incredibly insensitive and straight up wrong. Do better.

 

[LoveOfLads]

There’s so much wrong with you just said is unreal. So first of all, people can be concerned about him. He’s an 18-year-old kid (which at his age, and at that particular in his career, can be crucial) who just got outed. People shouldn’t have immediately assumed his sexuality just because he’s playing a queer character. That’s been happening for ages. Whether or not you are actually queer or straight, playing a queer character. The relentless hounding him about his sexuality was insane and straight up insensitive. No one should have to go through any of that. Like that’s definitely unfair. And deserves some sympathy.

And like people said, there is a 50-50 chance that this could hurt his career. Or it may not. He could eventually become a voice for bisexual young people. Especially bisexual men. Him and Ronen Rubinstein could definitely be some voices. And as for your, “he could have a lot of opportunities”, well, as a few have for pointed out, he may, or may not. We all know how Hollywood is towards the queer community. No matter where you are on spectrum. Some people have it better than others.

And as for that little “ so it is probably more appropriate to direct our empathy towards a more worthy target than Kit Connor... Kit will be absolutely fine (to put it mildly)”, yeah, that was kind of ignorant on your part. If that’s how you feel, then, maybe you shouldn’t be in this thread. Because we can feel sorry for him. Half of your comment, on second thought, all of your comment was incredibly insensitive and straight up wrong. Do better.

Your opinion is fine, but so is mine... don't be telling me to "do better" for expressing my opinion on the latest celebrity gossip cycle.

 

[tallyh0s]

There’s so much wrong with you just said is unreal. So first of all, people can be concerned about him. He’s an 18-year-old kid (which at his age, and at that particular in his career, can be crucial) who just got outed. People shouldn’t have immediately assumed his sexuality just because he’s playing a queer character. That’s been happening for ages. Whether or not you are actually queer or straight, playing a queer character. The relentless hounding him about his sexuality was insane and straight up insensitive. No one should have to go through any of that. Like that’s definitely unfair. And deserves some sympathy.

And like people said, there is a 50-50 chance that this could hurt his career. Or it may not. He could eventually become a voice for bisexual young people. Especially bisexual men. Him and Ronen Rubinstein could definitely be some voices. And as for your, “he could have a lot of opportunities”, well, as a few have for pointed out, he may, or may not. We all know how Hollywood is towards the queer community. No matter where you are on spectrum. Some people have it better than others.

And as for that little “ so it is probably more appropriate to direct our empathy towards a more worthy target than Kit Connor... Kit will be absolutely fine (to put it mildly)”, yeah, that was kind of ignorant on your part. If that’s how you feel, then, maybe you shouldn’t be in this thread. Because we can feel sorry for him. Half of your comment, on second thought, all of your comment was incredibly insensitive and straight up wrong. Do better.

Please stop beating this dead horse... at this point people could totally start posting pictures of horses, dead or alive, and it wouldn't be off topic.

This thread was just cleaned of this kind of dialogue yesterday.

 

[newcru]

I’ll be interested to see what other roles he goes after. I don’t want to see him pigeonholed into a certain type of role.

 

[LadyLena]

Please stop beating this dead horse... at this point people could totally start posting pictures of horses, dead or alive, and it wouldn't be off topic.

This thread was just cleaned of this kind of dialogue yesterday.

And that’s cool. But you did not reply to my comment at all. Like at all. We could’ve easily have just changed topics.

I’ll be interested to see what other roles he goes after. I don’t want to see him pigeonholed into a certain type of role.

same. I like to believe that he’ll get a lot of teenager parts for the time being. There’s never enough of those. And then as he gets older, he’ll probably start getting better ones.